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Relationships can be a revolving door, with partners never truly committing.
Or sometimes long term relationships can peter out as communication comes to an end and distractions leak into your shared life.
One or more people could have a ‘relationship’ with their phone, just constantly disconnected from their family. Or be seeking emotional and mental relief through online connection.
What can you do to recognise these and other signs of disengaged relationships, and deal with them to restore health and balance into your partnership?
Kimile has some suggestions, so tune and and begin to turn your around relationships.
Work With Me
If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:
Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
Have you found yourself in the warm glow of a fresh romance, but is your new partner ready for a healthy relationship?
It may seem unfair to go into a relationship looking for problems but it’s important to be open and clear eyed about potential red-flags.
Things like love bombing, when your new partner overwhelms you with gifts or affection can suggest a narcissist or someone who will abandon you onc ethe chase is over.
Someone who lies may be unhappy in their life, or just enjoy playing games with your emotions, or manipulate you with fake illness.
Or many other potential issues, some that can be dealt with, some that cannot, can terminally damage a relationship that seems ot have potential.
So let Kimile tell you about what red flags to look for, what they mean, and how to deal with issues that arise.
Work With Me
If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:
Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
Kimile is answering another relationship question from a listener this week, and it’s a big one!
How does one deal with loss?
Most people deal with loss by ignoring it and hoping they just feel better, but this is how you end up collapsing later when things seem to be going well or getting into a destructive cycle.
Kimile will walk you through the ways loss manifests as unhealthy behaviours and how to face up to your grief so that you can get through it stronger and healthier.
Work With Me
If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:
Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
Most relationships start out with the honeymoon period where everything is fresh and exciting, but what happens when the initial sparks fade and you’re faced with the reality of a relationship with another, complex human being?
Often this is when the power struggles and fights start as traumas and burdens from the past start to manifest in the new relationship.
But it’s possible to rebuild the connection into something stronger and more honest through open communication. Being honest with your partner and listening with an open mind and heart when they speak.
Maybe you can continue a long and loving relationship, or maybe you can end the relationship with love and respect.
Listen in this week and learn from Kimile’s experiences and knowledge to build a strong, healthy relationship.
Work With MeIf you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
Kimile is hearing from a lot of people so she’s asking some more questions, covering topics like:
If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
CW: mention of child abuse, domestic violence
Have you ever met someone who has given you a bad feeling, yet they have really pursued you with a slightly disturbing single-mindedness?
Have you given them a chance?
This episode Kimile talks about the perils and pitfalls of meeting the predator. How they can love-bomb and wear you down to put themselves in a position of being in your life for their own nefarious purposes.
It can be tricky meeting new people, but maybe you should trust those first instincts.
Work With MeIf you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
Sometimes the people in our live, friends, family partners may seem to over-react or lash out at minor upsets.
It may be as simple as being short of rest or needing a meal, but sometimes a person cannot be calmed down, and they seem determined to be angry at you
Often in a secure relationship someone feels secure enough to begin to process trauma that can manifest as attacks on their partner. But how does the target deal with this?
You may want to defend yourself, but this can be a mistake.
Kimile will walk you through understanding your partner and helping them to cope with the traumas that they take out on you.
Work With MeIf you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
CW: Mention of Child Abuse
This episode Kimile is taking some questions! One writer has had a relationship fall apart and is wondering what they did wrong? Answer, nothing! But Kimile will give you a guide on avoiding falling for a relationship hustle.
Another is facing divorce, but is stressed about lack or resources. Kimile has wisdom for that situation as well.
Yet another is having problems with an aggressive and confrontational ex husband. Obviously this is a stressful thing to deal with, but is there more to the former partner’s behaviour?
Listen in and see if you can learn something to equip you for healthier relationships.
Work With Me
If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:
Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
This week Kimile shares the
story of one of her clients, a young woman with a bad instinct for
relationships, and Kimile will dig through why she selects harmful partners.
She then will talk about how
the relationships people have with their parents and loved ones have
repercussions with their adult relationships in later life.
Was a parent absent, or did
they leave? What results will this have on the children.
Or are you an adult who
needs to be an example to your children?
Buckle in and learn the
wisdom that will prepare you and your children for healthy, fulfilling
relationships.
If you want to make a
positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I
invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where
we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome
challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on
Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
It’s sadly not that uncommon that tragic circumstances lead to grandparents needing to take care of their grandchildren. Often they feel like the logical ones to step in when their own children pass away leaving dependents.
But it can be a minefield for the whole family as the usual grandparent/grandchild dynamic is thrown into conflict with the sometimes harder decisions parents need to make with their own children.
Kids brought up with their grandparents can be spoiled and throw out other family relationship dynamics, and even inheritances.
But Kimile has dealt with many such situations, so will help you develop a more balanced family dynamic in the face of loss and challenge.
Work With MeIf you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.
Links and resources:Website:
https://healwithkimile.com/
My book is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952
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