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Baby… sometimes YOU are the problem. 😭 And whew, nobody likes that conversation.

We love talking about toxic people, boundaries, red flags, protecting our peace, and everybody who did us wrong. But what happens when God starts showing you the part YOU played?

In this episode of the Let’s Talk About It series, we’re getting into the uncomfortable side of healing: accountability. We’re talking about defensiveness, trauma responses, pride, apologies without the “but,” using boundaries to avoid hard conversations, making new people pay for what old people did, and what happens when multiple people keep pointing out the same thing about you.

Because sometimes you can be hurt AND still hurt people. You can love God and still need correction. You can have a good heart and still handle something completely wrong.

And one question might have you sitting quietly for a minute:

Am I actually changing… or have I just gotten better at explaining why I behave this way?

Yeah. Let’s talk about it. 👀

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Let’s Talk About It: When You’re the Problem

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Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “I really thought I’d be further by now”?

Maybe you thought your credit would be better. Your finances would be together. You’d have more saved, own more, know what you were doing with your career, have healthier relationships, or at least feel a little more settled in life.

But instead, you’re grown and realizing there are pieces of your life you have to go back and fix, rebuild, or learn for the first time.

In this episode of Healed, Hood & Holy: Let’s Talk About It, we’re talking about what it feels like to start over when you thought you would have it together by now.

Because sometimes we’re dealing with grown-up consequences from decisions we made when we didn’t have the knowledge, maturity, resources, or understanding we have today. And while we can’t go back and change every decision, we CAN decide what we’re going to learn and do differently from here.

We’re getting into finances, credit, relationships, business, personal growth, accountability, and one of my favorite scriptures: Romans 12:2, “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Because wanting better isn’t always enough. Sometimes you have to learn better before you can consistently do better.

If you’ve been feeling behind, embarrassed about having to rebuild, or frustrated because life doesn’t look like you thought it would by now, baby, this conversation is for you.

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Everybody loves talking about obedience after the testimony.

“I trusted God. I took the leap. I said yes. And look what God did!”

But what about the part before look what God did?

What happens when obedience costs you comfort, relationships, approval, your timeline, or something you genuinely wanted?

In this episode of Healed, Hood & Holy, Brittney gets into the side of obedience we don’t always talk about. The part where you believe you’re doing what God is asking you to do, but it still hurts. The part where people don’t understand. The part where you have to release control without knowing exactly what comes next.

We’re also talking about discernment, because every hard decision is NOT automatically obedience. Sometimes we call consequences “spiritual warfare,” call our own desires “God’s direction,” or keep asking God for confirmation because we don’t like the answer we already received.

Can you trust God when obedience doesn’t come with an immediate reward?

Can you release your timeline?

Can you obey when nobody understands but you and God?

And can you admit when the thing standing between you and obedience might actually be…you?

Yeah. We need to talk about it.

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What if your money habits aren’t just about budgeting… but about what you’ve survived?

In this episode of Healed, Hood & Holy: Let’s Talk About It, we’re getting into money trauma; the fear, shame, survival habits, and beliefs about money that can follow us straight into adulthood.

We’re talking about growing up without enough, overspending because you finally can, being afraid to spend even when you have it, overworking because you’re terrified of being broke again, struggling to receive help, financial shame, and why making more money doesn’t automatically make you feel financially safe.

Because sometimes you don’t have a money problem….you have wounds that show up through money.

And healing financially isn’t just about getting the bag. It’s learning how to manage it, enjoy it, grow it, give it, and stop allowing the fear of losing it to control your peace.

So let’s talk about it. 💰❤️‍🩹

Question to sit with:
What did money teach you growing up that you’re having to unlearn as an adult?

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Why Do You Keep Doing That? | Let’s Talk About It

Have you ever looked at somebody’s behavior and thought, “Why do you keep doing that?” 👀

Why are you so angry? Why do you push people away? Why don’t you trust anybody? Why do you react like that?

But what if we stopped looking at the behavior and started looking at the root?

In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, Brittney gets real about the things we learn from our experiences, relationships, environments, and the ways we had to survive. Sometimes the behavior we see on the outside is connected to something much deeper underneath.

We’re talking about trauma, survival patterns, boundaries, accountability, healing, self-reflection, relationships, and what happens when we finally get honest enough to ask ourselves, “Where did I learn this?”

And of course, we’re bringing God into the conversation, because healing isn’t just about changing what people can see. Sometimes God starts dealing with the root.

This episode is also proudly sponsored by The Living Garden Institute, founded by Barbara Diaz. Through The Living Garden Framework™, the Institute helps individuals and families understand the root, not just the behavior, using a trauma-informed and neurodivergent-affirming approach.

We’re talking about what shaped us, what we learned to survive, and how we can begin planting something different.

Because understanding somebody doesn’t mean accepting their mistreatment.

And understanding yourself doesn’t mean making excuses.

Sometimes it means finally realizing:

“Oh… that’s why I do that.”

🌱 Understand the root. Not just the behavior.

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🎙️ LET’S TALK ABOUT IT: Nobody Is Coming to Save You

Whew… this one might step on a few toes. 👀

Sometimes the breakthrough we’re praying for requires us to actually GET UP and participate in it.

In this episode of Healed, Hood, & Holy’s “Let’s Talk About It” series, we’re having a real conversation about personal responsibility, healing, faith, fear, discipline, and what happens when you finally stop waiting for somebody else to change your life.

Because here’s the truth: God can send the people. He can provide the resources. He can open the doors. He can give you the idea, the vision, the opportunity, and the instructions…

But baby, YOU still have to move.

