Here's The Thing, Tho with Soaliha

Hello everyone! This week we are off for the holiday season. Instead of the usual episode, please enjoy a 10 minute preview of our Patreon exclusive discussion on Spotify Wrapped and why we are long-standing haters.

We talk about the data surveillance inherent to Wrapped, its exploitative origins, and how it relates to "conspicuous consumption."

Check out the full conversation over on our Patreon.

Check out Soaliha’s Substack Soaliloquy and Mitch’s Substack DIAGRAMMA.

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

The Intern Who Created Spotify Wrapped’s Story Format Never Got Her Due

Gen Z's Fear Of Cringe Is Actually Making Dating Harder 

This week we talk about celebrity culture, body positivity, and whether it’s ever okay to talk about other people’s bodies — no matter how famous they are.

We discuss the Wicked press tour, the eating disorder to white supremacy pipeline, and the role celebrities play in our society.

Content warning: this episode discusses disordered eating. 

Check out Soaliha’s Substack Soaliloquy and Mitch’s Substack DIAGRAMMA.

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSjqwYhB4/

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSjqwXSB6/

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSjqwCQpH/

https://x.com/MashaParty/status/1859618868194341249

This week we discuss the power of storytelling as a tool for preserving history — and how that preservation is not only being undermined, but is actively under threat thanks to platform capitalism. 

We talk about ‘the write side of history’ panel at Muslim Agenda, the way narratives are shaped and disseminated by mediators like news publications and streaming services, and the importance of having physical media like books at a time where Palestinian stories are being lost to the ether.

Check out Soaliha’s Substack Soaliloquy and Mitch’s Substack DIAGRAMMA.

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBgZ7Xlug2D/?igsh=dm5vemR5OTh1YW42 

Spotify rockets past 640 million users, on track to achieve first full year of profitability | TechSpot

The Battle Is For The Customer Interface | TechCrunch

This week we talk about the rise of puriteens—a portmanteau of puritans and teenagers—and how their sexphobia, suspicion, and moral policing are shaping how sex is talked about and represented online.

We discuss the prevalence of puriteenism across BookTok and other platforms, interrogating their criticisms of the dark romance genre, sex scenes in movies, and the wardrobe of Sabrina Carpenter, and examine what they get wrong about sex and sexuality — and also what they get right.

Check out Soaliha’s Substack Soaliloquy and Mitch’s Substack DIAGRAMMA.

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Puritanism took over online fandom — and then came for the rest of the internet

Are Sex-Negative 'Puriteens' Actually Taking Over the Internet?

This week we talk about feeling “uncomfortable” compared to feeling “unsafe”, and how these terms have become conflated in conversations around free speech and protests against genocide in Palestine.

We discuss what it actually means to be unsafe, the way safety as a concept has been weaponised against marginalised folk, and the importance of sitting with discomfort for growth and reconciliation.  

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Students arrested at Western Sydney University during Palestine protest - Honi Soit

Working for safety collectively - Overland literary journal 

University responses to anti-Semitism 'woefully inadequate', but Labor-led committee rejects judicial inquiry - ABC News

Right-wing pro-Israel agitators threaten free speech on campus 

Blessed is the flame | The Anarchist Library 

This week we talk about the concept of being “objective” in western media as discussed in Amy McQiure’s new book ‘Black Witness’: how objectivity is not only weaponised against marginalised folks, but is a state that isn’t even possible to reach in the first place. 

We discuss the Australian media’s bias towards pro-Israel coverage, the systematic undermining of non-white journalists in matters of race and white supremacy, and the allegations of racism in the ABC (specifically, Antoinette Lattouf’s court case and the recent episode of Media Watch that targeted Tony Armstrong).

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Black Witness | UQP  

Objectivity serves the powerful, and silences the oppressed 

Failing Gaza: Pro-Israel bias uncovered behind the lens of Western media | Al Jazeera

Listen Loudly, Act Strongly report 

Secret WhatsApp messages show co-ordinated campaign to oust Antoinette Lattouf from ABC

Tony Armstrong Was Spammed With Racist Abuse After His Own Employer (The ABC) Ran A Hit Piece 

fast fashion inhibits creativity and personal style 🗣️ (with receipts... | TikTok

This week we talk about Barbie (2023) — was the endlessly hyped film a feminist masterpiece, or just a massive toy commercial? Or perhaps, something else?

