Her Side of the Stories

Why do so many women grow up feeling responsible for everyone around them? In this conversation, Asal Zara speaks with Professor Claire Delahey about the expectations girls absorb from childhood and how those early lessons continue into relationships, motherhood, money, work, confidence, and family life. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

Professor Delahey reflects on how girls learn to help, please, care, and keep other people comfortable long before they fully understand those expectations. She also explores how these patterns affect boundaries, self-worth, parenting, relationships, financial decisions, and the invisible work women often carry.

Topics covered:

• Why Girls Learn to Please Others

• How Gender Roles Start in Childhood

• Teaching Girls to Say No

• Raising Children With More Freedom

• Beauty, Confidence and Self-Worth

• Love, Money and Equality in Relationships

• The Invisible Work Women Carry

• Weaponized Incompetence at Home

• Mother Guilt and the Pressure to Be Perfect

• Why Women Judge Other Women

• Financial Independence in Relationships

• What Equality Looks Like in Everyday Life

Professor Delahey also explains why equality is often shaped by small everyday choices inside homes and relationships, not only by larger political questions. The discussion moves from childhood expectations to money, parenting, domestic work, beauty standards, and the pressure many women feel to do everything well.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Why Women Learn to Put Others First #womensstories #womensexperiences #genderroles

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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Why do we replay conversations, analyze someone’s tone, or assume a change in mood means we did something wrong? In this solo episode, Asal Zara reflects on why overthinking often starts as an attempt to feel prepared, safe, and certain about what comes next. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

Asal explores how learning to read other people’s moods early in life sometimes turns into constant analysis later on. She looks at why silence feels personal, why uncertainty feels difficult, and why people sometimes keep thinking long after there is no new information left to find.

She also reflects on the difference between useful reflection and going around the same thought repeatedly. The deeper question is not always whether you made the right decision. Sometimes the real question is whether you trust yourself to deal with whatever happens next.

Topics covered:

• Why We Replay Conversations

• Reading Into Tone, Silence and Small Details

• Fear of Rejection and Uncertainty

• Childhood Patterns and Reading the Room

• Why Other People’s Moods Feel Personal

• Reflection vs Repeating the Same Thought

• Looking for Certainty Before Making Decisions

• Why Not Every Feeling Needs an Explanation

• Taking Action Instead of Analyzing Everything

• Accepting That Some Questions Stay Unanswered

• Building Self-Trust

• Trusting Yourself With What Happens Next

You do not need every answer in advance. Sometimes peace starts with trusting yourself to handle what comes next.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Why We Overthink Conversations And How To Trust Ourselves Again #womensstories #selftrust #personalgrowth

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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Mandana Karimi has spent much of her life starting again. She grew up in Iran questioning the rules around her, left her country without a clear safety net, built a modeling career across Asia, became a familiar face in Indian entertainment, stepped away from Bollywood, rebuilt professionally, and repeatedly refused to stay inside identities other people chose for her. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

In this intimate conversation with Asal Zara, Mandana reflects on childhood, family, freedom, belonging, ambition, relationships, fame, and the price of building a life entirely on your own terms. She shares how leaving Iran shaped her independence, how India became another home, and why success did not stop her from questioning who she wanted to become next. Her life has continued to change publicly too. In 2026, Mandana announced she was leaving India after almost 16 years there, describing the move as another new beginning.

Topics covered:

• Growing Up and Feeling Different

• Questioning the Life Expected of Her

• Leaving Iran and Starting Again

• Building a Life Without a Safety Net

• Finding Belonging Across Different Countries

• From Modeling to Indian Entertainment

• What Fame Changed

• Marriage, Identity and Starting Over

• Walking Away From Bollywood

• Building a New Career

• Speaking Up About Iran

• Why Mandana Keeps Choosing Freedom

Mandana’s story is about more than leaving places behind. It is about refusing to let a country, career, relationship, or public identity decide who she has to remain.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Mandana Karimi on Freedom, Identity & Starting Again #womensstories #mandanakarimi #reinvention

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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“I don’t feel like myself anymore.” Asal Zara keeps hearing the same words from women living completely different lives. Mothers, wives, business owners, caregivers, women going through divorce, and women whose lives look happy from the outside all describe the same feeling. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

In this solo episode, Asal reflects on why women sometimes stop recognizing themselves inside lives they helped build. She shares her own experience of moving countries, leaving home young, traveling through more than 40 countries, and constantly learning how to adapt.

She explores how childhood roles follow us into adulthood, why capable women often become the person everyone relies on, and how putting yourself last slowly starts to feel normal. Asal also questions what “finding yourself” means and why reconnecting with yourself often begins with small, honest choices rather than dramatic life changes.

