Join me on this weeks episode as I discuss choosing to date men who you see as having potential. A lot of times when we think that someone has potential, we are more willing to ignore the red flags because we think that we can change them. The fact that you have assessed someone to have potential means that you're not actually compatible. Thus, you fantasize and romanticize him to be someone completely different than who he actually is, when his actions and words have already told you who he is at face value. Please believe him the first time. We should be seeking reciprocal relationships; it shouldn't be your job to continually pour into him and trying to make him reach his potential because then you stunt your own growth-- the both of you should already be whole so that you may be fully capable of pouring into each other. You shouldn't be looking for someone to complete or for someone to complete you. You should already reach a state where you are already happy and they just add onto that and share in your abundance. Stop settling for less than what you deserve and allowing people to overstep your boundaries. What you are willing to accept from others is a direct reflection of how much you love yourself and what you see yourself as worthy of.