SERMON NOTES (click arrow to the right to open)
Main Idea:
The wisest people surround themselves with faithful friends
Main Points
1. First, we need to draw near to God
2. The Lord tells us to “get off our mat” - to leave behind our old life and identity
3. He also expects us to walk closely with others
Content
- No matter how old you are, it’s essential to invest time and energy in the cultivation of close relationships
- “Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty” - Mother Teresa
- Deep inside every person, God created us with a desire of belonging
- True friends give us a sense of belonging and being valued by others - important for wellbeing
- The paralyzed man, who was brought to Jesus by his friends, was hoping for physical healing. Jesus told him, “Your sins are forgiven.”
- Jesus made a situation where people had to decide if he was God, the only one to forgive, or a blasphemer
- At the time, blasphemy was a capital offense, but Jesus knew the thoughts of the leaders (v.9)
- The healing of the paralyzed man was a miracle they could see, which gave validity to Jesus’ authority to do a miracle they couldn’t see, which was the forgiveness of the man’s sins
- True friends are loyal to one another; willing to make huge sacrifices and persevere through great difficulties
- The paralyzed man couldn’t get to Jesus on his own. He needed help from his friends to get there.
- It wasn’t easy to get to him; crowds blocked the door of a tiny home, but they didn’t give up.
- Proverbs 17:17 - “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”
- Tough times always reveal your true friends; Loyalty and perseverance are key aspects of lasting relationships. Real friends stick with you even when it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, and costs them personally.
1. Firstly, we need to draw close to God
- The paralyzed man had great friends, but they couldn’t forgive his sins. Only Jesus could do that!
- Jesus meets both the physical and spiritual needs
- Close friends are great, but they can never replace intimacy with God
2. The Lord tells us to “get off the mat”
- Your mat may be something that confines you
- You may think, “But I love my mat”; you feel safe, secure; it brings attention and others care for you.
3. He expects us to walk closely with others
- God wants each of us to experience the joy of true friendship and being part of a loving church family
- How can we say that Jesus is Lord if we aren’t willing to do what he says?
- It’s always been God’s intention to link us with a community of friends to not only build up the church but to also share Christ with the world.
- The best example is Jesus, who surrounded himself with a circle of friends and he taught them to work as a team.
Application Questions
1. If you were someone else, would you like to have you for a friend?
2. Ask some friends and family for honest feedback. How can I improve as a friend? What could I do differently?
3. What is your “mat”? Does it confine you, keeping you from living the life you want? Or is it a place of comfort that’s keeping you from where the Lord is asking you to walk?