HERpresence

Kelli and Andrea discuss the shared pain of losing their mothers in November (one in 1992, the other in 2022) and how grief doesn’t disappear but evolves, often resurfacing during holidays, anniversaries, smells, foods, and moments when they instinctively want to call their moms. They reflect on coping differently, respecting individual timelines, and the value of sisterhood, check-ins, and grief counseling, including feeling “stuck,” avoiding sympathy, and learning to give themselves grace. They talk about family traditions after loss, the difficulty of empty seats at Thanksgiving, and ways to maintain a relationship through memories, conversations, recipes, names, photos, and intentional rituals like an “ode to Mom.” They also address anger when parents don’t share illness details, and close with practical takeaways: counseling, journaling, movement, exercise, and continuing the relationship in celebratory ways.

00:00 November Losses
00:45 Grief Evolves
02:28 The Phone Moment
04:18 Two Mothers Story
05:44 Missing Milestones
07:17 Food Memories
09:00 Coping With Firsts
14:30 Holiday Decorating
15:26 Stuck In Grief
16:40 Grief Counseling
18:49 Sisterhood Support
22:40 Funeral And Ashes
24:32 Keeping Mom Close
26:53 Finding Birth Mom
31:49 If I Had One Day
33:18 Dream Day With Mom
33:54 Unsaid Words And Regrets
35:00 Cancer Takes Over
36:32 When Parents Hide Illness
39:39 Last Weeks And Closure
41:12 Ode To Mom Tradition
43:45 Remembering Her Little Things
45:22 Would You Tell Your Kids
51:26 How Loss Changed Me
59:39 Grief Takeaways And Healing

In this episode of HERpresence, Andrea Wormley, Kelli Moorer, and Melissa Benson discuss lessons they learned from their parents and how they’re passing them to their children. They emphasize financial independence, starting early with investing (stocks, bonds, real estate), living below your means, and making money work for you, using gardens, crops, and fruit trees as metaphors for wealth-building. The conversation also covers letting kids pursue careers they truly want, embracing change without seeing it as failure, and taking risks while viewing setbacks as education. They share candid reflections on menopause, hysterectomy, and the need for open mother-daughter conversations about women’s health and sex. They explore how religion can be misused to enforce harmful roles, stress the importance of rest, boundaries, and not losing yourself in service, and encourage enjoying life now—take the trip, use the dishes, and value people while they’re living.
00:00 Dad’s Independence Rule
00:33 Start Investing Early
01:08 Rainy Day Wisdom
04:23 Money Like a Tree
06:29 Choosing Your Own Path
12:00 Menopause Reality Check
14:25 Women’s Health Talks
15:54 Breaking the Taboo
20:12 Religion and Gender Roles
24:18 Don’t Lose Yourself
33:27 Self Care Boundaries
34:04 Know Yourself First
35:33 Whole People Together
36:29 Serving With Joy
39:19 Healthy Conflict Skills
41:54 Take Your Shot
44:38 Favor And Mindset
46:27 Enjoy The Journey
49:51 Trust Instincts Heal
52:23 Let Small Things Go
57:00 Use It Now
59:17 Give Flowers Today
01:00:57 Closing Thanks

In this episode of HERpresence, attorney Amber shares a cautionary story about a lawyer who spent $30,000 on a rebrand without a trademark search, risking infringement. The conversation breaks down the differences between trademarks (names, logos, slogans), copyrights (original creative works), and patents (inventions), and explains TM versus ®, the USPTO filing timeline, office actions, likelihood of confusion, descriptiveness refusals, and the importance of choosing correct classifications. They discuss renewals, enforcement limits, and why registering an LLC name with the secretary of state is not a trademark. Amber gives practical startup guidance on searching Google and USPTO, using “in use” vs “intent to use,” and avoiding mistakes that require refiling. She also covers NDAs, when to use written contracts instead of handshakes, risks of relying on AI for contracts, goodwill in business sales, and options for engaging her firm, David Eck Law Firm (rebranding to Texas Asset Protection Law) in New Braunfels.

