The YouSchool Podcast

Help Your Teen Thrive: Using Mattering as a Parenting Strategy

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Episode Summary
In this episode of The YouSchool Podcast, Scott Schimmel breaks down the concept of "mattering" and why it’s crucial for teenage development. Drawing from the latest research by Gordon Flett, Gregory Elliott, and Isaac Prilleltensky, Scott explains what mattering means, why it goes beyond simple connection, and how parents can practically show their kids they truly matter. Discover how mattering impacts self-worth, reduces risky behavior, and boosts academic engagement, and learn specific actions you can take to affirm your teen’s value.

Chapters

  • [00:01] Introduction: Why helping our kids feel they matter is essential.
  • [02:28] What is Mattering?: The science behind mattering and why it’s important.
  • [04:54] Beyond Connection: Understanding the difference between connection, belonging, and mattering.
  • [07:01] Components of Mattering: Breaking down attention, importance, and dependence.
  • [09:24] Impact of Mattering: Statistics on how mattering reduces depression and risky behavior.
  • [11:49] Practical Tips for Parents: Actions to show your teen they matter.
  • [14:02] Conclusion & Resources: Encouragement to consistently affirm your child’s value.
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