If we are to be completely in a relationship, we have to be whole, aware individuals who know what we feel and what we wants well as what we think, and we have to truly want to be in community with others. We have to be full and complete with ourselves. We can't come into a relationship as people who depend on others to provide approval to make them feel whole.
When we come into relationships as whole individuals committed to accepting others in our community for who they are, as they are, we are committing to the relationship rather than ourselves, without giving up on ourselves.
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