Hidden Struggles

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Have you ever found yourself in a public setting, like a doctor's office, surrounded by a crowd of people, when the person attending to you requests your date of birth? Now, you're standing amidst a roomful of individuals, disclosing personal information for everyone to hear. The conversation lacks discretion as the person asking for your details speaks loudly while the room remains silent. How would you handle this situation?

This episode will showcase numerous instances where I was requested to divulge my personal information and detail my approach in handling those situations.

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John Whitworth quote
https://vancouversun.com/news/staff-blogs/are-trevor-linden-and-mats-sundin-bigger-than-jesus

Are Trevor Linden, and Mats Sundin, bigger than Jesus?
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written by Douglas Todd, published on December 22, 2008 you are able to get the full context surrounding John Whitworth’s comment about sports. Please refer to the link in the description.

In his book The Joy of Sports, U.S. philosopher Michael Novak makes the case that sports is a positive secular religion.

Although University of B.C. physical education Prof. Bob Sparks thinks Novak pushed his argument too far, he says there’s little doubt that for decades sports has been helping displace organized religion.
The Joy of Sports theorized that sports “connects us to deep metaphysical things in ourselves,” Sparks said. “It said sports tests us and draws on the deepest essence of our being.”

Sports spectators, Novak wrote, “go to the altar of the game to reconfirm their beliefs.” Like religious festivals, Novak said “sports are seasonal and cyclical, not linear like most of our lives.”

In such books as Inner Tennis or Golf and the Kingdom, Sparks said writers developed the idea that sports are a spiritual discipline through which athletes can attain “peak experiences.”

Simon Fraser University sociologist John Whitworth, however, said sports provides a pale imitation of religion. Though sports provide ritual, tradition and “emotional expression in a group setting,” Whitworth said sports “merely ginger up fans’ lives . . . They provide something interesting in an otherwise uninteresting life.”

Sports don’t give the ultimate things which religions claim, such as “ultimate meaning in life or salvation,” Whitworth said. “At the end of the game, all you have is a list of statistics. It all seems rather rootless. However, I suppose that fits with our society.”

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In this episode, I'm talking about my experience running into an old friend at the post office. Of course, as all Jehovah's Witnesses look at bad news and events happening around the world, he too, believes it has a significant meaning. His entire demeanor wreaked of the attitude, "we're living in the last days and this is going to be the final straw".

Oh yeah right, things can't get any worse because Jehovah is going to bring destruction to this wicked world.

During our conversation, he's talking about Uncle Joe (aka, the current president of the United States, Joe Biden), and talking about why the banks are failing because Biden is giving all of this money to the Ukraine. He also asked me about what I thought about the debt ceiling too because you know he's connecting all of his dots. And at the same time, looking at me side-eyed because he feels sorry for me for leaving the organization.

Meanwhile I'm starring in his direction feeling bad for him because he's at the end of the yellow brick road but fails to see that there is really no one behind the curtain. He's simply clueless and may as well be searching for Mary Poppins at this point in time because in the past 140 years, the Watchtower has failed to deliver on any of their promises.

Regardless of what happens, I am not looking forward to living in a world full of Jehovah's Witnesses. Yes, the people that only want to arrive at to their supposed destination no matter who they have to step on to get there.

The message I left this brother is all about how at the end of the day, your vote counts because we have to maintain some kind of law and order while we are on this planet. There is no getting around it. You cannot live in a community and refuse to participate especially when you need the same benefits other people are striving to attain.

https://youtu.be/1sWtOe3hkYY

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In this presentation, you will learn several ideas about how allowing the governing body of Jehovah's Witnesses can results in severe consequences.

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Welcome to this eye-opening episode, where I delve into the realm of reactions. Join me as I candidly share my personal experiences of encountering negative responses from both current and non-Jehovah's Witnesses upon discovering that I no longer practice as a Jehovah's Witness.

In this podcast, I shine a light on the diverse range of reactions I have faced, from disappointment and judgment to skepticism and even estrangement. I explore the complexities of navigating these encounters and the impact they have had on my relationships and sense of belonging.