We discuss the history of Barbie, the film’s gender theory and the queerness of Allan, and line it all up against Judith Butler’s Gender Trouble.

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Mattel, Inc. History 

Meet Lilli, the High-end German Call Girl Who Became Barbie 

Guys Who Think The Barbie Movie Hates On Men Clearly Didn't Watch It

Judith Butler, Gender Trouble, 1989

Patriarchy According to The Barbie Movie

This week we talk about celebrities, PR disasters and the difference between what celebrities give us, and what they owe us. 

We talk about the It Ends With Us film adaptation (and the surrounding drama), Blake Lively’s dumpsterfire of a press tour and Chappell Roan’s latest assertion of boundaries.

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Blake Lively on Fame, Family, Good Fortune—And Becoming a Glamorous Jewel Thief for Baz Luhrmann 

Blake Lively's hair care secret is using no conditioner! Should you skip it too? 

Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively apologize for plantation wedding 

https://www.bustle.com/articles/44052-blake-lively-website-preserve-editorial-called-allure-of-antebellum-is-absolutely-inexcusable 

Blake Lively says she's 'so proud' of It Ends With Us and that she 'took playing domestic violence victim seriously' amid backlash to her 'tone deaf' press tour | Daily Mail Online 

Alcohol/drug-involved family violence in Australia (ADIVA): key findings 

Factors associated with FDSV - Australian Institute of Health and Welfare 

Ryan Reynolds and Justin Baldoni’s ‘It Ends With Us’ Drama

The Screenwriter Of "It Ends With Us" Reacted After Blake Lively Said Ryan Reynolds Wrote A Key Scene  

This week we talk about ‘tradwives’: what are they, where did they come from, and why is their content so popular right now?

We discuss the ahistorical nostalgia that tradwives are predicated on, the politics of their labor and the neocolonial nature of homesteading. Really, we ask the question: does the ‘tradwife’ as we know her actually exist, or is she a mythic projection?

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Kamala Harris selects Tim Walz, pro-Israel Minnesota governor, as her running mate | The Pittsburgh Jewish Chronicle 

I'm a trad woman. I think other women secretly wish they were too | SBS Insight

From Scratch | Verso Books

'Don't do this to yourself': Meredyth warns young 'trad wives' they could be on a risky path | SBS The Feed

Unpacking The Ballerina Farm Discourse & What it Means For The Tradwife Movement – Centennial World 

Far-right 'tradwives' see feminism as evil and push back against what they see as 'the lie of equality' - ABC News

We're back!

This week we discuss the internet frenzy around presidential candidate Kamala Harris and our collective amnesia surrounding her previous (and conservative) policies. 

We talk about her contradictory political history, the abject failure of US democracy and whether radical change can truly be enacted via electoral politics. 

Soaliha: @soalihaofficial & Linktree

Mitch: @mitchs.miscellanea & Linktree

Email: [email protected]

PayPal: PayPal.me/soaliha 

Sources:

Report: The War on Marijuana in Black and White | American Civil Liberties Union

How Kamala Harris Fought to Keep Nonviolent Prisoners Locked Up - The American Prospect  

Opinion | Kamala Harris Was Not a ‘Progressive Prosecutor’ - The New York Times 

Kamala Harris’ A.G. Office Tried to Keep Inmates Locked Up for Cheap Labor 

Kamala Harris laughed about jailing parents over truancy. But it's not funny | Nathan Robinson | The Guardian 

Twitter thread of Kamala Harris' speeches on truancy and criminal justice reform 

Kamala Harris Takes 'Responsibility' for Opposing Trans Surgeries 

US to allow migrants from Mexico as critics slam ‘kids in cages’ | Migration News | Al Jazeera 

The Pitfalls of Liberalism (1969) 

Woke Scientist on Instagram.