In this episode, Barbara and Andrew talk with Parental Alienation expert Joe Goldberg. 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at [email protected]

To learn more about Joe Goldberg, be sure to visit his website at www.parentalalienation.ca

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

 Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew discuss betrayal and how to transform yourself from powerless to empowered. 

Dr Debi Silber leads this conversation by sharing her 3 groundbreaking discoveries about betrayal and the 5 proven steps to go from betrayal to transformation. 

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Dr Debi Silberbe sure to visit her website at https://thepbtinstitute.com/

Be sure to also check out these bonus resources…..

 Dr. Debi's Tedtalk can be viewed here

Post Betrayal Institute can be found here

Wondering if you have Post Betrayal Syndrome? Take the Post Betrayal Quiz here

Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Confidence and Happiness – Dr Debi Silber 
Buy it here https://thepbtinstitute.com/trustagain/

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

 Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew bring on relationship and intimacy expert, Lisa Schwaller. 

Lisa specializes in bringing back the love and intimacy in fading romance. She breaks down why curiosity is a powerful feeling in a relationship and tackles issues like how to help our partner if they have underlying trauma. 

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Lisa Schwaller be sure to visit her website https://lisaschwaller.com/

Be sure to also check out these bonus resources…..

Gottman Institute at gottman.com

Antidotes to the Four Horseman of Relationships (Gottman Institute): https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-the-antidotes/

Stress Reducing Conversation (Gottman Institute): https://www.gottman.com/blog/how-to-stress-reducing-conversation/

Art of Listening (short course by Michael Neill): https://www.michaelneill.org/wholenewway/

Lisa Schwaller’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcBiwDR1wCcF-D-rTQUC5Hw 

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew bring on Maryann Petri to discuss her book Dismantling Family Court Corruption: Why Taking the Kids was Not Enough.

Maryann shares her journey through high conflict divorce, family court, parental alienation and even jail time for high child support in arrears. Maryann continues to stand on her truth as an inspiration to others who have also been hurt by family court.

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode).

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Maryann Petri be sure to visit her website at https://dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Be sure to also check out these bonus resources

Listen to Maryann’s podcast Slam the Gavel here

Maryann’s Website can be found here

Maryann’s book Dismantling Family Court Corruption: Why Taking the Kids Was Not Enough can be bought here

Maryann has been a guest blog author on Barbara’s website. Her guest blog can be found here

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew dig into high conflict divorce with fellow divorce coach Trish Guise. Trish dives into how her training in New Ways for Families enables her to help her clients better self regulate so they can save money and energy, even in a high conflict divorce. 

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Trish Be sure to visit her website at https://www.trishguise.com/

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew interview Dawn McCarty, a formerly alienated child who reunited with her father in 2016 after 44 years of being separated. 

Dawn's journey through her emotions and her trauma highlights how many alienated children each have a long healing journey ahead of them. 

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Dawn McCarty be sure to visit her LinkTree at https://linktr.ee/dawnmccarty 

 Be sure to also check out these bonus resources…..

 http://www.actionagainstabduction.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/Research-report-web-1.12.14-R.pdf
http://www.actionagainstabduction.org/abduction-long-term-effects/
https://www.sharedparenting.org/
http://kidsneedboth.org/

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

 Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew discuss how Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) can be used to help heal trauma. Who better to help us dive deep into this than Guide Furlani, an organic early family history coach who specializes in NLP. 

Guide shares that words are meaningless in themselves and that true meaning lies in the speaker. He also encourages listeners to recognize the value in both the baby and the bathwater.

“..Truth. The most elusive quest of human consciousness. Yet, once decided as one’s primary Driver allows somewhat to tap the Field of “Silent Knowledge”. Thus with Courage some move onward with Clarity and Integrity in freeing human perception from the clutter of stifling beliefs... – This among many, the most important of ‘the King’s signs’. – This alone, the supreme mark of the Timeless Leader”.

~ Guide G. Furlani ~

 To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Guide be sure to email them at [email protected]

 
Additional reading material

My Voice Will Go with You - Milton Erickson

The Art of Peace – Morihei Ueshiba

The Power of Intention – Wayne Dyer

The Ultimate Introduction to NLP – Richard Bandler

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew discuss false allegations in family court, in particular, child abuse allegations. To help them learn more, Dean Tong is brought on board to explain in detail, the danger a false allegation can bring. Dean Tong is an internationally recognized author and expert witness, with a focus on divorce, child custody, parental alienation, child abuse, domestic violence, and sexual allegations in divorce. Dean has consulted on protracted divorce, custody and abuse-related cases since 1995 and has been involved in the field of child sexual abuse accusations since 1984.  Dean has authored powerful books like Don’t blame me daddy, Elusive Innocence: A Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused, Pitfalls when divorcing a BPD spouse, and several others. 

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Dean Tong, be sure to visit his website abuse-excuse.com

Be sure to also check out these bonus resources…..

For more information on PwrSwitch click here

For more information on the NICHD Protocol click here

For more information on the DSM-V click here

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

 Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew tackle Parental Alienation in Family court with our guest speaker Ashish. 

Ashish Joshi, a practicing lawyer who specializes in parental alienation, discusses in depth how to prove alienation in family court and what to look out for in an alienation case. 

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

To learn more about Ashish Joshi be sure to visit his website at https://www.joshiattorneys.com/

To purchase Litigating Parental Alienation by Ashish Joshi click the link below (we are not affiliated)
https://www.americanbar.org/products/inv/book/409061453/

For more information on the PASG conference 2021 click the link below
https://familyties2021.eu/

Be sure to also check out these bonus resources…..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m2zNV1Jvc5I&t=162s
https://www.amyjlbaker.com/parental-alienation-syndrome.html
https://pasg.info/

Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.

There is no love without hate; and there is no hate without love. The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference; the opposite of feeling can only be the absence of feeling. Disinclination, which is coloured by feeling, often only serves the purpose of concealing and protecting oneself against an inclination. Love and hate must go hand in hand; and the people we love most we hate also, because hate is grounded in the nature of love.

~ Wilhelm Stekel

In this episode, Barbara and Andrew address how alienation impacts a child as they grow up. How does this affect their identity? What emotions do they experience? Does the alienated child hate the erased parent?

This episode can be emotionally charged so we recommend taking time to emotionally self regulate after listening to this episode.

To access the helpful downloadable document be sure to visit https://www.barbaralapointe.com/podcasts (there is a downloadable document after every episode). 

 For any inquiries feel free to reach us at barbaralapointe.com

 Barbara La Pointe, a Divorce Coach that specializes in high conflict relationships, Narcissistic Personalities and Inherited Family Trauma.

 Andrew Folkler is a professional writer, Associate producer for Erasing Family documentary and actively volunteers as a guest speaker on Parental Alienation. Andrew experienced PA as a child, he shares his story to help other parents struggling with being estranged from their children.