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Going out used to mean packed calendars, late nights, new experiences, and never wanting to miss a moment. But somewhere along the way, our idea of a good time began to change. In this episode, we’re asking whether we’ve genuinely outgrown going out or if we’ve simply become more selective about where, how, and with whom we spend our time. We reflect on what being “outside” gave us in our 20s, why certain experiences no longer hit the same, and whether protecting our peace can sometimes become avoidance dressed up as maturity. Are we evolving, or have we gotten a little too comfortable staying in? Let’s talk about it.
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Passport, please! In this episode, we’re taking a trip down memory lane and sharing some of our favorite travel experiences, the destinations that completely lived up to the hype, and the places still sitting at the top of our wish lists. We’re also getting into the real differences between traveling solo and traveling with a group because sometimes the group chat makes it out of the country, and sometimes the best trip is the one you take on your own. From unforgettable moments and beautiful destinations to travel personalities, dream getaways, and everything in between, come catch flights and vibes with us.
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Some of the biggest rules we live by were never actually said out loud,they were simply passed down, picked up, and accepted as truth. In this episode, we're unpacking the invisible rule book so many of us have been following without even realizing it. From relationships and careers to aging, success, and the expectations placed on women, we're asking: Who made these rules, and do they still deserve a place in our lives? Join us as we share our own experiences, challenge outdated beliefs, and talk about what it looks like to rewrite the rules in a way that feels authentic, freeing, and true to who we are today.
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This month, Ash and Raye sit down with Beverly Beal, intellectual property attorney, entrepreneur, nonprofit founder, and fierce advocate for underrepresented founders, for a conversation that goes far beyond business.
Beverly opens up about her journey from being the woman behind the work to stepping into her power as a leader dedicated to helping others protect what they've built. Together, they explore the real cost of building something meaningful, the power of ownership, navigating multiple identities, and why legacy isn't just what you leave behind, it's what you're actively creating right now.
Whether you're running a business, building a brand, sitting on a dream, or simply searching for the courage to bet on yourself, this episode was made for you.
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✨ @beverlyabeal
✨ @beverlybeallaw
✨ @giftbizregistry
✨ @drinkfineline
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Mother’s Day felt like the perfect day to have this conversation. In this episode of Her Side of the Story, we unpack the complicated, beautiful, and sometimes painful reality of blood family versus chosen family. We talk honestly about the people we were born connected to, the people we found along the way, and how both have shaped who we are today. From childhood memories and family dynamics to the friendships and communities that became home for us, this episode is a reminder that love, support, and safety can come from many different places.
We also explore the guilt, freedom, and growth that can come with choosing distance, choosing closeness, or redefining what family looks like on your own terms. Whether your strongest bonds are with relatives, lifelong friends, mentors, or the family you are building for yourself, this conversation is about honoring what truly pours into you.
This episode is vulnerable, reflective, and deeply human because, at the end of the day, family is not always just about blood. Sometimes it’s about who shows up, who stays, and who helps shape the kind of love we want to give to future generations.
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Every great thing has a starting point… and ours didn’t happen overnight.
It started with a decade of friendship and two career paths that look completely different on the surface, but are rooted in the same purpose: helping women build the lives they truly deserve.
In this episode, we’re getting into all of it:
• What psychology and real estate have taught us about how women think, build, and navigate life
• The moment one of us almost walked away from everything she worked for
• How our friendship became the foundation of this brand
• The real reason HER Side of the Story exists
Because the truth is, a healthy mind and a solid foundation are not separate things.
You can’t build a legacy on a shaky mental foundation.
And you can’t think your way into a new life without taking the physical steps to claim it.
This episode is a celebration of what happens when two women bet on themselves, bet on each other, and refuse to stop building.
If you’re still becoming, still growing, still figuring it out, this one is for you.
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Let’s be real—you don’t need a millionaire budget to live a luxury lifestyle. In this episode of Her Side of the Story, we’re getting into what it really looks like to be a “baddie on a budget.” From pulling together outfits that look expensive (without actually being expensive), to creating little everyday moments that feel elevated, we’re talking about simple, realistic ways to upgrade your life. It’s less about spending and more about how you carry yourself, the choices you make, and being intentional with what you have. If you’ve been wanting to step into your soft luxury era without stressing your bank account, this episode is definitely for you.
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Last episode, we talked about your answered season versus your waiting season. But one of the hardest parts about waiting is knowing what you’re actually waiting for.
Because sometimes what we call “potential” is really just a pattern — and patterns will keep you waiting for the wrong things and the wrong people.
A pattern isn’t a one-time mistake. It’s consistent behavior over time. We rename it chemistry, confusion, or bad timing… but often, it’s just repetition.
Today, we’re talking about how to recognize patterns early and protect your time.
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This conversation was inspired by the Ciara Prayer—but more specifically, the transformation behind it. We all remember the seasons that didn’t serve her, and now we witness the fullness of her life: a partner who loves her loudly, a home filled with joy, and a relationship rooted in honor.
Today, we’re calling this Ash’s Prayer. It’s about that pivotal shift—from what you once believed you had to settle for, to the beauty of being chosen, cherished, and respected by a fiancé who truly sees and honors you. This episode is for anyone who’s ever had to let go of less to make room for more.
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The Chat Is Closed! isn’t about fixing, healing, or reinventing yourself—it’s about noticing.
In this first episode of our rebrand, we talk about what it looks like to outgrow things silently: relationships, conversations, versions of yourself, and spaces that once felt familiar. Not every ending needs an announcement. Not every boundary needs an explanation. Some growth happens off-screen.
This episode is an invitation to reflect, not react. To sit with what no longer fits. To honor the seasons you’ve moved through—and the ones you’re choosing to leave behind.
No advice. No steps. Just perspective.
Welcome to season three of Her Side of the Story.
The chat is closed.
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HER Side of the Story- This is a podcast where sister friends Raye Marie and Ashley Onyie tell their side of the story about relationships, lifestyle, challenges, and triumphs.