Walking away from someone you love might be one of life's most painful decisions. In this raw, heartfelt conversation, Janae and Zach unpack the courage it takes to recognize when a relationship has run its course, even when feelings remain.

The hosts share their personal journeys through relationship endings, revealing the subtle signs that indicate when love simply isn't enough. Janae vulnerably discusses how she knew it was time to leave when she started losing herself—when the person she was becoming no longer aligned with her authentic self. Zach opens up about his pattern of self-sabotage, subconsciously pushing partners away when his deeper instincts recognized incompatibility before his conscious mind was ready to accept it.

What emerges is a powerful dialogue about transformation and self-discovery. Both hosts reflect on how initial heartbreak eventually gave way to profound personal growth. The conversation shifts from viewing breakups as failures to recognizing them as necessary catalysts for becoming who they were meant to be. They discuss establishing boundaries, making promises to themselves, and extending compassion not only to their former selves but also to those who hurt them.

This episode offers listeners both comfort and clarity—permission to prioritize their wellbeing while honoring the complex emotions that accompany letting go. Whether you're contemplating ending a relationship, healing from one that's ended, or supporting someone through this journey, you'll find wisdom in this authentic exploration of what it means to choose yourself with grace and integrity. Subscribe now and join us next week as we explore social media's evolution and its effects on today's generation.

Ever found yourself clinging to a relationship you know isn't healthy? That front-row seat to watching someone you care about make self-destructive choices while rejecting your guidance is one of life's most painful experiences.

In this deeply personal episode, Janae and Zach explore the challenging territory of loving someone while having the courage to let them go. Through candid conversation, they reveal their own relationship patterns and the hard-earned wisdom that came from breaking toxic cycles.

"I give too much in a world full of takers," Janae admits, while Zach shares how his abandonment issues led him to play the "white knight" in relationships—attempting to rescue people who weren't ready to save themselves. Both hosts bring powerful insights about attachment styles, trauma bonding, and the psychological reasons we sometimes stay in relationships long past their expiration date.

The discussion delves into recognizing red flags we often rationalize away: how someone speaks about their ex, treats service staff, handles anger, or displays victim mentality. These warning signs, described as "banners" and "pop-ups," often appear early but get dismissed when we're emotionally invested.

What makes this conversation so valuable is the emphasis on self-awareness and personal growth. Both hosts share how understanding their attachment styles transformed their approach to relationships, allowing them to break patterns and establish healthier boundaries. Their vulnerability creates a safe space for listeners to examine their own relationship choices without judgment.

Whether you're currently struggling to let someone go or healing from a relationship where you stayed too long, this episode offers compassionate guidance, practical insights, and the gentle reminder that sometimes the most loving choice is to release someone to their own journey.

Have you ever kept your achievements to yourself because you knew others wouldn't celebrate them? This powerful conversation between Janae and Zach dives into the protective mechanisms we develop when our joy has been repeatedly stolen by those closest to us.

The hosts share deeply personal stories about their healing journeys and how small wins gradually built their confidence. Janae reveals how childhood experiences taught her to guard her excitement, recalling painful moments when family members dismissed her accomplishments or criticized her creative experiments. This led to a pattern of private celebration—a survival mechanism that many listeners will recognize from their own lives.

Parenting emerges as a powerful theme throughout the episode, with both hosts discussing their commitment to breaking generational trauma cycles. They explore the importance of apologizing to children when reactions are harsh, validating young feelings, and modeling healthy emotional responses. Their candid admissions about parenting challenges offer both comfort and practical wisdom for listeners navigating similar waters.

Perhaps most compelling is the evolution of how both hosts define success. What began as material achievements or proving doubters wrong has transformed into more meaningful metrics: self-love, family happiness, and making positive impacts. They discuss the exhausting nature of constantly trying to prove others wrong and the liberation that comes from competing only with yourself.

The conversation takes an illuminating turn when discussing "reactive abuse"—how manipulative people trigger emotional responses then use those reactions against you. Their insights on recognizing these patterns and setting boundaries, even with family members, provide valuable tools for anyone trapped in toxic relationship dynamics.

What makes this episode special is how the hosts weave vulnerable personal stories with practical wisdom, creating an intimate space where listeners can reflect on their own healing journeys. Whether you're at the beginning of your path or well along it, you'll find both validation and inspiration in this honest conversation.

Ready to explore how to protect your joy while still pursuing your dreams? Listen now, and join us next time when we tackle another challenging topic: how sometimes truly loving someone means letting them go.

Have you ever been told you're not good enough? That your dreams are unrealistic? That you don't belong? In this raw and vulnerable episode of Healing While Hustling, hosts Janae and Zach dive deep into their personal journeys through doubt and disbelief.

From family criticism that cuts deeper than any other to professional dismissal that nearly derailed their careers, we share the moments when doubt threatened to steal our dreams. J Simone reveals how her family labeled her natural creative talents as inappropriate from childhood, while Zach recounts locking himself away for two years to perfect his craft when told a white nerd could never succeed in rap.

What makes this conversation truly transformative is our exploration of the alchemical process that turns negativity into unstoppable drive. We unpack the psychological phenomenon where being told "you can't" creates an overwhelming urge to prove everyone wrong. As Janae puts it, "I show them exactly who I'm not," transforming projected limitations into personal power.

The most powerful revelation comes when we discuss who showed up when no one else believed. For some, it was mentors who saw potential beneath struggle. For others, it was divine intervention bringing the right people at precisely the right moment. This support became the foundation that allowed us to keep pushing forward despite overwhelming skepticism.

Whether you're facing doubt from others or battling your own inner critic, this episode offers both comfort and practical wisdom. Join us to discover how to transform disbelief into your greatest motivation and find the support you need when it seems no one believes in your vision.

In this episode, we turn the spotlight inward and ask ourselves the kinds of questions we often pose to others. We explore what drives us, where our inspiration comes from, the challenges we’ve faced, and how we’ve grown along the way. It’s a candid, unfiltered conversation that pulls back the curtain on who we are—not just as podcast hosts, but as people.

Expect a mix of reflection, honesty, and plenty of laughter as we dig into the questions that reveal our values, motivations, and the lessons we’ve picked up on this journey. Whether you’re tuning in for insight, inspiration, or just to get to know us better, this episode gives you a raw and real look behind the mic.