By sharing my journey, I aim to shed light on the challenges faced by individuals who have transitioned away from the Jehovah's Witness faith and help foster understanding and empathy among listeners. Join me as we delve into the emotional landscape of these encounters and explore strategies for navigating negative reactions with resilience and grace.

Together, let's uncover the power of dialogue and compassion in bridging the gaps between different belief systems, fostering acceptance, and promoting mutual respect.

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Welcome to this thought-provoking episode where I delve into a deeply personal topic: the reasons why I choose not to disclose my ex-Jehovah's Witness background to people. Join me as I navigate through the intricacies of this decision and shed light on the factors that shape my perspective.

In this episode, I will explore the complexities and nuances associated with sharing one's exjw journey. Through introspection and reflection, I will provide insights into the reasons behind my choice to keep this part of my life private. Whether it's concerns about judgment, maintaining personal boundaries, or simply wanting to focus on the present and future, I will discuss the multifaceted aspects that inform my decision.

By sharing my experiences and thought processes, I hope to foster understanding and encourage empathy for those who choose to keep their exjw background to themselves. Join me as we navigate through this delicate and personal topic, exploring the complexities of identity, privacy, and self-expression.

Certainly, now that the secret is no longer concealed, it's worth noting that I used to approach new relationships in that manner.

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In this episode, I am sharing my experience on how I got creative on a limited budget. This is not something that everyone may personally accomplish on their own. However, with the assistance of others, you can accomplish the same thing. 

The information in this video represents how you can do anything if you put your mind to it. You are only limited by your imagination. If you have courage and strength, you can find a way to get things done even during the most turbulent moment in your life.

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Stuck in a Rut – After Leaving a Bad Relationship or controlling high control group?

00:00 Intro
01:38 Failing Forward, John C. Maxwell
02:12 Set Goals
02:59 No Shortcuts
04:22 Community College
04:51 Careeronestop.org
05:57 Five Minutes to Funny
06:32 Lady Cee Clip on the Improv
07:25 First Paid Speech - Women's History Month
07:42 Toastmaster's
08:24 Amazon Vine Reviewer
09:57 Creative Studio - Computer Training
12:12 Scanning Project (Canon R40)

Not having any goals.(Ours is a world where people don’t know what they want and are willing to go through hell to get it. They don’t have goals because they don’t possess a desire to dream. Try to discover why you are on this planet and once you’ve discovered that, you will know what to shoot for.)

A short cut mind set.(One of the most common obstacles to success is the desire to cut corners and take the short road to success. But shortcuts never pay off in the long run. As Napoleon said, “victory belongs to the most persevering. To be successful, you must be willing to pay your dues. Cutting corners is a sign of impatience and poor self-discipline).

Failing Forward – Turning Mistakes into Stepping Stones for Success by John C. Maxwell
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Creative Studio 101
https://www.youtube.com/@creativestudio1012

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*** SCANNER ***
Canon Image Scanner R40


*** AMAZON VINE EXPERIENCES ***

How to Get Free Amazon Vine Products
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6Cmcu-t8Hs&t=134s

How to Become an Amazon Vine Reviewer
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Hk6a_u-nm0&t=6s

Why I stopped having packages shipped to the USPS
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_9VfR1UiRo&t=4s

Improvisation
https://www.precipiceimprov.com/

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In this video, Lady Cee discusses the need to advocate for the elderly. As Jehovah's Witnesses, we never took time to plan for our future. This video helps you to think about getting your mind right to accept certain things we cannot change and learn how to deal with the consequences.

It also delves into keeping up and pace with technology because you never want to be in a situation where you are unable to communicate with our family and friends if you ever find yourself as a shut in.

Be sure to check out my Creative Studio 101 to learn more ab out computers https://www.youtube.com/@creativestudio1012/videos

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Guest: Demarquis L. Johnson

In this episode, Lady Cee discusses a range of issues related to seeking therapy with guest Demarquis Johnson as it relates to with individuals experiencing depression. Demarquis talks about why your therapist mostly listens and does not provide much feedback. 

• How to find a therapist
• Do your home work prior to choosing a therapist, ask around and read reviews
• Going to Therapy requires work on your part
• Therapist is there to listen (must limit their liability when providing feedback)
• Therapy is not a magic bullet
• Social Media Problem is worse than drugs
• Surround yourself with positive people

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