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Hello and welcome to The Universal Laws with Kristy Sturdivant podcast.
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a loop of struggle or caught in the trap of "hustle culture"? In this powerful episode I am joined by Candace Bethel to explore the profound archetypes of masculine and feminine energy through the lens of the Gene Keys.
From the "Toxic" shadows to the "Divine" frequencies, we break down how these energies show up in our bodies, our businesses, and our evolution.
The Spectrum of Energy: Shadow, Gift, and Siddhi
In the Gene Keys, energy moves through three primary stages. Candace and Kristy map these onto our understanding of gender dynamics:
The Shadow (Toxic Masculine & Feminine): This is the reactive or repressive state.
Toxic Masculine: Driven by a constant need to do, go, and hustle—often reacting outward.
Toxic Feminine: Characterized by repression, suppressed trauma, and silence that eventually "erupts" after being pushed down for too long.
The Gift (Dark Masculine & Feminine): Despite the name, "Dark" here refers to the depth of the subconscious and the beginning of neutrality.
In this stage, the masculine begins to listen and converse rather than just blame.
The feminine begins to feel comfortable being herself, though she may still loop back into old shadows.
The Siddhi (Divine Masculine & Feminine): This is the state of total neutrality and high vibration. It is a state of "ascension" where you see the shadow and the gift for what they are—essential lessons in the journey—without judgment.
Why We Get Stuck in the "Loop"
Candace highlights that many of us get stuck in the Shadow because we are operating in "victim mode" or "ego mode". If you find yourself judging others or constantly struggling, you are likely repeating a loop designed to teach you a specific lesson.
The key to moving up the spectrum? Pause. * Use the feminine energy to listen to what your body needs.
Use the masculine energy to take that wisdom and move upward into a higher frequency.
Human Design as Your Blueprint
Knowing your specific chart can act as a "flashlight" for your life. Whether you carry the Channel of Struggle or the Channel of Judgment, these aren't "bad" traits—they are catalysts for quantum leaps in your personal growth.
"If you are looking at other people, you are not growing. You are in victim mode... and you will continue to loop." — Candace Bethel
Candace will be beginning a new session where she will help you get ready for this next phase, check out her website https://www.embodiedvibrance.com And if you have any questions or want to book with her on a 1:1 basis email her at [email protected]
🎲I have been secretly working on a geeky project and I am finally able to reveal it to you. If you love a good RPG guide (don’t we all) and want to get into a contemplative or meditative practice, then check out my guide: Roll 4 Intention! In this PDF I’m going to show you how I have increased my time in stillness in a fun and playful way by rolling dice. That’s right my fellow dice goblins, this one is for you😉 Check out my starter guide here: https://www.kristysturdivant.com/roll4intention
📖Need a book to read while you are following your natural energetic flow? Please consider checking out my book Manifesting with the Moon.If you read the book and feel the urge, please leave a review so others can find it more easily. This way we can all begin to tap into that beautiful lunar energy! Check it out on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G1MPTHRX/ref=sr_1_1
📺Prefer to watch this instead of listening? Go check out my YouTube channel @hestiasspark for this video and many more!
Music: www.purple-planet.com
By Universal Laws with Kristy SturdivantHello and welcome to The Universal Laws with Kristy Sturdivant podcast.
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a loop of struggle or caught in the trap of "hustle culture"? In this powerful episode I am joined by Candace Bethel to explore the profound archetypes of masculine and feminine energy through the lens of the Gene Keys.
From the "Toxic" shadows to the "Divine" frequencies, we break down how these energies show up in our bodies, our businesses, and our evolution.
The Spectrum of Energy: Shadow, Gift, and Siddhi
In the Gene Keys, energy moves through three primary stages. Candace and Kristy map these onto our understanding of gender dynamics:
The Shadow (Toxic Masculine & Feminine): This is the reactive or repressive state.
Toxic Masculine: Driven by a constant need to do, go, and hustle—often reacting outward.
Toxic Feminine: Characterized by repression, suppressed trauma, and silence that eventually "erupts" after being pushed down for too long.
The Gift (Dark Masculine & Feminine): Despite the name, "Dark" here refers to the depth of the subconscious and the beginning of neutrality.
In this stage, the masculine begins to listen and converse rather than just blame.
The feminine begins to feel comfortable being herself, though she may still loop back into old shadows.
The Siddhi (Divine Masculine & Feminine): This is the state of total neutrality and high vibration. It is a state of "ascension" where you see the shadow and the gift for what they are—essential lessons in the journey—without judgment.
Why We Get Stuck in the "Loop"
Candace highlights that many of us get stuck in the Shadow because we are operating in "victim mode" or "ego mode". If you find yourself judging others or constantly struggling, you are likely repeating a loop designed to teach you a specific lesson.
The key to moving up the spectrum? Pause. * Use the feminine energy to listen to what your body needs.
Use the masculine energy to take that wisdom and move upward into a higher frequency.
Human Design as Your Blueprint
Knowing your specific chart can act as a "flashlight" for your life. Whether you carry the Channel of Struggle or the Channel of Judgment, these aren't "bad" traits—they are catalysts for quantum leaps in your personal growth.
"If you are looking at other people, you are not growing. You are in victim mode... and you will continue to loop." — Candace Bethel
Candace will be beginning a new session where she will help you get ready for this next phase, check out her website https://www.embodiedvibrance.com And if you have any questions or want to book with her on a 1:1 basis email her at [email protected]
🎲I have been secretly working on a geeky project and I am finally able to reveal it to you. If you love a good RPG guide (don’t we all) and want to get into a contemplative or meditative practice, then check out my guide: Roll 4 Intention! In this PDF I’m going to show you how I have increased my time in stillness in a fun and playful way by rolling dice. That’s right my fellow dice goblins, this one is for you😉 Check out my starter guide here: https://www.kristysturdivant.com/roll4intention
📖Need a book to read while you are following your natural energetic flow? Please consider checking out my book Manifesting with the Moon.If you read the book and feel the urge, please leave a review so others can find it more easily. This way we can all begin to tap into that beautiful lunar energy! Check it out on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G1MPTHRX/ref=sr_1_1
📺Prefer to watch this instead of listening? Go check out my YouTube channel @hestiasspark for this video and many more!
Music: www.purple-planet.com