The inner-child gangster herself, Cierra Dae, shares with us the ins & outs of her transition from monogamy to polyamory. With a relatable story on seeking love, worth & validation through partnership, Cierra drops some big emotional intelligence bombs. What does the inner child have to do with your relationship and your partner's needs? Do you honor your partner as a human or an object you own? Do you have enough space for a new partner?
Episode Highlights
- The different types of non-monogamy from monogamish to polyamory 3:54
- Cierra’s story finding polyamory through seeking love, worth & validation 14:39
- The felt need to keep up & have more partners in polyamory...Do I have enough space? 25:18
- The moments where you lean out the most are the moments you need to lean in 29:58
- Shifting from blaming your partner to “naming where you’re at” & the inner child seeking parenting 33:32
- How do we address the inner child in relationship without becoming the other person’s therapist while holding space for sexuality? 39:42
- Finding emotional intelligence through monogamy 43:38
- The lesson of ownership & individuality in non-monogamy 45:27
- Energetic hygiene 54:04
- The drama in casual relationships 58:37
- How to transition a relationship into polyamory 1:01:48
- How to find or work with Cierra 1:08:45
Find Cierra Dae @cierradae
- Website: https://www.presentdaes.com
- Email: [email protected]
- Grounded Parenting 1:1 Program - https://www.presentdaes.com/groundedparenting
Polyamory Resources
- Multiamory Podcast : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/multiamory/id913403767
- Polysecure Book: https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy-ebook/dp/B08F5L14MY/ref=nodl_
Poly Instagram Resources:
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Neil @neildisy
- Work w/ Neil www.neildisy.com
Zach @justzachkaufman
- Work w/ Zach www.calendly.com/eli125
Contact
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Credits
Music-Max Van Soest @ max_fly5