Ever felt like love was something you had to earn? Like if you just gave more, waited longer, or proved harder—you’d finally be chosen? In this raw and relatable kickoff to The Healed Love Languages™, Paula Lowe, RN, BSN, CPT, exposes the truth behind Pick-Me and Yes-Girl energy and how we all learned to perform for connection.

With honesty, humor, and soul, Paula unpacks:

• How childhood conditioning taught us to perform instead of partner

• The difference between real love and emotional survival

• Why both men and women fear rejection for being real

• And how to finally drop the act and love from wholeness

Stay tuned for Wednesday's episode, The Blueprint of Men — where we’ll explore why men were conditioned to perform strength instead of feel safety.

And get ready for The Healed Love Languages™ Quiz, coming soon to healedloveera.net.

Because in this new era, love isn’t earned — it’s embodied.