After more than 80 columns, Hera’s advice spans the spectrum of human troubles. For our live event, we revisited three problems from the archives, talked about Hera’s response, and heard updates from the callers themselves. Note: the callers emailed in their updates so the voices you hear won’t be their actual voices. Instead you’ll hear some of the greatest voice talent that works in the Spinoff offices.

To find out more about The Spinoff's series of live events visit https://thespinoff.co.nz/events

Help Me Hera: An acquaintance is in love with me and it’s making me uncomfortable

Help Me Hera: I’m trans and my mum is a Posie Parker superfan

Help Me Hera: I’m desperate to have kids but my partner is stalling

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