Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families

Hearing the words palliative care or hospice can be frightening, especially when you're caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's or another form of dementia. But understanding the difference between palliative care and hospice care can help families find the right support at the right time. In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos explain what each type of care provides, when it may be appropriate, and how both can improve comfort, dignity, and quality of life. They discuss why palliative care can begin early in a serious illness, even while treatment continues, while hospice focuses on comfort when an illness is advanced and a person meets medical eligibility requirements.

Pam and Linda also walk through the seven stages of dementia, explaining how Alzheimer's disease progresses and what signs may indicate it's time to consider hospice care. They address common caregiver concerns about swallowing difficulties, weight loss, frequent infections, hospital visits, and challenging dementia behaviors. You'll learn what Medicare hospice benefits may cover, how to request a hospice evaluation, what questions to ask providers, and why choosing hospice doesn't mean giving up. With practical advice for family caregivers, this season two finale offers reassurance that you don't have to wait for a crisis to get help caring for your aging loved one. 

Key Moments:

00:00  Palliative Care vs. Hospice: Understanding the Difference
Why these care options can feel frightening and how families can get support sooner.

02:12  What Is Palliative Care and What Is Hospice?
Simple definitions of both services and how they support comfort and quality of life.

03:17  Key Differences in Care and Treatment
When care can begin, where services are provided, and how treatment goals differ.

05:15  Why Alzheimer's and Dementia Make Hospice Decisions Harder
Understanding progressive dementia, physical decline, and caregiver safety concerns.

08:06  The Seven Stages of Dementia Explained
How early, middle, and late-stage dementia affect daily living and care needs.

12:20  Late-Stage Dementia and Hospice Eligibility
Why overall decline, medical eligibility, and complications matter more than a stage number.

14:20  Signs It May Be Time to Consider Hospice Care
Frequent hospitalizations, infections, weight loss, increased sleeping, and greater dependence.

17:06  Eating, Drinking, and Swallowing Difficulties
Why safe feeding decisions become more complicated in advanced dementia and end-of-life care.

20:00  What Hospice and Palliative Care Provide at Home
Symptom management, family support, safety planning, and why neither service typically provides around-the-clock in-home caregiving.

22:28  Understanding Palliative Care Costs and Insurance
How visits are arranged and what to ask about Medicare, insurance coverage, and copays.

26:08  What Medicare Hospice Benefits Cover
Nursing, medications, medical equipment, supplies, and family bereavement support.

29:44  How to Request a Hospice Evaluation
What happens during a hospice consultation and how to choose the right provider without committing immediately.

33:21  Hospice Emergencies, Hospital Visits, and Your Rights
When to call your hospice team, how hospital visits are handled, and why hospice enrollment doesn't remove your choices.

37:02  Managing Dementia Behaviors and Caregiver Burnout
How hospice teams help with agitation, wandering, caregiver coaching, and backup care plans.

40:31  Getting Support Before a Caregiving Crisis
Final takeaways, a free hospice and palliative care guide, and the season two farewell.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Palliative Care vs Hospice: A Simple Guide for Families (with Dementia Support)
• “Cracking the Hospice Code: Your Nurse Advocates Debunk the Top 10 Misconceptions of Hospice” by Linda Kritikos and Pam Dunwald, foreword by Mary Droegkamp
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Caring for someone with dementia can feel like the rules change from one day to the next. In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos welcome dementia care specialist Sheri Fairman, MSW, owner of Dementia Care Solutions and Current of Care. Sheri shares practical dementia caregiving strategies to help family caregivers understand changes in behavior, communicate more effectively, reduce distress, and create more good days with an aging loved one. She also explains why early dementia symptoms can be mistaken for normal aging or stress and why families should begin conversations about future care and personal wishes as early as possible.

Pam, Linda, and Sheri explore a different way of approaching difficult moments in dementia care: instead of immediately trying to stop, correct, or control a behavior, become curious about the unmet need behind it. From hearing “I want to go home” to navigating agitation, wandering, daily routines, safety concerns, and choosing not to participate in care, Sheri offers real-world dementia communication tips families can use right away. The conversation also addresses caregiver burnout, sharing caregiving responsibilities, knowing when more support may be needed, and balancing safety with independence and quality of life. Above all, caregivers are encouraged to focus on connection, flexibility, curiosity, and meeting both their loved one's needs and their own.

Key Moments:

00:00 — Real-World Dementia Tips for Family Caregivers
Why dementia caregiving can change from day to day and how practical strategies can help caregivers feel more prepared and supported.

01:41 — Meet Dementia Care Specialist Sheri Fairman
Sheri shares how caring for her mother and working with family care partners led to her focus on dementia care.

05:32 — Dementia vs. Typical Aging
Why early signs of dementia can be mistaken for stress, forgetfulness, or typical aging and why recognizing brain changes earlier can open opportunities for support.

07:04 — Plan for Dementia Care Before a Crisis
Why including a loved one with brain changes in early conversations can help families understand their wishes before dementia progresses.

09:50 — What to Do When Dementia Care Feels Overwhelming
Sheri explains why increasing caregiver frustration, anxiety, or overwhelm can be a sign that it is time to add more help to the care team.

11:17 — Creating More Good Days with Dementia
How communication, flexibility, supportive environments, and adapting activities can help a person living with dementia continue to enjoy life.

15:20 — Daily Routines, Agitation, and Dementia
Why routines such as consistent sleep and wake times can help, while flexibility protects the relationship between caregivers and their loved ones.

