I haven’t had it (yet)… but I want it—bad. In this episode, we’re diving into the fantasy of being dominated the right way: with confidence, care, and full-body presence. We’re talking soft power, safe surrender, and why being told exactly what to do (by the right person) feels less like losing control and more like finally letting go. This one’s for every babe who’s ready to be held down and held gently.

Faking chill? Over it. In this episode, we’re diving into why sex gets so much hotter when you stop performing, speak up, and actually say what you want. From asking for more to dropping the "cool girl" act, this is your reminder that clarity is sexy—and so is taking up space in bed.

Once upon a time, I played by the dating rulebook—don’t text first, wait three dates for sex, never be “too available.” Sound familiar? In this episode, I’m unpacking the rules I used to follow, the fear that kept me there, and the freedom I found in letting them go. From rewriting what it means to show interest to dating with intention instead of strategy, we’re diving into how real connection starts when you stop performing and start trusting yourself. Consider this your permission slip to play by your own rules.

Can you open your heart when it’s still bruised? In this episode, we talk about what it really looks like to date while you're still healing — from breakups, betrayal, trauma, or just your own past patterns. We cover the difference between growth and avoidance, how to spot when you're projecting pain onto new people, and why it's okay to want connection and still be a work in progress. Vulnerable, messy, and real — this one’s for anyone trying to figure it out without losing themselves in the process.

You tell everyone you’re just friends—but let’s be real, if he leaned in, you’d fall without hesitation. In this episode, we’re diving into the blurry, breathless space between friendship and fantasy. When the tension simmers, the hugs linger, and the "what ifs" feel louder than the truth… can you really stay just friends with someone you secretly crave? Let’s talk about the chemistry you pretend isn’t there—and what happens when you can’t ignore it anymore.

It wasn’t part of the plan. He was supposed to be background noise—harmless, maybe cute, but not craving-worthy. And yet… one flirty moment later, you're fantasizing about his hands, his mouth, and what he sounds like when he moans. In this episode, we’re unpacking those unexpected desires, how lust sneaks up on us, and what to do when your body writes a story your brain didn’t see coming. It’s giving surprise spiral energy—and it’s so hot.

You know that moment—when a guy you’ve talked to maybe twice suddenly unlocks your entire sensual imagination? Yeah… same. In this episode, we’re talking about how unexpected attraction flips the switch, why our bodies know what they want before our brains catch up, and how fantasizing about someone you barely know isn’t delulu—it’s delicious. Grab your headphones and get cozy—we’re mentally undressing him together.

It wasn’t love, but it still stung. In this episode, I unpack the quiet heartbreak of dating someone who felt like potential—until they didn’t. From soft ghosts to slow fades, let’s talk about how to move on without losing your softness, your standards, or your spark.

We all have that one “what if” — the guy we used to daydream about, wondering what could’ve been. Well… I found out. And babes, it was bad. In this episode, I spill all the awkward, cringey, and hilariously disappointing details of finally hooking up with my long-time almost… and why sometimes, the fantasy should stay a fantasy. Spoiler: it was the worst sex of my life.

You’ve blocked him, unblocked him, sworn him off… and still answered his 1am “hey.” In this episode, we’re diving into the magnetic pull of that man—the one who makes your body say yes and your brain scream RUN. Let’s talk lust, loops, and finally breaking the spell.