Topics covered:

• Why women say “I don’t feel like myself anymore”

• How adapting shapes identity

• Childhood roles that continue into adulthood

• Motherhood, relationships and responsibility

• People-pleasing and belonging

• Why capable women stop asking for what they need

• The difference between functioning and feeling present

• Listening to yourself again

• Small ways to reconnect with who you are

• Finding yourself without changing your whole life

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Finding Yourself Again When You Don’t Feel Like Yourself #womensstories #personalgrowth #selfdiscovery

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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Ilona Nováčková grew up in communist Czechoslovakia and later became one of the most recognizable female faces in her country. But the woman the public saw was only one part of her story. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

In this intimate conversation with Asal Zara, Ilona reflects on childhood, family, becoming known at a young age, her complicated relationship with self-worth and her body, and the experiences that changed the way she understood herself. She also shares how a devastating car accident became another major turning point, forcing her to rebuild physically and emotionally.

Ilona remembers being told that walking normally again might not be possible. Over time, she learned to move differently, live with permanent physical changes, and appreciate what her body could still do. Today she describes dancing, practicing yoga, exercising, and continuing to live fully despite those limitations.

Topics covered:

• Growing Up Behind the Iron Curtain

• Her Relationship With Her Parents

• When Her Father’s Life Changed

• Feeling Alone With Things She Couldn’t Understand

• Becoming a Recognizable Public Face

• The Pressure of Appearance and Self-Worth

• Losing Herself Inside the Life Others Saw

• Finding New Purpose Through Work

• Moving to Mallorca and Finding Home

• The Accident That Changed Everything

• Learning to Trust Her Body Again

• Why Ilona Says She Never Gives Up

Ilona’s story is about the difference between the life people see and the life someone is actually carrying, and what it can mean to rebuild yourself when life changes in ways you never expected.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Behind the Life Everyone Saw #womensstories #reallifestories #emotionalresilience

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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When a relationship ends and a parent passes away, life can shift overnight. In this intimate conversation with Asal Zara, Carmen Ferrer shares what it was really like to return to Ibiza with two young daughters, face sudden loss, and take over her family business. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

Behind her public role as Mayor of Santa Eulària, Carmen reflects on quiet strength, managing overwhelming responsibility, and overcoming the initial feeling of failure when life does not go as planned. She discusses learning self-reliance from her parents, modernizing her family's hotel, and passing the value of true independence to her daughters.

Topics covered:

• Growing Up in Franco-Era Ibiza

• Learning Independence and Hard Work Early

• Building an International Career Away From Home

• The Sudden Loss of Her Father

• Returning to Ibiza as a Single Mother

• Overcoming the Feeling of Failing

• Modernizing the Family Business

• Becoming Mayor and Handling Responsibility

• Passing Strength and Values to Her Daughters

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Carmen Ferrer’s Story: Leadership, Family and Starting Again #womensstories #reallifestories #personalgrowth

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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At sixteen, Amber Joy Rava chose to stop speaking for nearly a year. In a world that felt loud and distracted, silence became her way to slow down, look inward, and listen to what felt real. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

In this intimate conversation with Asal Zara, Amber reflects on growing up in Brooklyn, choosing silence, recovering from a severe gymnastics injury through body awareness, and eventually performing around the world as a fire artist for Cirque du Soleil.

Topics covered:

• Growing Up in Brooklyn

• Choosing a Year of Silence at Sixteen

• Finding Quiet and Isolation in Nature

• Overcoming a Major Gymnastics Injury

• Trusting Instinct and Body Wisdom

• Joining Cirque du Soleil as a Fire Artist

• Releasing Shame and Reclaiming Power

• Simple Ways to Reconnect with Your Body

She speaks openly about the wisdom held within our physical bodies, releasing shame, and how staying true to yourself opens the door to genuine healing.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Amber Joy Rava’s Story: The Year of Silence That Changed Her Life #womensstories #personalgrowth #selfdiscovery

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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Samantha Francis Baker is a Dutch-born creative director and founder whose work has reached major fashion houses including Burberry, Louboutin and Fendi. But behind the career she built is a childhood she had never publicly shared before. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

At four years old, Samantha was separated from her mother and spent much of her childhood growing up away from home. Through all those years, one hope remained constant: that one day she would be able to go back to her mother. Samantha remembers seeing her only occasionally at first and never fully giving herself to another possible home because she was still waiting to return.

In this intimate conversation with Asal Zara, Samantha reflects on family, belonging, her relationship with her mother and brother, growing up quickly, perfectionism, love, motherhood, creativity, and eventually building a life of her own.