18:18 — Balancing Dementia Safety, Risk, and Independence
How caregivers can consider risk without automatically taking away meaningful activities, autonomy, independence, and quality of life.

23:16 — When Someone Chooses Not to Participate in Care
Why changing the way caregivers think about “refusing care” can encourage curiosity and reduce power struggles.

27:40 — What to Do Instead of Correcting Someone with Dementia
Why trying to prove your reality may create conflict and how curiosity, reflection, validation, and simple choices can build connection instead.

32:06 — Dementia Behavior Can Communicate a Need
A real-life example shows how behavior such as leaving the house may communicate an unmet need rather than simply being something caregivers need to stop.

34:04 — Looking Beyond Agitation, Wandering, and Sundowning
Why broad labels don't explain what a person needs, and how caregivers can look for underlying needs such as purpose, comfort, or relief from pain.

37:15 — When Someone with Dementia Says, “I Want to Go Home”
Why “home” may represent rest, food, familiarity, safety, security, or another unmet need rather than a specific physical place.

41:52 — Caregiver Burnout, Boundaries, and Getting More Help
Warning signs that a caregiver may need additional support, and why families should often add help earlier than they expect.

47:11 — Caregiver Guilt, Regret, and Quality of Life
Sheri explains the relationship between guilt, resentment, and regret and encourages caregivers to consider their own quality of life when making care decisions.

About Sheri Fairman, MSW, CMDCP, PAC CDE/L:

Sheri Fairman has a Master of Social Work, is a mentor with Teepa Snow’s Positive Approach to Care®, and is a Certified Montessori Dementia Care Professional (CMDCP)

She is a nationally recognized dementia educator, speaker, and care partner advocate dedicated to transforming how we support people living with dementia. With more than a decade of experience working alongside people living with dementia and their care partners, she has seen
firsthand both the challenges of dementia care and the transformational power of the right approach. Sheri’s work focuses on compassionate communication, understanding the changing brain, and creating environments where people living with dementia can thrive.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Website: DementiaCareSolutions.org
• Dementia Care Solutions LinkedIn  
• Current of Care: CurrentOfCare.com
• Current of Care Facebook
• FISH Approach to Dementia Care info sheet
• FAQ & Practical Guidance For Caring for an Aging Loved One with Dementia
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In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos welcome Medicare advisors Wendi Schoonover, owner of Integrity Insurance Group, and Kevin McGuire, owner of Tailored Health Designs, to help families prepare for the 2027 Medicare Annual Enrollment Period. Medicare plans and costs can change from year to year, and choosing coverage based only on last year’s experience, a friend’s recommendation, or the monthly premium can lead to surprises. Wendi and Kevin explain Medicare enrollment periods, Original Medicare, Medicare Advantage, Medigap supplements, Part D prescription drug coverage, provider networks, and the questions you should ask when reviewing your Medicare options.

The conversation also explores what Medicare beneficiaries and family caregivers should watch for as 2027 approaches, including prescription drug formularies, premiums, deductibles, copays, prior authorizations, provider networks, and changes to plan benefits. Pam and Linda discuss why you should compare your total yearly healthcare costs instead of focusing only on the monthly premium, review your medications and doctors every year, and consider travel or living in more than one state when choosing coverage. Wendi and Kevin also explain why you should read your Annual Notice of Change and how a Medicare advisor or broker can help you understand your options. The goal is to choose Medicare coverage based on your own healthcare needs, medications, doctors, budget, travel, and lifestyle—not someone else’s experience.

Key Moments:

00:00 — Why You Should Prepare for Medicare Enrollment Early
Waiting until Medicare Annual Enrollment to start thinking about your coverage can make it harder to carefully compare your 2027 Medicare options.

03:31 — What to Know Before Choosing a Medicare Plan
Wendi and Kevin explain why reviewing your coverage and seeking qualified Medicare guidance is important instead of relying on advice from friends, family, or social media.

06:25 — Medicare Annual Enrollment vs. Open Enrollment
Kevin explains the Medicare Annual Enrollment Period from October 15 through December 7 and how it differs from the Medicare Advantage Open Enrollment Period from January through March.

08:13 — Turning 65 and Enrolling in Medicare
Wendi explains the Initial Enrollment Period, Social Security enrollment, employer coverage, Part B, and the six-month Medigap open enrollment period.

14:28 — A Common Medicare Annual Enrollment Mistake
Why deciding not to review your Medicare coverage can leave you unaware of changes to premiums, deductibles, drug coverage, and other costs.

21:07 — Comparing Your Medicare Coverage Options
The conversation breaks down Original Medicare with Part D, Original Medicare with a Medigap supplement and Part D, and Medicare Advantage.

23:59 — Understanding Prescription Drug Formularies
How Medicare drug plans determine covered medications and how deductibles, copays, drug tiers, and formularies can affect prescription costs.

27:04 — Medicare Supplement vs. Medicare Advantage
Kevin and Wendi discuss differences in premiums, out-of-pocket costs, provider networks, prior authorization, flexibility, and how you use healthcare.

30:19 — What a $0 Premium Medicare Advantage Plan Means
A zero-dollar premium means you do not pay an additional premium for that Medicare Advantage plan on top of your Part B premium; it does not mean all healthcare is free.

32:12 — Medicare Coverage for Snowbirds and Travelers
What to consider about provider networks, routine medical care, emergencies, prescriptions, and coverage if you travel or spend part of the year in another state.

34:48 — What to Watch for in Medicare Plans for 2027
Medication coverage, formularies, premiums, deductibles, copays, prior authorizations, provider networks, and extra benefits are all areas to review.

