How can we step into the role of an elder and hold space for others in times of uncertainty and grief?

Welcome to episode 27 of the Transformative Harmonics podcast, hosted by Paula Scatoloni, LCSW, SEP. In this episode, Paula is joined by Kate Appleton, a family consultant and coach with a deep understanding of grief, death, and the importance of eldership.

Kate shares her experiences of navigating complex family dynamics and intergenerational grief, offering insight into the delicate work of holding space for others through life's most challenging moments. Together, they discuss the role of the elder in today's world, the need for moral courage, and how we can support others in their emotional and spiritual journeys.

Kate Appleton, LPC, SEP, M.Ed/M.Ed, is a somatic psychotherapist, family consultant, and international educator. With over 50 years of experience, she weaves together her background as a Waldorf and special education teacher, spiritual director, and somatic attachment practitioner to support individuals, families, and practitioners in awakening embodied connection and relational healing.

00:00 - Intro

02:06 - Invitation to Slow Down

03:53 - Kate's Current Work Overview

05:33 - Grief Work & Cultural Context

09:29 - The Role of the Elder

12:53 - Working with Families

19:30 - Finding Voice & Agency

22:56 - The Need for Eldership

26:10 - Gratitude, Grace & Compassion

32:54 - Death Before Birth

34:25 - Finding Connection

36:16 - Weaving Threads of Humanity

37:24 - The Sacred Journey of Eldership

39:53 - Near-Death Experience

44:07 - Working with Death & Dying

46:23 - Washing the Body

49:49 - Remembering What It Means to Be Human

52:14 - Where to Find Kate

Find Paula Online

https://paulascatoloni.com

https://substack.com/@paulascatoloni

Find Kate Online

https://www.kate-appleton.com

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