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  • Is Your Partner Truly Present In Your Relationship? Are You?
    Is Your Partner Truly Present In Your Relationship? Are You?

    Relationships can be a revolving door, with partners never truly committing.

    Or sometimes long term relationships can peter out as communication comes to an end and distractions leak into your shared life.

    One or more people could have a ‘relationship’ with their phone, just constantly disconnected from their family. Or be seeking emotional and mental relief through online connection.

    What can you do to recognise these and other signs of disengaged relationships, and deal with them to restore health and balance into your partnership?

    Kimile has some suggestions, so tune and and begin to turn your around relationships.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952

    17 min
  • Is That New Person Relationship Ready? Advice looking for Red Flags and Pitfalls in New Romance
    Is That New Person Relationship Ready? Advice looking for Red Flags and Pitfalls in New Romance

    Have you found yourself in the warm glow of a fresh romance, but is your new partner ready for a healthy relationship?

    It may seem unfair to go into a relationship looking for problems but it’s important to be open and clear eyed about potential red-flags.

    Things like love bombing, when your new partner overwhelms you with gifts or affection can suggest a narcissist or someone who will abandon you onc ethe chase is over.

    Someone who lies may be unhappy in their life, or just enjoy playing games with your emotions, or manipulate you with fake illness.

    Or many other potential issues, some that can be dealt with, some that cannot, can terminally damage a relationship that seems ot have potential.

    So let Kimile tell you about what red flags to look for, what they mean, and how to deal with issues that arise.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952



    22 min
  • Coping with Loss and Staying Healthy

    Kimile is answering another relationship question from a listener this week, and it’s a big one!

    How does one deal with loss?

    Most people deal with loss by ignoring it and hoping they just feel better, but this is how you end up collapsing later when things seem to be going well or getting into a destructive cycle.

    Kimile will walk you through the ways loss manifests as unhealthy behaviours and how to face up to your grief so that you can get through it stronger and healthier.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952



    19 min
  • Rescuing Your Relationship When the Sparks Go Out

    Most relationships start out with the honeymoon period where everything is fresh and exciting, but what happens when the initial sparks fade and you’re faced with the reality of a relationship with another, complex human being?

    Often this is when the power struggles and fights start as traumas and burdens from the past start to manifest in the new relationship.

    But it’s possible to rebuild the connection into something stronger and more honest through open communication. Being honest with your partner and listening with an open mind and heart when they speak.

    Maybe you can continue a long and loving relationship, or maybe you can end the relationship with love and respect.

    Listen in this week and learn from Kimile’s experiences and knowledge to build a strong, healthy relationship.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952



    16 min
  • Relationship Q&A: Trust And Patience In Relationships
    Relationship Q&A: Trust And Patience In Relationships

    Kimile is hearing from a lot of people so she’s asking some more questions, covering topics like:

    • How to come to terms with a husband’s affair
    • What do you do when your husband doesn’t want you to change?
    • Has a trauma in a relationship meant your spouse is distrustful?
    • Is a cheater always a cheater?
    • How long does the new relationship phase last?
    • If two people in a relationship have been married before, how long should they wait before getting married themselves?
    • Should couples combine their finances?

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952


    27 min
  • Spotting a Predator: Mysterious Motivations And Love Bombing
    Spotting a Predator: Mysterious Motivations And Love Bombing

    CW: mention of child abuse, domestic violence

    Have you ever met someone who has given you a bad feeling, yet they have really pursued you with a slightly disturbing single-mindedness?

    Have you given them a chance?

    This episode Kimile talks about the perils and pitfalls of meeting the predator. How they can love-bomb and wear you down to put themselves in a position of being in your life for their own nefarious purposes.

    It can be tricky meeting new people, but maybe you should trust those first instincts.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952

    29 min
  • How Not To Get Rollercoastered: Dealing With A Partner Who Seems To Over-React Emotionally
    How Not To Get Rollercoastered: Dealing With A Partner Who Seems To Over-React

    Sometimes the people in our live, friends, family partners may seem to over-react or lash out at minor upsets.

    It may be as simple as being short of rest or needing a meal, but sometimes a person cannot be calmed down, and they seem determined to be angry at you

    Often in a secure relationship someone feels secure enough to begin to process trauma that can manifest as attacks on their partner. But how does the target deal with this?

    You may want to defend yourself, but this can be a mistake.

    Kimile will walk you through understanding your partner and helping them to cope with the traumas that they take out on you.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952


    27 min
  • Relationship Q&A: Picking Partners and Bad Exes

    CW: Mention of Child Abuse

    This episode Kimile is taking some questions! One writer has had a relationship fall apart and is wondering what they did wrong? Answer, nothing! But Kimile will give you a guide on avoiding falling for a relationship hustle.

    Another is facing divorce, but is stressed about lack or resources. Kimile has wisdom for that situation as well.

    Yet another is having problems with an aggressive and confrontational ex husband. Obviously this is a stressful thing to deal with, but is there more to the former partner’s behaviour?

    Listen in and see if you can learn something to equip you for healthier relationships.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952

    15 min
  • Why we pick our relationships

    This week Kimile shares the

    story of one of her clients, a young woman with a bad instinct for

    relationships, and Kimile will dig through why she selects harmful partners.

    She then will talk about how

    the relationships people have with their parents and loved ones have

    repercussions with their adult relationships in later life.


    Was a parent absent, or did

    they leave? What results will this have on the children.


    Or are you an adult who

    needs to be an example to your children?


    Buckle in and learn the

    wisdom that will prepare you and your children for healthy, fulfilling

    relationships.


    Work With Me


    If you want to make a

    positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I

    invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/  where

    we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome

    challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:


    Website:


    https://healwithkimile.com/


    My book is available on

    Amazon: 


    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952


     


     

    20 min
  • The Perils When Grandparents Become Primary Caretakers
    The Perils When Grandparents Become Primary Caretakers

    It’s sadly not that uncommon that tragic circumstances lead to grandparents needing to take care of their grandchildren. Often they feel like the logical ones to step in when their own children pass away leaving dependents.

    But it can be a minefield for the whole family as the usual grandparent/grandchild dynamic is thrown into conflict with the sometimes harder decisions parents need to make with their own children.

    Kids brought up with their grandparents can be spoiled and throw out other family relationship dynamics, and even inheritances.

    But Kimile has dealt with many such situations, so will help you develop a more balanced family dynamic in the face of loss and challenge.

    Work With Me

    If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

    Links and resources:

    Website:

    https://healwithkimile.com/

    My book is available on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952

    13 min

About Heal With Kimile

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Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.