37:04 — How to Review Your Prescription Drug Coverage
Bring an accurate medication list that includes the drug name, dosage, and form, and check whether your pharmacy is in-network or preferred by the plan.

41:01 — Don't Throw Away Your Annual Notice of Change
Wendi explains why you should read the Annual Notice of Change you receive from your Medicare Advantage or standalone Part D plan before Annual Enrollment.

42:22 — Look Beyond the Monthly Medicare Premium
Consider how often you expect to use healthcare, along with planned procedures, dental needs, medications, copays, and other costs when estimating your yearly expenses.

46:08 — Helping an Aging Parent Choose Medicare Coverage
Adult children can help an aging parent understand Medicare choices while making sure the parent has space to be heard and stay involved in the decision.

About Wendi Schoonover

Wendi Schoonover is the owner of Integrity Insurance Group and an Air Force veteran who began her healthcare career as a medic. After leaving active duty, she worked in home health and as a medical assistant before entering the insurance industry. Wendi has worked in insurance since approximately 2002 and has focused specifically on Medicare for nearly 13 years. She helps clients understand their Medicare choices and emphasizes education, careful plan review, and choosing coverage based on each person’s individual circumstances.

• Website: Integrity Insurance Group
• LinkedIn: Wendi Schoonover
  
  

About Kevin McGuire

Kevin McGuire is the owner of Tailored Health Designs. He began his healthcare-related career working with electronic health record software specializing in dialysis clinics, which introduced him to Medicare. He later worked in the call center of a national insurance carrier before starting his own business approximately six and a half years ago. Kevin helps clients evaluate Medicare options by considering their healthcare use, medications, providers, costs, and personal preferences.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Medicare Annual Notice of Change
• 1-800-MEDICARE
• Social Security for Medicare enrollment
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In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos welcome Diane Vitolka, MSN, RN, owner, president, and Director of Nursing at BrightStar Care of Central DuPage-Wheaton, for a practical conversation about aging in place and non-medical home care. For many aging adults, staying at home means maintaining independence, familiar routines, social connections, and quality of life. But as needs change, family caregivers may find themselves trying to manage work, children, appointments, medications, meals, personal care, and safety concerns all at once. Diane explains how professional home care can work with families to provide the extra support an aging loved one needs without taking away their independence.

Pam, Linda, and Diane break down the difference between non-medical home care and Medicare-covered home health, signs that it may be time to bring additional help into the home, and why families should explore caregiving support before a crisis occurs. They also discuss caregiver burnout, fall prevention, dementia care, caregiver continuity, and what families should look for when choosing a home care agency. Diane shares how even a few hours of support can give family caregivers peace of mind and help an aging parent become comfortable accepting more assistance. Most importantly, families are reminded that asking for help does not mean giving up on caring for someone you love. The right home care support can make it possible for family members to remain a daughter, son, spouse, or loved one while helping the aging adult stay safe and comfortable wherever they call home.

Key Moments:

00:00 — Aging in Place with Safety, Dignity, and Support
Pam and Linda introduce how non-medical home care can help aging adults remain safely and comfortably at home.

02:07 — Meet Diane Vitolka, MSN, RN
Diane shares her 38 years of nursing experience, background in home care, and journey to becoming an owner of BrightStar Care.

03:43 — Why Aging in Place Matters to Older Adults
Familiar surroundings, routines, independence, neighbors, and memories can make remaining at home deeply important.

05:43 — Home Care Doesn't Mean Losing Independence
Diane explains how caregivers work alongside aging adults rather than taking over their routines or decisions.

08:25 — Non-Medical Home Care vs. Home Health
Learn the important difference between ongoing non-medical home care and episodic, skilled home health services.

11:26 — Reducing Family Caregiver Stress and Burnout
Home care can provide family caregivers with practical support, respite, and peace of mind when they cannot be there.

13:28 — Don't Wait for a Caregiving Crisis
Families often call from the emergency room, but starting conversations about home care earlier can make the transition easier.

16:26 — Why Caregiver Consistency Matters
Continuity of care, communication, and warm introductions can help aging adults become comfortable with caregivers in their homes.

20:31 — Signs Your Aging Parent May Need Help at Home
Falls, hospitalizations, poor hygiene, weight loss, missed medications, memory changes, and loneliness can signal a need for additional support.

23:00 — The Risks of Waiting Too Long for Help
Waiting until safety or dementia concerns become severe can make accepting home care more difficult and limit your family's options.

25:11 — How to Talk to Your Parent About Home Care
Approaching the conversation with concern, respect, and honesty can help an aging parent understand why additional support benefits the whole family.

26:42 — What to Look for in a Home Care Agency
Diane discusses nurse oversight, caregiver training, responsiveness, reliability, safety standards, communication, and quality of care.

35:31 — Supporting Aging Adults Living with Dementia
Consistent routines, individualized care plans, caregiver education, and dementia training can make home care safer and less stressful.

40:12 — Caregiver Guilt and Asking for Help
Family caregivers need care, too, and bringing in outside support can help prevent exhaustion and preserve the family relationship.

43:01 — Making Aging in Place Work for Your Family
Home can mean a private residence, a family member's house, or assisted living, and flexible support can help fill caregiving gaps wherever your loved one lives.

