Outline
1. Three kinds of difficulties:
A. Difficult setbacks — vs. 12-14
B. Hurtful responses — vs. 15-18
C. Uncertain outcomes — vs. 19-20
2. Three undeniable realties:
A. God is in control. Realize we’re not, and surrender our life to Him.
B. Christ is my passion. Want Him most in life, and want others to love Him.
C. Knowing Jesus means suffering with Jesus. We’re not exempt from tragedy or
people hurting us. But Jesus is in all those situations.
Content
1. Events in everyday life are influenced by our attitude, our outlook, how we handle obstacles and opposition.
2. In Philippians we can learn about the most positive mental attitude imaginable. What Paul says, how he responds, shows a winner’s mindset that isn’t just positive, but profound. He leads by example and appeals to us to follow. (Phil. 4:9)
3. This perspective about what winning is and how we can be winners is the only one that will enable us to go the distance and be winners.
4. We all want God’s peace, but often we separate the condition from the outcome and wonder why it doesn’t happen. The answer is often what we’re not doing — we’re not practicing what we see. Practice means doing something over and over in order to improve.
5. Difficult setbacks are when something happens that prevent you from being able to do what you’ve been doing. Paul faced limitations but the gospel wasn’t contained; he was still in the game.
6. It takes a different kind of mindset not to sulk and complain and miss out on the good that could happen if we respond positively.
7. When someone deals you a low blow, it’s hard not to retaliate, especially if we thought that person was in our corner.
8. No one likes to wait, especially when we don’t know the outcome. In this situation that Paul’s in, he doesn’t know the outcome, but either alternative offers deliverance.
9. How we see death reveals what we’re really living for. Paul’s thinking was that death was a gain, so death completed his life of promoting Jesus, and he got what he wanted most. (Phil. 3:10-11)
10. Paul found Jesus in the midst of dark times and didn’t bail on his faith.
11. Sometimes it’s all about us and we don’t rejoice in troubles, even if our team is winning.
12. If we try to be validated and affirmed in this life, it might bring losses in heaven. If we live for Christ, it will always be a gain for us.
Aim
The kind of thinking that enables us to see difficulties as wins is if our living is about pursuing and promoting Jesus, and dying is about receiving the only prize we want. Only when living is about Jesus can death be seen as a gain because we want Him.
Application Questions
1. What do you want people to know when you’re going through difficulties? How much do you tell them? Do you tell different things/details to different people?
2. What is something you’ve practiced? How long did it take to notice an improvement?
3. What are some difficult setbacks you’ve experienced? How did you respond? What was some positive that came out of them?
4. What are some hurtful responses that you’ve experienced, and how did it affect your attitude? Have you ever dealt someone else a hurtful response?
5. Describe a time/experience when you were waiting. What was your attitude during this time?
6. Has there been a time when you felt people praying for you? Describe the situation and your mindset.
7. Would you say that you live life about yourself, or do you live for Christ? Explain.
8. What are some specific ways that you live for Christ and reflect Him to others?
9. Is Christ enough for you?