Mina Lee had the promotions, the thousand-dollar dinners, the career everyone wanted. And she felt lonely.
Her family invested more than a million dollars in her education, hard-earned immigrant money after everything they owned was taken in China's Cultural Revolution. Mina delivered: BCG, the World Bank, Chief of Staff at Xiaomi. Then she walked away, not toward another job, but toward herself. Today she coaches founders and leads East West Bridge. This is the conversation about how she found her way home.
In this episode:
- Why achieving everything can deepen loneliness instead of fixing it
- Walking away from an elite career (BCG, the World Bank, Xiaomi) to follow your heart
- The immigrant pressure to succeed, and the weight of carrying it
- How desperation became an unexpected gift, and learning to receive after a life of self-reliance
- Improv, music, and living instead of rehearsing your life
- Self-care as melting into awareness
- Letting the body catch up when the heart has raced ahead
00:00 Intro
01:34 A heart that was always there (Sailor Moon)
02:18 Having everything, and feeling lonely
03:30 The loneliness underneath: "I missed myself"
04:59 Improv, music, and no wrong notes
07:15 Rehearsing your life instead of living it
09:06 A perfect life made the emptiness obvious
09:47 Walking away, and her brother's love
11:34 Her father's stroke, and desperation as a gift
16:35 From music to coaching (meeting Joe)
23:22 Tea, energy, and self-care
33:59 Resting as melting into awareness
37:39 Letting the body catch up
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👤 About Mina Lee:
Mina is a coach and facilitator working with founders and teams to live an open-hearted life. Her East–West approach integrates business strategy, somatics, and attachment. She also hosts Chan tea meditation retreats.
💻 Mina can be found:
Website: https://www.minajlee.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/minalee/
✨ About Vlada Bortnik:
Vlada Bortnik is the CEO and co-founder of Marco Polo, the video messaging app designed to help people feel close without sacrificing time, privacy, or wellbeing. A Ukrainian refugee who arrived in the U.S. at 11, she built the company alongside her husband Michał while raising two young children, guided by her belief that technology should strengthen human connection, not exploit it. Today, she leads Marco Polo as a profitable, mission-driven company and speaks candidly about balancing parenthood and entrepreneurship while building ethical technology that scales.
💻 Vlada can be found:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vlada
Substack: https://heartfulwonders.substack.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vladabortnik
Marco Polo: https://www.marcopolo.me/
📎 Resources mentioned:
The Body Keeps the Score (Bessel van der Kolk): https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/313183/the-body-keeps-the-score-by-bessel-van-der-kolk-md/
Art of Accomplishment (Joe Hudson): https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/
Episode is produced by:
Mun Yee Kelly: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mun-yee-kelly-769868/
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