00:00 Branding Without Searches

01:26 Trademark Copyright Patent Basics

02:50 TM vs Registered Mark

03:59 Trademark Filing Timeline

05:36 Rejections and Descriptive Marks

08:31 Classes and Confusion Examples

10:49 Renewals and Enforcement

15:05 LLC Name Is Not Trademark

15:39 Startup Search Strategy

21:00 DIY Filing Risks and Fees

23:45 Meet the Attorney and Firm

27:02 NDAs and Confidentiality Terms

28:54 Confidentiality Terms

29:32 Choosing IP Protection

31:31 LLC vs S Corp Explained

32:28 Liability Structuring Strategy

34:30 Series LLC Breakdown

37:18 Trusts vs LLCs

41:11 Getting Legal Consults

42:47 Handshake vs Contracts

44:47 AI Contract Pitfalls

47:23 Goodwill In Deals

51:58 When To Hire Counsel

54:14 Final Legal Takeaways

Andrea Wormley, Kelli Moorer, and Melissa Benson discuss boundaries and cultural assumptions around Black hair after Kelli describes a stranger touching her boho braids in a restroom line without permission. They share similar incidents in corporate settings, including coworkers touching braids and asking “Is that your hair?”, and compare it to strangers touching a pregnant belly. The conversation explores how Eurocentric standards have shaped professionalism, why some choices feel strategic (including Michelle Obama’s decision not to wear braids in the White House), and how younger generations are shifting norms toward authenticity. They also talk about hair as expression and versatility, trendsetting, generational divides over what is “good hair,” protective styles for time and convenience, and humorous hair memories and mishaps like hot combs and relaxers gone wrong, ending with a reminder to ask—not touch.
00:00 Bathroom Hair Touching
01:28 Why People Touch Hair
03:49 Corporate Hair Politics
07:49 Power and Image Shifts
11:38 Versatility and Trends
12:44 Generational Hair Divide
15:32 Natural vs Weave Debate
19:04 Interview Hair Strategy
26:24 Protective Styles and Time
30:08 Hair Color Codes Talk
30:56 Hair Store Shopping Stories
32:06 Why Hair Feels Emotional
34:10 Hair Horror Stories
34:44 Hot Comb Memories
37:10 Sweat Ruins The Press
39:22 Relaxer Mishaps
42:23 Silk Press And Weather
43:29 What Is Good Hair
46:55 Locks And Natural Kids
48:13 Respect And Boundaries
49:47 Men And Hair Enhancements
52:55 Wrap Up And Subscribe

In this episode of HERpresence, attorney Amber discusses how women often lead estate planning to protect children, assets, and peace of mind, and explains where to start when clients feel stressed and unsure. She breaks down key differences between wills and revocable living trusts, emphasizing that wills typically go through public probate, while properly funded trusts can avoid probate, stay private, and allow successor trustees immediate access to assets. Amber shares a cautionary story about an unfunded trust missing a pour-over will that led to intestate probate, and describes probate timelines and costs, including a South Carolina example. The conversation covers trust funding, beneficiary designations, planning for minors, guardianship nominations, essential documents like medical and financial powers of attorney and advance directives, handling tangible personal property and digital assets, limitations of online forms, and the importance of reviewing plans about every three years.
00:00 Women Carry The Load
01:12 Getting Started With Planning
02:45 Missing Pour Over Will
04:56 Wills Versus Trusts
10:58 Probate Costs And Delays
15:34 How Trusts Avoid Probate
18:47 Funding The Trust
20:07 Designing Trusts For Kids
23:19 Guardianship Without A Will
25:13 Guardianship In Wills
26:06 Meet Attorney Amber
28:25 Why People Delay Planning
31:57 Single Trust Planning
33:22 When To Update Plans
35:10 Powers Of Attorney
40:50 Online Will Services
42:31 Costs And Value
47:20 Heirlooms And Digital Assets
50:46 Two Steps To Do
52:16 Final Thoughts And Wrap

In this conversation on HERpresence, Honduran-born adoptee and artist Alma Luz Sanchez Glasgow shares how fragmented pre-adoption memories and “presences” shaped her sense of safety, identity, and belonging, and how therapy helped her recognize them as genealogy and history rather than confusion. She describes growing up in a transracial adoptive family, feeling culturally disconnected, and later reconnecting with her roots through art, meditation, faith, and storytelling. Alma Luz discusses reclaiming her birth name legally in 2020, embracing multiple parts of her identity, and creating Coming Home, a reflective podcast about memory, ancestry, and healing. She also introduces her children’s book, Maya: A Life Before Adoption, and urges adoptive parents to honor a child’s heritage, noting higher risks of suicide and addiction among adoptees and the need for ongoing counseling and support.

00:00 Memories That Shape Us
00:40 Fragmented Presence
02:08 Therapy And Genealogy
03:18 Adoption And Disconnection
04:42 Calling Parts Back
07:37 Coming Home Podcast
08:09 Coffee Plantation Revelation
10:07 Reclaiming Alma Luz
14:26 Book And Art Healing
18:02 Ancestry As A Warrior
21:06 Adoption Trauma Reality
24:10 Reflective Space For Adoptees
29:20 Two Anchors For Healing
30:25 Anchor Within You
30:35 No Permission Needed
31:29 Reclaim Your Creativity
32:12 Adopted Into Relationships
33:31 Past Not Prison
34:25 Find Coming Home
35:23 Turning Junk Beautiful
36:08 Auggie And Names
41:54 Fragments And Spiritual Roots
48:39 Okay Without Answers
51:22 Takeaways And Connect
55:26 Final Thanks And Signoff

Andrea Wormley hosts Her Presence with co-hosts Melissa Benson and Kelli Moorer alongside guests Sheila, Theresa, Steven, and Vaughn for their third “single and dating” episode, using the season theme of “bags we carry” to revisit questions from prior discussions. They discuss how to keep past hurt from shaping new relationships by identifying trauma, seeking therapy, finding personal closure, releasing anger, and extending grace. The group explores unspoken expectations and “lists” versus standards like faith, employment, respect, and compatibility, and how social media and life stage affect dating choices. They address insecurities and intimidation, urging genuineness, safety, accountability, and confidence. They debate dating multiple people without exclusivity, emphasizing honesty, risk, and feelings, then close with takeaway advice on authenticity, healing, communication, and self-care.