About Diane Vitolka:

President & CEO | Director of Nursing & Compliance

Prior to arriving at BrightStar in 2013, Diane served in multiple management roles both in the hospital and home setting over her 33 years in Nursing. She previously served as BrightStar Care Director of Compliance, responsible for departmental analysis related to productivity, staff process improvement, and client satisfaction, resulting in improved patient outcomes.  This required a restructuring of all internal processes and direct involvement in process improvement initiatives to increase Home Health Compare, Staff and Customer Satisfaction Scores.  Diane then moved into the role of Director of Nursing and Compliance, bringing her extensive regulatory knowledge and compliance with process improvement to take positive patient outcomes to the next level of clinical care from BrightStar to home and/or facility.  As of August 2022, she is a proud co-owner of the BrightStar Care Wheaton franchise. Diane is most passionate about family-centered care, Dementia care, and the concept of ‘aging in place’. She loves the fact that she is able to make a significant difference in the lives of clients by helping them stay safe and healthy wherever they reside.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• "11 Signs Your Aging Parent May Need Help in the Home" Checklist
• GUIDE Program
• BrightStar Care
• Aging in Place Safety: A Simple Family Checklist 
• Choosing a Caregiver: Private vs. Agency: 
• As always, for more support, join us for our weekly free newsletter "Senior Saturday."  Your weekly dose of tips, strategies, support, and education to help you best care for your aging loved ones. 

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• Website: BrightStar Care Central DuPage-Wheaton
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In Part 2 of this conversation about assisted living and aging in place, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos continue their discussion with assisted living professionals Dani and Dorsey about what families need to know before choosing a senior living community. They begin with the “free” senior living placement services families often find when searching online. Dani and Dorsey explain how assisted living communities may pay referral companies and why families should ask how a placement service is compensated, whether it considers every appropriate level of care, and whether its recommendations truly match your aging loved one’s needs. They also discuss assisted living costs; the fact that Medicare does not cover assisted living, private pay, long-term care insurance, Medicaid options, and why understanding a community’s payment policies before moving in can help prevent another stressful move later.

Pam and Linda also walk families through practical questions to ask when touring an assisted living community, including staffing, fall prevention, emergency response systems, medication management, medical providers, insurance coverage, and what happens as care needs increase. Dani and Dorsey stress the importance of being completely honest during the nursing assessment so the community can determine whether it can safely meet your loved one’s needs. Families should research communities, review state surveys, understand the facility’s license and program statement, speak with nursing or leadership, and read the contract carefully before signing. Most importantly, planning for assisted living does not have to mean taking away independence. Creating a Plan B for an aging parent while your loved one can still participate in the decision can protect safety, dignity, choice, and independence. It can help your family avoid making major senior care decisions in the middle of a crisis.

Key Moments:

00:00 — Assisted Living as a Plan B: Part 2
Pam and Linda pick up the conversation with what families should know before choosing an assisted living community.

01:26 — Are “Free” Senior Living Placement Services Really Free?
How senior living referral services are paid and why families should understand the financial relationship behind a recommendation.

05:21 — Is Assisted Living the Right Level of Care?
Why a placement recommendation should be based on your aging loved one’s actual care needs—not simply the level of care a family prefers.

10:01 — How Do Families Pay for Assisted Living?
Why Medicare does not cover assisted living and how long-term care insurance, private pay, and Medicaid may help cover the cost.

12:47 — Buy-In Communities and Continuum of Care
Linda and Pam discuss senior communities that require a large upfront payment in exchange for access to different levels of care over time.

15:26 — How Assisted Living Communities Help Keep Residents Safe
Daily observation, care plans, documentation, and staff familiarity can help communities recognize changes in an aging adult sooner.

17:11 — Fall Prevention and Emergency Response Systems
What to ask about call lights, pendants, staff alerts, fall response, and other assisted living safety measures.

18:06 — Medication Management and Primary Care
How assisted living communities coordinate medications, doctor visits, pharmacy changes, and communication with healthcare providers.

20:36 — Healthcare Services That May Come to the Community
Primary care, podiatry, vision care, dental care, lab services, and portable X-rays may be available onsite through third-party providers.

23:02 — Insurance Coverage for Onsite Medical Providers
Why families should check whether third-party providers are in-network and ask about insurance options when an aging loved one moves to a new state.

25:43 — What to Look for on an Assisted Living Tour
Bring questions, visit during meals or activities, and look beyond the apartment to see how residents actually experience the community.

27:29 — Be Honest During the Nursing Assessment
Why families should disclose wandering, aggression, memory problems, and other care concerns so the right level of senior care can be chosen.

30:02 — Meet the Leadership Team and Ask the Right Questions
Ask to speak with nursing leadership or the executive director, and get clear answers about costs, staffing, medications, falls, changing care needs, discharge criteria, and rate increases.

34:16 — Research Before You Choose a Senior Living Community
Check reviews and state surveys, review the facility’s license and program statement, and create a list of needs, wants, and deal-breakers before touring.

39:20 — Planning Protects Independence
Choosing a Plan B before a crisis gives your aging loved one a voice in the decision and can protect safety, dignity, autonomy, and peace of mind.

About Dani and Dorsey:

Dani and Dorsey work directly with aging adults and families in assisted living. In this conversation, they share their day-to-day experience with resident assessments, changing care needs, safety, medication management, community services, and the questions families should ask when considering assisted living. Dani also speaks from her nursing and Director of Nursing experience. Together, they offer families a practical look at how to evaluate whether a senior living community can safely meet an aging loved one’s individual needs.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• "11 Signs Your Aging Parent May Need Help in the Home" Checklist
• Hiring a Private vs. an Agency Caregiver
• Plan B: Choosing an Assisted Living Community Guide and Checklist
• Aging in Place Safety: A Simple Family Checklist 
• As always, for more support, join us for our weekly free newsletter "Senior Saturday."  Your weekly dose of tips, strategies, support, and education to help you best care for your aging loved ones. 