Topics covered:

• Being Separated From Her Mother at Four

• Growing Up Away From Home

• The Bond With Her Brother

• Waiting Years to Return to Her Mother

• Understanding Her Mother Differently as an Adult

• Coming Home at Twelve

• How Perfectionism Became Part of Her Life

• Losing the Person Who Felt Like Home

• The Family Who Gave Her Another Home

• Why She Started Living Differently at Seventeen

• Searching for Love, Stability and Belonging

• Moving to Dubai and Building Her Creative Life

• How Motherhood Changed Her Perspective

• Creating the Life She Wanted for Herself

At seventeen, Samantha says she realized how quickly life can change and decided she wanted to make the most of the life her mother had worked so hard to give her. That mindset later shaped her relationships, career choices, and creativity.

Samantha’s story is ultimately about home: losing it, waiting for it, finding it again, and eventually learning how to create it for herself.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

The Childhood That Shaped Samantha Francis Baker #womensstories #reallifestories #identityandbelonging

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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Some women look like they have everything together.

The career, the marriage, the children, the life that seems strong from the outside.

But behind closed doors, they are quietly falling apart.

Canay Atalay was successful, respected, married, a mother of two young girls, and leading in a world where people saw her as strong and capable.

But at home, life looked completely different.

She was living with a husband who was struggling with alcohol addiction, trying to protect her children, hiding what was really happening from almost everyone, and waking up every morning with what she describes as darkness.

I think that is the part so many women will understand in some way. Not the exact story, maybe.

But the feeling of holding a life together from the outside, while somewhere inside you know you are slowly disappearing.

In this episode of Her Side of the Stories, I sit with Canay Atalay, founder of RegenerateX and curator of Heart Masters Ibiza. Through her work, she helps people and organisations create positive change through leadership, innovation and a more conscious way of looking at life.

We talk about marriage, motherhood, addiction, shame, divorce, court battles, and the moment she looked in the mirror and no longer recognised herself.

We talk about the pressure to look successful.

The loneliness of hiding what is really going on.

And the strange way we can keep functioning, keep working, keep mothering, keep smiling, while something inside us is completely exhausted. But this conversation is also about what happened after.

How Canay moved from anger to peace. How she learned to listen differently. How she rebuilt her relationship with the father of her children.

And how their divorce eventually became part of a legal shift in Turkey around common custody.

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Millions know Liv Nervo as one half of the Grammy-winning Australian DJ and songwriting duo NERVO. But behind the music and public life is a deeply personal chapter that changed the way she understood relationships, family, trust, and herself. Please visit our website for more information: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

In this intimate conversation with Asal Zara, Liv reflects on growing up between Australian and Italian cultures, why stability once felt so important to her, and the relationship she believed would become the family she had imagined. While pregnant, that picture changed completely when she learned the life she thought she knew wasn't what it seemed.

Liv speaks about becoming a mother while adjusting to an entirely different future, questioning the ideas she once held about what a family should look like, and learning to create stability for her daughter in a new way. She also reflects on how the experience changed her friendships, values, empathy, and ability to trust other people.

Topics covered:

• Growing Up Between Two Cultures

• Why Stability Felt So Important

• The Family Life Liv Thought She Was Building

• When Everything She Believed Changed

• Becoming a Mother During an Unexpected Chapter

• Trust, Identity and Starting Again

• Questioning What a Family Should Look Like

• Creating Stability for Her Daughter

• Why Motherhood Changed Her Priorities

• Changing Her Circle and Becoming More Careful

• How Her Values Changed

• Speaking Publicly About Her Experience

• Finding Support Through Other Women’s Stories

• Who Liv Believes She Is Now

Liv now reflects differently on the traditional idea that children need one specific type of family. In the episode, she comes back to something simpler: children need love, stability, understanding, and protection.

Her Side of the Stories is a cinematic long-form interview podcast exploring extraordinary women’s lives from the inside. Each episode explores the experiences, relationships, identities, turning points, and choices that shaped who they became.

Her Side of the Stories explores the inner lives behind the lives people see.

Her Voice. Her Truth. Her Side.

Liv Nervo on Motherhood, Trust & Becoming Someone New #womensstories #livnervo #motherhood

🔗 Stay Connected With Us.

Her Side of the Stories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hersideofthestories

Asal Zara Instagram: http://instagram.com/imasalzara/ 

Asal Zara LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asal-zara-aa845766 

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0NdDte4w6fgcuZZwZH1rpi?si=5u1ARRWURf2ynKa0n3Fe8g 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-side-of-the-stories/id1890695561

Website: http://www.hersideofthestories.com

📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] 

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