Sometimes there’s no beef, no big fallout, and no dramatic ending… you simply outgrow people.

In this Messy Thoughts episode, I’m talking about what happens when a friendship or relationship no longer feels aligned. The conversations don’t hit the same, the connection feels different, and you realize this person may no longer be part of your tribe.

But why does choosing distance so often get mistaken for jealousy?

Sometimes I’m not jealous. I don’t hate you. I don’t think I’m better than you.

I just outgrew you.

Let’s talk about it. 🤎

— Healing Is Messy

Are you a high-maintenance or low-maintenance friend? And what happens when two people have completely different expectations of what friendship is supposed to look like?

In this episode, I talk about navigating friendships when one person needs more communication, presence, and reassurance while the other may be perfectly comfortable going days—or even weeks—without talking.

Does needing more make you needy? Does needing less mean you don’t care? Or do we simply have different friendship needs?

Let’s talk about it—because even friendships can get messy. 🤎

On todays episode, we are discussing the mini miracles in life that we don't pay enough attention too or give enough gratitude for. Understanding and appreciating the protection we are under when God says no and seeing the lesson and blessing instead of complaining about our situation. Man rejection is God protection, when God says yes, no man can say no. So when God does says No?! It's a NO! You never know why you are in this season, you never know why God put you into someone else life. Maybe you are the walking blessing! Say yes to the mini wins! We also dive deep into living in a facade and being H&M (Hating,Hurt&Miserable) ✨❤️

On todays episode, we have a short message about disarming toxic folks, environments, relationships, etc. If we aren't growing, I ain't going! Please don't be afraid to use your DND and please don't be afraid to open and not respond to people at all times, what is your ceiling today?!

Have you ever went through an ego death? A season of not being able to care or control what it "looks like"? A shattering what you "thought" you wanted? A season of complete unknowing? A season of vulnerability? A season of trusting God and faith? A season of allowing others to see you in a space and light you aren't usually in? We are diving into messy healing and talking about ego deaths.