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Many families begin with the same goal: helping an aging parent remain safely at home for as long as possible. But what happens when frequent falls, memory changes, medication mistakes, or increasing care needs make aging in place no longer the safest option? In Part 1 of this Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families conversation, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos focus on an essential part of planning for aging in place: having a thoughtful Plan B. Joined by nurses Dani and Dorsey, who have experience working in assisted living, Pam and Linda explore the warning signs that additional support may be needed, what assisted living really provides, and how it differs from independent living, memory care, and skilled nursing care.

Pam, Linda, Dani, and Dorsey also discuss what daily life can look like in assisted living, including help with activities of daily living, meals, housekeeping, medication management, social activities, and safety. They explain why families need to be honest about memory loss, behavior changes, and care needs during an assisted living assessment, as well as common misconceptions about one-on-one care and resident independence. The conversation also breaks down assisted living costs, including room and board, care levels, assessments, and possible add-on services. Part 1 gives families practical information to begin evaluating assisted living as a Plan B before a crisis happens, while Part 2 will continue the conversation with senior living placement services and what families should know before using them.

Key Moments

00:00 – Why Every Family Needs a Plan B for Aging in Place
Planning ahead helps families avoid rushed decisions when a health crisis, frequent falls, or changing care needs make home less safe.

03:19 – The Warning Signs That Home May No Longer Be Safe
Recognizing weight loss, medication mistakes, confusion, poor hygiene, missed appointments, trouble with daily activities, and other signs that more support may be needed.

06:44 – When Safety Becomes the Tipping Point
How frequent falls, toileting challenges, medication problems, and caregiver burnout can signal that assisted living may be a safer option.

08:30 – 11 Signs Your Aging Loved One May Need More Help
A closer look at falls, isolation, poor nutrition, medication problems, neglected home care, and other changes families should watch for.

10:25 – Why an Honest Assisted Living Assessment Matters
How nurses look at the whole picture—including health, daily needs, the home environment, and family input—to determine the right level of care.

11:54 – What Families Sometimes Minimize or Hide
Why downplaying memory loss, confusion, wandering, or behavior changes can make it harder to find the safest assisted living or memory care setting.

13:43 – What Assisted Living Is—and Isn't
Understanding the daily support assisted living provides and how it differs from a nursing home or skilled nursing care.

19:12 – What Daily Life Looks Like in Assisted Living
How meals, personal care, housekeeping, activities, social engagement, and daily routines can support safety while preserving independence.

23:21 – Common Misconceptions About Assisted Living
Why assisted living does not provide one-on-one care and why residents maintain the right to make choices about medications, showers, activities, and other parts of daily life.

27:30 – Why Family Involvement Still Matters
How families and assisted living staff can work together when a loved one refuses care or experiences changes in health, memory, or behavior.

28:34 – Independent Living vs. Assisted Living vs. Memory Care
How different senior living options provide different levels of support, supervision, and safety based on your loved one's needs.

35:02 – Understanding Assisted Living Costs
Breaking down base rates, room and board, care levels, assessments, and how a resident's individual care needs may affect monthly costs.

39:40 – What's Included—and What May Cost Extra
Questions to ask about meals, housekeeping, laundry, pet services, family meals, and other possible assisted living add-on costs.

42:16 – Coming Next: Free Senior Living Placement Services
Pam and Linda wrap up Part One and preview Part Two, including how senior living placement services work, what “free” really means, and who pays for these services.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

• "11 Signs Your Aging Parent May Need Help in the Home" Checklist
• Hiring a Private vs. an Agency Caregiver
• Plan B: Choosing an Assisted Living Community Guide and Checklist
• Aging in Place Safety: A Simple Family Checklist 
• As always, for more support, join us for our weekly free newsletter "Senior Saturday."  Your weekly dose of tips, strategies, support, and education to help you best care for your aging loved ones. 

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About Dani:

Dani, RN, has more than 10 years of nursing experience across hospital care, long-term care, and assisted living leadership. As Director of Nursing at Archwood Senior Living in Salem, Wisconsin, she specializes in resident assessments, medication management, individualized care planning, and helping families navigate the transition into assisted living. Dani is passionate about educating families so they can make informed decisions before a healthcare crisis occurs.

About Dorsey Stanley, RN:

Dorsie Stanley, RN, is the Executive Director of Archwood Senior Living in Salem, Wisconsin. With nearly three decades of nursing experience, she has served in leadership roles including Director of Nursing and Executive Director in senior living. Her expertise includes assisted living operations, memory care, quality improvement, resident safety, and helping families understand the care options available for aging loved ones. She is passionate about preserving residents' dignity, independence, and quality of life through compassionate, person-centered care.

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For many aging adults, staying in their own home is more than a preference; it represents independence, comfort, and dignity. But aging in place takes much more than simply remaining in the same house. In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos begin a new series on aging in place by exploring what it really means to live safely and successfully at home as your needs change. They discuss the importance of planning, creating realistic support systems, and having honest family conversations before a crisis forces difficult decisions.

