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Healing Through Burnout Using Polyvagal Theory w/Dr. Jordan Bonham D.C. | Ep #78


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“Self regulating factors are features of ours being that are accesible to us. It requires effort and mastery” - Dr. JB

3:30 | What does burnout look like in your system?

06:00 | Quantify and qualify how your behaviors are when stressed?

07:15 | Burnout is not a “bad” thing. But something to recognize and reflect upon!

09:00 | How a story can become more of your character vs. a reflection of temporary physiology

11:30 | What are the needs that haven’t been met? What is the story that comes up based upon them not getting met?

14:00 | Addiction is something to help us NOT feel vs. Feel

  • Coffee helps us NOT feel the fatigue* 

  • We have to feel the depth in order to maximize the probability of shifting a pattern

  • 16:30 | Demystifying energy & understanding similar energetic states and unwinding triggers

    • Energy is the potential energy you’re harnessing in your body and you’re going to turn to action 

    • 20:40 | We have the ability to create a story → Rationalize/Judge why we do what we do

      • Be aware of the story you’re telling yourself 

      • 22:40 | None of this easy. Breaking habits of utilizing the vice***

        • Trapped in dysregulation vs. Coming back to regulation

        • 25:00 | The absence of community and the absence of your community’s awareness of where you’re at influence the rate in which you can adapt through this pattern

          • The workforce separates us* 

          • 29:30 | A society that is rapidly moving towards shut down and doesn’t know that they are due to tools and lack of recognition**

            32:30 | If our healthcare providers aren’t taking care of themselves then it puts a cap on things* 

            34:00 | The potency of stillness

            37:50 | If you paint something needs to look a certain way and then don’t do it you’re going to get stuck. 

            • Flexibility and variability to create positive actionable change is what gets you out*

            • Short workouts, short blocks. Whats necessary? Resources

            • Failure is really challenging in this state* 38:50, repetitive failure is really hard

            • “There’s ten minutes right there”, what are the challenges here?

            • 42:00 | Living in flexibility and dynamic in natural states* 

              44:00 | Crafting the ventral vagus anchors in your life

              • Increase that ability to come back home of safety

              • 47:30 | Self regulating factors are features of ours being that we can access. It requires effort and mastery* 

                • Our ability to self-regulate is dropping at the same time 

                • The more we’re supporting the economy of our vices and addictions, the less we are supporting our own internal regulating factors

                • 51:00 | Regulating our internal energetic economy to appropriately externally utilize energy outside of us*

                  53:10 | How to regain a foothold in life. Regulating for self regulation, the marketplace weill deliver stronger strategies for regulation. 

                  55:50 | When we are out of integrity it creates dissonance in our systems*

                  • A gateway to using external forces to feel less 

                  • 1:00:00 | Asking the depthful questions and strengthening the integrity* 

                    • Secondary, tertiary questions

                    • You need community before you make this jump** 

                    • The concepts of external/Internal integrity   

                    • 1:04:30 | No making excuses baby. Buck the acceptance* Don’t fall victim to the convenience that you have more ownership of your state*

                      • Taking extreme ownership/responsibility**

                      • 1:08:30 | #1 sign of a dysregulated nervous system*

                        1:10:30 | Find someone. Be real, be raw. Start that 2 person army 

                        Resources:

                        Deb Dana - Anchored 

                        Dr. Gabor Mate - The myth of normal 

                        Human design - mybodygraph.com - Karen Curry

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