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

01:33 Baggage Theme and Format

03:43 Healing Past Hurt

08:53 Closure and Accountability Debate

17:50 Unspoken Expectations and Lists

21:55 Standards Versus Control

29:11 When to Commit

33:17 Hair and Appearance Preferences

36:13 Gym Meet Cute

36:44 Natural vs Glam

38:02 Hair Choices Explained

39:31 Dating at Church

42:33 Insecurity and Confidence

51:01 Dating Multiple People

01:02:17 Final Takeaways and Wrap

HERpresence compares San Antonio to Disney World, saying you can’t experience it all in one visit and always want to return for its relaxing vibe. They highlight the Pearl on a Saturday morning as comfortable, laid back, and full of mingling and vendors, creating a fun atmosphere. They emphasize loving experiences that are free and can feel like taking a flight to a different place, walking through a different culture. The conversation encourages having date nights even without much money, noting there are many free places to go and opportunities to create lasting memories.

00:00 San Antonio Like Disney

00:06 Pearl Weekend Vibes

00:24 Free Culture Escape

00:39 Budget Date Night Ideas

00:45 Making Memories Together

The Her Presence hosts discuss trending issues around digital misogyny and women’s safety online, noting rising harassment, deepfake abuse, threats, and doxxing targeting female journalists, activists, and public-facing women. They define doxxing as publishing private identifying information without consent and debate who is responsible for digital safety—arguing it must be a collective effort involving users, parents, platforms, government, and community action—while also addressing how to protect free speech without allowing malicious harm and mental health impacts. They critique how negativity and clickbait spread online and encourage recording and sharing positive community stories. The episode highlights a local 9-year-old who held a birthday food drive, celebrates the WNBA’s new 2026 collective bargaining agreement with major salary increases, and discusses debates around “girl boss” culture versus “traditional wife” content, emphasizing choice, partnership, and evolving definitions of roles at home.

00:00 Welcome and Tea Bag

00:55 Digital Misogyny Rising

02:14 Who Keeps Women Safe

04:12 What Doxing Means

07:09 Anonymity and AI Threats

11:49 Free Speech vs Harm

16:50 Negativity and Accountability

21:24 Clickbait and Fake News

25:04 Good News Food Drive

26:13 Make Good Trend

28:14 Record the Good

28:58 WNBA Pay Breakthrough

31:07 Men Backing Women Sports

33:45 Girlboss vs Tradwife Debate

37:33 Home Partnership Redefined

45:00 Women Power and Safety

47:38 Rallies and Community Change

48:40 Subscribe and Wrap Up

Andrea Wormley and co-hosts Kelli Moorer and Melissa Benson discuss what they’ve carried from older generations—strong work ethic, stretching a dollar, saving for a rainy day, valuing education, keeping bills low, family closeness, protecting your name, and traditions like Sunday dinner—along with nostalgic memories and sayings. They explore what to teach Gen Z today: face-to-face connection, slowing down, writing letters, researching information, disconnecting from phones, and balancing individuality with modesty and preparing for opportunities, especially since social media is permanent. They also share what they’ve learned from Gen Z, including confidence, inclusivity, advocacy, deep dialogue, multiple paths to success, hustle, and prioritizing rest, travel, and self-care. They close by noting what younger generations can teach elders, such as sharing feelings and being open to new perspectives.

00:00 Welcome Back Podcasters

00:37 What’s In Our Bags

02:01 Work Ethic And Saving

04:20 Family First Lessons

05:48 Funny Sayings And Rules

11:01 Gen X Nostalgia Moments

14:02 Old School Snacks And Fads

18:23 Passing Values To Gen Z

22:33 Modesty And Presentation

27:56 Learning From Gen Z

28:51 Gen Z Deep Dialogue

29:57 Beauty Standards Shift

30:09 Faith and Foundations

31:53 Modeling Prayer at Home

32:44 Unplugging from Phones

33:50 Road Trip Memories

35:19 Latchkey Lessons

37:31 Teaching Adult Skills

40:15 Cursive and Lost Arts

41:04 Robots and Privacy Fears

42:50 Rest Travel Self Care

46:51 Advocacy and Big Questions

50:52 What We Teach Elders

55:51 Closing Thanks and Subscribe