Pam and Linda share practical guidance on reducing fall risks, improving medication safety, building a reliable caregiving team, and recognizing the warning signs that an older adult may no longer be safe living independently. They explain how regular check-ins, home safety modifications, community resources, and emergency planning help families support aging loved ones while preserving independence. The episode also introduces the importance of creating a thoughtful "Plan B" before it is needed, helping families make future housing decisions with confidence instead of during an emergency. Whether you're caring for a parent today or planning for the future, this episode offers practical strategies to help your loved one age in place safely and successfully. With practical tips and compassionate guidance, Pam and Linda help families plan so aging in place can remain both safe and realistic.

Key Moments

00:00 — Aging in Place Begins with a Plan
 Why aging in place is about safety, planning, and quality of life—not simply remaining in the same house.

01:31 — What Aging in Place Really Means
 The health, mobility, memory, medication, and daily living factors families should evaluate.

04:18 — Why Older Adults Want to Stay Home
 Understanding the emotional connection to home, independence, privacy, and familiar routines.

07:14 — Simple Home Safety Changes That Prevent Falls
 Easy home modifications that reduce fall risks and help older adults remain safe at home.

09:08 — Medication Safety, Vision, and Balance
 How medication reviews, hearing and vision checks, and strength exercises reduce health risks.

10:53 — Emergency Preparedness Saves Lives
 Why medical alert systems, emergency plans, and organized medical information are essential.

14:17 — Building a Caregiving Support Team
 Creating a dependable support system with family, neighbors, paid caregivers, and community resources.

18:37 — Medication Management Made Easier
 Pharmacy packaging services, medication delivery, and practical tools to improve medication safety.

19:55 — Warning Signs It May No Longer Be Safe at Home
 Falls, missed medications, weight loss, poor hygiene, confusion, and changes in daily functioning.

25:09 — What to Do When You Notice Red Flags
 How to begin supportive conversations that preserve independence while addressing safety concerns.

32:14 — Creating a Plan B Before a Crisis
 Exploring independent living, assisted living, memory care, and other future housing options.

35:58 — Research Before You Need It
 How touring senior living communities early gives families more choices and reduces stress later.

39:42 — When It's Time to Revisit the Plan
 Creating shared "trigger points" that help families recognize when it's time to consider the next level of care.

42:19 — Planning Protects Everyone
 Why proactive planning helps older adults remain independent longer while giving families greater peace of mind.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

• Emergency To-Go Folder
• Chair Yoga for Older Adults (Free Video) - Chair Yoga | Yoga with Janet
• Aging in Place Safety: A Simple Family Checklist - Aging in place safely (staying at home as you get older) can be a wonderful goal. But it works best when it’s supported by a realistic plan, a safer home setup, and honest check-ins as needs change.
• Home Safety Evaluation through Medicare-Certified Home Health
• As always, for more support, join us for our weekly free newsletter "Senior Saturday."  Your weekly dose of tips, strategies, support, and education to help you best care for your aging loved ones. 

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Choosing the right Medicare coverage can feel overwhelming, especially when you're trying to protect an aging parent while balancing work, caregiving, and everyday life. In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos welcome independent Medicare broker Kevin Mcguire to simplify Medicare in clear, practical language. Together, they explain Medicare Parts A, B, C, and D, compare Medicare Advantage plans with Medicare Supplement (Medigap) coverage, discuss prescription drug coverage, and highlight the questions every family should ask before choosing a Medicare plan. Whether you're enrolling in Medicare for the first time or reviewing your current Medicare coverage, this conversation provides practical guidance to help you make informed Medicare decisions with greater confidence.

Pam, Linda, and Kevin also explore common Medicare mistakes that can lead to unexpected medical bills, delays in care, or coverage gaps. They discuss prior authorizations, out-of-pocket costs, prescription drug changes, annual Medicare reviews, and why working with an independent Medicare advisor can make a significant difference. You'll also learn how lifestyle, travel, chronic health conditions, provider networks, and future healthcare needs should all be considered when choosing Medicare coverage. If Medicare has ever felt confusing or intimidating, this episode offers straightforward answers to help you confidently navigate your healthcare coverage.

Key Moments

00:00 – Why Medicare Decisions Can Feel Overwhelming
Why Medicare decisions can feel overwhelming for caregivers and aging adults.

02:00 – Meet Medicare Expert Kevin Mcguire
Independent Medicare broker Kevin Mcguire shares his healthcare and insurance background.

06:00 – Why an Independent Medicare Broker Matters
How comparing multiple insurance companies can help families make better Medicare decisions.

10:03 – Medicare Parts A, B, C, and D Explained
A simple breakdown of Original Medicare, Medicare Advantage, and prescription drug coverage.

15:30 – Medicare Advantage vs. Medicare Supplement Plans
The biggest differences in costs, coverage, and flexibility.

21:40 – Prescription Drug Coverage and Medicare Part D
Why medication costs surprise many families and how Medicare prescription drug coverage works.

24:45 – New Medicare Prescription Cost Changes
Understanding Medicare's $2,000 annual prescription drug cap, payment plans, and negotiated drug pricing.

30:12 – Choosing the Right Medicare Plan for Your Lifestyle
How travel, provider networks, health conditions, and budget affect Medicare choices.

36:19 – What to Bring to Your Medicare Appointment
The documents, medication lists, and questions every family should prepare.

38:09 – Common Medicare Mistakes to Avoid
Small details that can lead to unexpected bills or coverage problems.

42:49 – Hidden Healthcare Costs and Coverage Gaps
Observation stays, hospital bills, and other Medicare surprises explained.

49:11 – Prior Authorizations and Out-of-Pocket Maximums
What these insurance terms mean and why they matter.

