They say that the first step into overcoming a situation is recognizing there is something there. So I am recognizing. I remember when I realized how heartbroken I was I got a counselor. And I am thankful to him and I'll never forget what he did for me. He reminded that it's is okay for me to feel how I was feeling because I am human. He also reminded me to rely on my support system which became my family, my friends and even strangers who became friends.