Healthy Dialogue

Healthy Dialogue

By Spencer HirataSociety & Culture
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Healthy Dialogue episodes

  • 9. Finding your place in the market

    Welcome to Healthy Dialogue! Join the community! https://discord.gg/6ZzwzA3pKg 

    Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

    Speakers: Spencer  


    Reference to the podcast outline here:  

    https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/866081882684391444 


    [00:00:00] Startup Gibberish  

    [00:00:48] Start 

    [00:01:19] "The Market"  

    [00:14:13] Finding your spot  

    [00:47:45] Personal Segments    

    [00:48:55] Is the industry you're trying to get into meeting your expectations     

    [00:51:25] How is finding a job in your early 20's / Coming out of secondary education     

    [00:51:25] What problems are there with finding your place     

    [00:54:49] How often have you changed career paths     

    [00:55:44] Job Searching - Websites, Recruiters, Talking with Employees, Networking Events, Resumes  

    [01:07:28] Closing - Future plans and current work status

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    1 hr 14 min
  • 8. Losing Weight Tips

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    Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

    Speakers: Spencer  


    Reference to the podcast outline here: 

    https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/863486323343360061

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    56 min
  • 6. Reviewing tips for finding "the one"

    Welcome to Healthy Dialogue! Join the community! https://discord.gg/6ZzwzA3pKg 

    Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

    Speakers: Spencer, Alon  


    Reference to the outline here: 

    https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/858423884919341086 


    The article that has the tips listed in this podcast: 

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/open-gently/201902/15-questions-know-if-youve-found-the-one


    [00:00:00] Future plans / Random banter 

    [00:11:40] Intro to podcast topic / Tips start 

    [00:12:48] Does your partner make you a better person, and do you do the same for them? 

    [00:21:54] Are you and your partner both comfortable with sharing feelings, relying on each other, being close, and able to avoid worrying about the other person leaving? 

    [00:32:35] Do you and your partner accept each other for who you are, without trying to change each other? 

    [00:38:28] When disagreements arise, do you and your partner communicate respectfully and without contempt or negativity? 

    [00:40:48] Do you and your partner share decision-making, power, and influence in the relationship? 

    [00:46:46] Is your partner your best friend, and are you theirs? 

    [00:50:10] Do you and your partner think more in terms of “we” and “us,” rather than “you” and “I”? 

    [00:55:55] Would you and your partner trust each other with the passwords to social media and bank accounts? 

    [00:59:39] Do you and your partner have good opinions of each other—without having an overinflated positive view? 

    [01:03:37] Do your close friends, as well as your partner’s, think you have a great relationship that will stand the test of time? 

    [01:09:02] Is your relationship free of red flags like cheating, jealousy and controlling behavior? 

    [01:16:44] Do you and your partner share the same values when it comes to politics, religion, the importance of marriage, the desire to have kids (or not), and how to parent? 

    [01:19:02] Are you and your partner willing to sacrifice your own needs, desires, and goals for each other (without being a doormat)? 

    [01:21:00] Do you and your partner both have agreeable and emotionally stable personalities? 

    [01:23:45] Are you and your partner sexually compatible? 

    [01:28:31] Closing

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    1 hr 32 min
  • 5. The age of social media

    Welcome to Healthy Dialogue! Join the community! https://discord.gg/6ZzwzA3pKg 

    Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

    Speakers: Spencer

    Reference to the podcast outline here: 

    https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/855358150881443850


    00:00 - Spencer Banter 

    02:27 - Podcast Starts / Intro 

    19:35 - Spencer's Social Media History 

    37:05 - Question section

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    1 hr
  • 4. The dating scene and knowing when you find "The one" Part 2 W/ Alon

    Welcome to Healthy Dialogue! Join the community! https://discord.gg/6ZzwzA3pKg 

    Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

    Speakers: Spencer, Alon

    Reference to the question list here: https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/853205878235463741


    0:00:00 - Podcast introduction/introducing Alon 

    0:07:29 - Q/A Starts 

    0:08:11 - When are you ready to date? 

    0:12:35 - How self love contributes to your self perception of being date-able 

    0:16:03 - Deflecting romantic interest "hints" / What defines hints? / Exploring love languages 

    0:22:10 - Past relationships 

    0:25:49 - Spencer's perspective of his past relationships not working out 

    0:28:13 - Alon's retrospective of his past relationship not working out 

    0:31:31 - How do you market yourself? Does pursuing yourself make you more marketable? 

    0:44:10 - Putting effort into marketing yourself 

    0:45:41 - What advice would you give to someone who doesn't think they're ready to date yet? 

    0:48:34 - How do you support someone who doesn't think they're ready to date 

    0:56:05 - Dating apps 

    0:58:55 - Men VS Women dating app experiences 

    1:03:15 - Spencer's past resentment towards male dating pool 

    1:04:31 - Benefits to different generic dating apps 

    1:06:17 - Why hobby focused or regionalized dating apps are better than generic ones 

    1:07:24 - The benefits to being an outgoing character on dating apps 

    1:07:53 - Sifting through the dating app feedback of being undesirable 

    1:09:52 - Alon's advice/takeaway perspectives about dating apps 

    1:11:33 - The bio problem 

    1:14:18 - How disconnected dating apps are from a genuine conversation / Other means to finding dates 

    1:20:00 - Spencer's past relationships stemming from his existing network 

    1:22:19 - Polyamorous-Monogamous relationships 

    1:25:30 - Closing statements. Discussing "the one" for different podcast

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    1 hr 31 min
  • 2. Complexity of communication

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    Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

    Speakers: Spencer  

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    30 min
  • 1. Healthy Dialogue Podcast and Community: A new community

    Healthy Dialogue is a platform that exploits the act of exchanging perspectives to achieve greater understanding as a collection of individuals. The brand is both a podcast and a community. Everything and anything is on the table for discussion. We dedicate to finding clarity and engaging with each other on the basis of good faith. If you're convinced that Healthy Dialogue is the right place for you, we'd be honored to have you join!

    I (the main speaker and owner, Spencer) am passionate about self improvement, mental health, solving problems, and maintaining/creating relationships in my network. Nice to meet you :)

    Subscribe to YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIoNUA-wRfJeYoLBTPMC3JQ 

    Join the community discord here: https://discord.gg/6ZzwzA3pKg

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    36 min

About Healthy Dialogue

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Healthy Dialogue is a platform that exploits the act of exchanging perspectives to achieve greater understanding as a collection of individuals. The brand is both a podcast and a community. Everything and anything is on the table for discussion. We dedicate to finding clarity and engaging with each other on the basis of good faith. If you're convinced that Healthy Dialogue is the right place for you, we'd be honored to have you join!