52:16 – Annual Enrollment and When You Can Change Plans
Understanding enrollment periods, special circumstances, and Medicare flexibility.

57:37 – Why Every Medicare Beneficiary Should Have an Annual Review
How yearly Medicare reviews help keep coverage aligned with changing healthcare needs.

01:00:47 – Final Advice for Families
Kevin shares his most important message for caregivers navigating Medicare decisions.

About Kevin Mcguire

Kevin Mcguire is the owner of Tailored Health Designs and an independent Medicare broker with more than eight years of Medicare experience, along with previous healthcare billing experience in medical clinics. His background allows him to help individuals and families compare Medicare options across multiple insurance companies while helping families understand how Medicare coverage decisions affect real-world healthcare costs. Kevin is passionate about educating families so they can confidently choose Medicare plans that best fit their healthcare needs, budget, and lifestyle.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

• Medicare.gov
• ADRC (Aging and Disability Resource Centers
• Wisconsin SeniorCare (Wisconsin residents)
• Medicare Annual Enrollment Decision-Making Worksheet -  This worksheet helps you walk into your Medicare Insurance Advisor appointment prepared, so you can clearly explain your needs, ask the right questions, and feel confident about your next step.
  What this guide is (and who it’s for)
  This is a practical, step-by-step decision-making worksheet for:
  ·         Adults turning 65
  ·         People already on Medicare who want to review or change coverage during Annual Enrollment
  ·         Adult children helping a parent sort through Medicare choices 

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In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos continue their series on getting your affairs in order with a conversation many families avoid until they’re forced to face it: taxes. Joined by Enrolled Agent and tax professional Megan Steinfeld of Cream City Accounting, they discuss what happens when retirement, widowhood, caregiving, or the death of a loved one suddenly leaves someone responsible for tax matters they haven’t handled before. Megan shares why tax issues often feel overwhelming, what families commonly miss when stepping into a parent’s financial world, and how a little preparation today can prevent confusion and stress later.

Throughout the conversation, Megan offers practical guidance and peace of mind for aging adults and family caregivers. She explains that most tax mistakes are fixable, why IRS notices are not always bad news, and how families can stay ahead of problems by organizing documents, understanding income sources, and knowing where important records are kept. Whether you're helping an aging parent, preparing your spouse for the future, or simply trying to get your own affairs in order, this episode provides clear, approachable advice to help you feel more confident and prepared when tax responsibilities inevitably become part of the caregiving journey.

Key Moments:

00:00 – Why Tax Planning Matters for Aging Adults
Pam and Linda introduce the importance of tax preparation, financial organization, and reducing family stress.

02:33 – Meet Megan Steinfeld, Enrolled Agent
Megan explains her background and what it means to be an IRS-authorized Enrolled Agent.

04:39 – How Retirement Changes Your Tax Situation
Understanding Social Security, pensions, retirement accounts, investments, and tax withholding.

06:27 – Common Tax Mistakes Families Make
Why moving too quickly or filing with incomplete information can create problems.

08:22 – Can Tax Mistakes Be Fixed?
Megan shares reassuring news about correcting errors and responding to IRS notices.

09:55 – Do Seniors Still Need to File Taxes?
How age alone does not determine filing requirements and what factors matter most.

11:10 – Identity Theft Protection for Older Adults
Why filing returns and using IRS Identity Protection PINs can help prevent fraud.

13:08 – Working During Retirement
How part-time employment can affect Social Security taxation and overall tax liability.

15:06 – When to Seek Professional Tax Help
Red flags including IRS notices, inherited assets, home sales, and the loss of a spouse.

20:26 – Special Tax Considerations for Seniors
Enhanced deductions, filing thresholds, and changes introduced for older taxpayers.

22:13 – Organizing Tax Documents Before a Crisis
Simple systems for tracking tax forms, online accounts, and financial records.

25:02 – Selling a Home or Moving to Senior Living
Potential tax implications, deductions, and common recordkeeping challenges.

27:22 – What Happens When a Parent Passes Away?
Estate returns, trust considerations, and understanding the step-up in basis.

29:19 – Tax Myths Families Need to Stop Believing
Why retirement does not automatically eliminate taxes or filing obligations.

32:47 – Three Steps to Get Organized Today
Practical actions aging adults and caregivers can take immediately.

38:31 – Handling Taxes After the Death of a Loved One
How adult children can verify filing status, retrieve records, and manage final returns.

42:14 – What If Taxes Haven’t Been Filed for Years?
Megan explains how families can get back on track and create a manageable action plan. 

About Megan Hawley-Steinfeld, EA: 

Megan Steinfeld is an Enrolled Agent (EA) and owner of Cream City Accounting. As a federally licensed tax professional authorized directly by the IRS, Megan specializes exclusively in taxation, tax planning, and taxpayer representation. With more than a decade of experience, she helps individuals, families, and business owners navigate complex tax situations with confidence and clarity. Megan is passionate about information literacy and helping people understand tax topics that often feel overwhelming, especially during major life transitions.

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Resources Mentioned in This Episode: 

• As always, for more support, join us for our weekly free newsletter "Senior Saturday."  Your weekly dose of tips, strategies, support, and education to help you best care for your aging loved ones. 
• IRS Identity Protection PIN Program
• IRS Resources on Tax Forms and Filing Requirements for Seniors

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Contact Megan Steinfeld:

• Website: CreamCityAccounting.com
• LinkedIn
  
  

In this episode of Healthcare Redefined: Advocating for Aging Adults and Their Families, hosts Pam Dunwald and Linda Kritikos continue Season 2 with an essential conversation about financial planning for aging adults and family caregivers. Joined by Certified Financial Planner™and Wealth Management Advisor Dave Czarnecki, they discuss why financial planning is about much more than money; it involves protecting independence, preserving dignity, reducing family stress, and creating options for future care. The discussion explores common planning mistakes families make when they wait until a crisis occurs, how to organize important financial and legal documents, and why proactive planning helps aging adults maintain greater control over future decisions.