We’re talking about:

• Waiting for permission to become who you’re called to be

• Participating in your own healing

• Taking accountability without condemning yourself

• Why self-awareness means nothing without action

• Moving even when you’re scared

• Stopping the cycle of waiting for people to believe in you

• Faith AND works

• Choosing your future over your comfort

• Taking one small step instead of trying to change everything overnight

And we’re asking one important question:

What are you waiting for?

This isn’t a message telling you that you have to do life alone. Community matters. Support matters. Prayer matters. Help matters.

But nobody can want your life more than you do.

It’s time to pray, trust God, do your part, and MOVE.

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Nobody is coming to save you… so get up, trust God, and go build the life you keep praying about. 💕🙏🏽

Being Chosen Ain’t Always Cute 👀 | Let’s Talk About It

Everybody wants to be chosen until they realize being chosen comes with a COST. 😮‍💨

We love talking about the favor, the elevation, the open doors, the blessings, the purpose, and the promise…but what about the crushing, isolation, correction, discipline, obedience, and preparation that can come before it?

In this episode of the Healed, Hood, & Holy Podcast, we’re talking about the side of being called by God that doesn’t always make it into the cute social media posts.

Sometimes being chosen means God tells YOU no while everybody else seems to be getting a yes.

Sometimes it means outgrowing people you thought would be with you forever.

Sometimes it means being hidden while God develops your character.

Sometimes it means taking accountability and realizing everything isn’t spiritual warfare—sometimes, baby, it’s YOU. 😂

And sometimes it means dying to the old version of yourself so you can become the woman capable of carrying what you’ve been praying for.

If you’ve been asking:

🙏🏽 God, why am I going through this?

🙏🏽 Why does it feel like everybody is moving except me?

🙏🏽 Why am I losing people while I’m getting closer to You?

🙏🏽 Why does obedience feel so uncomfortable?

🙏🏽 Why does my calling feel heavier than I expected?

This conversation is for YOU.

Being chosen isn’t about looking important. It’s about obedience, stewardship, character, discipline, humility, healing, and becoming who God needs you to be for the assignment He’s placed on your life.

Your difficult season doesn’t automatically mean you’re outside of God’s will. You may be standing right in the middle of your preparation.

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Remember:

Being chosen ain’t always cute…but your YES to God is worth it. 🩷🔥

Stay Healed. Stay Hood. And most importantly, Stay Holy. 🙏🏽✨

Girl…be for real. 😂 You KNOW that ain’t what God told you!

In this episode of the Healed, Hood, & Holy Podcast: Let’s Talk About It series, we’re getting into those moments when God already gave us the instruction…but we keep praying, asking for another sign, looking for confirmation, calling our friends, scrolling social media, and trying to negotiate our way into the answer we wanted. 😭😂

Sometimes we’re not confused, we just don’t like the answer.

Let’s talk about obedience, discernment, delayed obedience, confirmation shopping, forcing doors God may be closing, and learning to trust God even when His direction doesn’t match the plan we had for ourselves.

Because sometimes God isn’t being silent. Sometimes He already spoke…and now it’s our turn to MOVE.

🎙️ In this episode, we’re talking about:
• Knowing the difference between confusion and resistance
• When your feelings get louder than God’s instruction
• Why we keep asking for “confirmation” after we already have an answer
• Delayed obedience and fear
• Trusting God when His “no” doesn’t make sense
• Letting go of people, places, habits, and opportunities that aren’t for you
• Learning to pray, “God, correct me if I’m wrong”
• Having the courage to actually DO what you know you’ve been called to do

📖 Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding…”

And remember:

Stop asking God for another answer when you’re still negotiating with the last one.

WHEW. 😮‍💨

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Have you been waiting for the “perfect time” to start?

Maybe you’ve been telling yourself, “I’ll do it when I have more money… when I have more confidence… when I know more… when life slows down.” But what if that day never comes?

In this episode of Let’s Talk About This, Brittney Hilson challenges the lie that you have to feel ready before you move. Through biblical encouragement, real-life experiences, and practical wisdom, you’ll discover that faith isn’t about having all the answers, it’s about taking the next step even when you’re afraid.

If you’ve been putting off your healing, business, ministry, dreams, or purpose because you’re waiting for the right moment, this conversation is for you.

It’s time to stop waiting and start walking.

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Remember: Faith isn’t waiting until fear disappears. Faith is taking the next step anyway.

Welcome to Season 2 of the Healed, Hood, & Holy Podcast!

We’re kicking off a brand-new series called Let’s Talk About It, a space where we stop avoiding the hard conversations and start confronting the very things that have been holding us back.

In Episode 1, we’re talking about fear.

Not just the fear that makes your heart race, but the fear that disguises itself as procrastination, perfectionism, overthinking, comfort, and waiting for “the right time.” What if the very thing standing between you and the life you’ve been praying for isn’t a lack of opportunity, but fear?

In this episode, Brittney Hilson shares practical mindset shifts, biblical encouragement, and honest conversation about what it really means to move forward even when you’re afraid. You’ll be challenged to stop letting fear make your decisions and start walking in the courage God has already called you to.

You’ll also hear about The Shift: A 3-Day Mindset Renewal Experience, designed to help you renew your thinking, break limiting beliefs, and prepare for the new season God is leading you into.

If this episode encourages you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that courage isn’t the absence of fear, it’s choosing obedience in spite of it.

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Stay healed. Stay hood. Stay holy.