Heart & Soul

It's the end of the year. In a rare moment, Mistress Alisa decides to become a bit more personal about her own journey, in an attempt to help listeners embrace life, as opposed to being stuck in the past. One of the biggest struggles for sex addicts is running from the things that haunt them. Mistress Alisa talks about making choices that present more opportunities to live life to the fullest and that increases one's chances of finding true fulfillment.

Mistress Alisa talks to sex addicts about the difference between wanting change in their lives and wanting to actually do the work to affect change in their lives. This is more real talk for those who are on the journey to sex addiction recovery. If you feel stuck on your journey, then this might be just the message that you need to hear.

NOTE: This episode is not for the faint of heart. Mistress Alisa digs deep and issues a heart-felt warning to those who make light of sex addiction. After years of having clients and potential clients play games with their lives, Mistress Alisa has decided to shine a light on the issue, in hopes that this important message will help someone who needs to hear it. Again, the overall tone of this episode is considerably heavier than what most listeners may be accustomed to.

Mistress gives the listener deeper insights into the inner workings of a true Domme. This segment will help other Dommes to understand their own true potential within the context of D/s, while simultaneously a helping submissive men to better understand their own value as the goodboy who serves. No games. No gimmicks. Just pure heart and soul.

Mistress Alisa revisits a familiar topic and helps listeners to push ahead with clarity and focus. She speaks directly into the life of the listener on sensitive topics and helps them to identify areas in their lives that may be holding them back. If you are tired of being stuck, and you are ready for change, this podcast is for you!

Mistress Alisa addresses the ramifications of men embracing "the victim card" in order to avoid accepting responsibility for their own actions. She talks about what playing the victim card looks like and how doing so can negatively impact one's life and relationships.

This segment addresses the ways in which dominant women can learn to bring out the best in their submissive men. When a balance is reached in the relationship, it becomes extremely gratifying and fulfilling.

In one of the sex addiction support groups that I belong to, a man posted, seeking support and accountability for the situation that he found himself. He had been struggling with an addiction of a sexual nature, which had played a role in the demise of his first marriage, and which was playing a role in creating problems in his second marriage. It became a relatively popular post, especially since there were so many that could relate to the details of his story. Having helped my clients to work through similar issues, I shared some general advice with him.

Once all of the clutter has been stripped away, you are left with that which is yours. You will be much closer to your truth when the distractions have been removed from your space. This is the ultimate goal. It is for you to live your truth. Not anyone else’s, but your own. Accomplishing this level of living is more valuable than gold.

How do you get to the point of living the life you want to live? It doesn't happen by mistake. Some people stumble into success, but no one ever finds themselves living an amazing life simply by chance. In order to get to the point that you are living your best life possible, you have to wake up. You must realize that some of the choices that you have been making aren't working for you. Then, you have to be willing to actually do something about your situation.