Dave also provides a practical overview of long-term care planning and long-term care insurance, including when to begin researching coverage, common misconceptions about Medicare and long-term care costs, and the importance of having a strategy to fund future care needs. Throughout the conversation, Pam, Linda, and Dave emphasize that getting your affairs in order does not have to happen all at once. Small, consistent steps taken today can help families avoid financial regret, reduce conflict, and create a smoother path through caregiving, health challenges, and care transitions. 

Key Moments:

00:00 – Season 2 Begins: Why Financial Planning Matters for Aging Adults
 Pam and Linda introduce Season 2 and explain why proactive financial planning is an essential part of aging well and reducing future family stress.

01:43 – Meet Dave: Certified Financial Planner™ and Fiduciary Advisor
 Dave shares his professional background and explains what it means to serve clients as a fiduciary advisor.

03:23 – Starting Financial Planning with Family Goals and Priorities
 Learn why financial planning should begin with your values, lifestyle goals, caregiving preferences, and family priorities—not just numbers.

05:13 – Costly Mistakes Families Make When They Delay Planning
 Dave discusses how waiting until a crisis occurs can limit options, increase costs, and create unnecessary stress for families.

07:45 – What “Getting Your Affairs in Order” Really Means
 Discover the key components of organizing financial, legal, and personal information before an emergency happens.

10:04 – Essential Legal and Financial Documents Every Family Needs
 Dave outlines the critical documents every aging adult should have in place, including powers of attorney, wills, trusts, and advance directives.

13:02 – How to Start Difficult Conversations with Aging Parents
 Practical tips for approaching sensitive planning discussions in a way that feels supportive rather than threatening.

14:57 – Three Simple Steps to Begin Planning Today
 Dave shares three practical actions listeners can take right away to start organizing important information and creating a plan.

16:19 – Supporting Aging Parents Without Taking Over
 Learn how adult children can offer assistance while still respecting a parent's independence, dignity, and decision-making authority.

17:58 – Documents and Information to Gather Before an Emergency
 A checklist of the financial, medical, legal, and contact information families should keep readily accessible.

19:18 – Long-Term Care Insurance Explained
 Dave provides a clear overview of what long-term care insurance is, what it covers, and how it can help fund future care needs.

22:19 – When to Consider Long-Term Care Insurance
 Find out why timing matters and why many professionals recommend exploring long-term care insurance before health issues arise.

24:03 – Common Myths About Long-Term Care Insurance
 Dave addresses common misconceptions, including assumptions about Medicare coverage and the affordability of long-term care insurance.

25:40 – Building Long-Term Care into Your Financial Plan
 Learn how long-term care planning fits into a broader strategy that includes finances, legal planning, and care coordination.

27:15 – Reducing Stress During Health Changes and Care Transitions
 Discover how advance planning can help families navigate illness, hospitalization, and caregiving transitions with greater confidence.

29:12 – What If You Feel Like You've Waited Too Long?
 Dave offers encouragement and explains why it is rarely too late to take meaningful steps toward better planning.

30:03 – Preserving Independence, Choice, and Dignity
 A discussion about how thoughtful financial planning helps aging adults maintain control over future care decisions.

32:40 – One Action Step: A 30-Minute Document Inventory
 Dave's simple challenge for listeners: spend 30 minutes gathering and organizing important documents this week.

33:02 – What Avoiding Financial Regret Looks Like
 Real-life examples illustrate how preparation can help families avoid unnecessary financial losses, conflict, and rushed decisions.

34:38 – Building Your Professional Planning Team
 Dave shares the value of working with trusted professionals, including financial planners, elder law attorneys, nurse advocates, and care experts.

About Dave Czarnecki, CFP®, CLU®, ChFC®, CAP®, RICP®, WMCP®, CLTC®: 

As a Wealth Management Advisor with Northwestern Mutual in Milwaukee, WI, Dave works with clients nationwide through virtual consultations. His team specializes in comprehensive financial planning for entrepreneurs and tech industry professionals, focusing on equity compensation diversification strategies. 

He primarily assists closely held business owners and highly compensated tech professionals. His goal is to simplify the complexities of equity compensation, including RSUs, ISOs, ESPPs, stock options, and concentrated stock positions, through personalized planning that supports long-term financial freedom and optimizes tax efficiency. 

With nearly a decade of experience, Dave has guided a diverse array of clients through major milestones such as scaling businesses, liquidity events, promotions, and retirement. Whether designing stock diversification plans, implementing tax-efficient strategies, or preparing for a business exit, he helps clients align their wealth with their goals. 

He holds multiple professional designations, including CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, Chartered Life Underwriter, Chartered Financial Consultant, Chartered Advisor in Philanthropy, Retirement Income Certified Professional, Wealth Management Certified Professional, and Certified in Long-Term Care. Dave graduated from Ripon College with a degree in mathematics and minors in economics and computer science. Outside of work, he lives in Waukesha, WI, with my wife and 3 children, and enjoys exploring the Greater Milwaukee area, coaching my children's sports teams, camping, and playing tennis & golf.

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