In culture today we have been taught to hate "L's" aka Losses, and truthfully, they are hurtful and in most cases make you feel worthless, and much so a failure. and i for one used to feel like that, i hate failing. It makes me cringe. In fact literally put my moods in a whole other game. Until one time, God made me realize that those 'L's' were wins, i was able to win, here is how every time I made 'L' that was a lesson to learn and perfect that L into a long life lesson that would carry me down to God's purpose for my life. I stopped calling them Losses and lessons that I had to learn. When my mindset changed I started getting better. I wont say im 100% perfect and that I still dont cringe over them but now I am relaxed when it happens to us i know it's an area for utter perfection with God.
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