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What if the most rebellious thing you could do in today’s culture was to follow Jesus fully—with your marriage, family, values, priorities, and purpose?

In this fiery episode, Chelsey drops truth with urgency, conviction, and love. Inspired by Erica Kirk’s powerful words and Charlie Kirk’s unwavering stand for truth, she unpacks what it really means to be a rebel in 2025.

Spoiler: It's not what the world thinks.

Inside this episode:

• Why just “believing in God” isn’t enough
• The shocking stat about real followers of Jesus
• What it means to actually die to self and walk by the Spirit
• How marriage, children, and discipline are radical in today’s world
• The call to boldness, surrender, and eternal purpose

This isn’t fluff. It’s a wake-up call. If you’ve been sleepwalking through your faith or playing it safe in culture, this episode will stir your spirit and ignite holy fire. Because the time is now to live set apart.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

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Have you ever stopped to ask why Jesus welcomes children—and tells us to become like them?

This episode will change the way you see your parenting, your obedience, and your relationship with God. What started as a simple afternoon spreading mulch with my 5-year-old turned into a Holy Spirit download on how deeply God delights in using us to do His work—even when we slow things down, make a mess, and need help halfway through.

Inside, I share:

• A moving story of my son’s servant heart (and the bag of mulch he couldn’t carry)
• How God wants us to partner with Him in kingdom work
• The difference between obedience and performance
• Why your “help” matters even when God doesn’t need it
• A fresh revelation on surrender, stewardship, and childlike faith
• The gospel... as simple, beautiful, and miraculous as a magic trick to a toddler

This one will hit every mama who’s ever wished she could just “get it done”—but who also longs to see God more clearly through her kids.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

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You might think your marriage is too far gone.
 Too broken.
 Too betrayed.
 Too burned to ever be rebuilt.

I used to believe that, too—until God proved otherwise.

In this raw and redemptive episode, I share the full story of the miracle shower that changed everything. What was almost the final night of my marriage became the turning point of complete surrender—and the beginning of supernatural restoration.

Inside, I walk you through:

• What surrender actually looks like when you can’t fix it
• How God met us on the edge of divorce—and rebuilt what we destroyed
• Why manifestation is NOT biblical (and what is)
• How to know if you’ve been stuck in cruise control with your faith or marriage
• Why rebuilding requires tearing down everything not built on God’s order
• The 3 biblical phases of the High Level Wife process (Reset → Rebuild → Multiply)

If there’s even a shred of belief left in you that your marriage might be healed…
 This is your sign.
 Don’t just believe—come and know.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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What if the root of your disconnection, pain, or avoidance in intimacy wasn’t brokenness—but misunderstanding?

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by guest coach Sarah Vincelli, a biblically-rooted intimacy coach who helps women release tension, trauma, and shame stored in their bodies so they can experience intimacy the way God designed it: naked and unashamed (Genesis 2:25).

We talk about:

• The power of emotional and physical safety in marriage
• Why many wives feel “pressure to perform” and how to heal it
• Understanding pain and disconnection as protective survival patterns
• Practical bodywork tools like vaginal massage for nervous system healing
• The role of feminine softness in receiving love, connection, and pleasure
• God’s design for intimacy that goes beyond the act and into oneness
• How to invite your husband into the journey without shame or blame

Whether you’re struggling with pain, avoidance, or simply want deeper intimacy in your marriage, this episode will leave you encouraged, empowered, and equipped to reclaim your body and your heart—with God at the center.

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"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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This is not your typical episode—it’s a call to action for every believer.

In the wake of the assassination of Charlie Kirk, Chelsey shares her raw reaction, deep spiritual reflection, and unapologetic challenge to the Church: are we paying any cost for our faith?

This episode isn’t about politics—it’s about purpose. It’s about heaven. And it’s about living in a way that makes hell nervous.

Inside, you’ll hear:

• A call to examine the cost of your comfort
• Why real faith will always be offensive to darkness
• The difference between performance Christianity and kingdom obedience
• How Charlie Kirk’s bold stand at the 10X stage reminded Chelsey who she is in Christ
• Why your marriage, motherhood, and voice matter more than ever right now

This is your spiritual wake-up call. You were not made for comfort. You were made for boldness.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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Marriage isn’t about your happiness—it’s about your holiness.

In this soul-deep episode, Chelsey walks through Ephesians 5 and unpacks the profound mystery of marriage: a reflection of Christ and the Church. This is more than submission, more than sex, and more than “doing your part.” It’s a Spirit-filled, sanctifying journey toward oneness, healing, and kingdom purpose.

You’ll hear:

• Why biblical submission creates space for your husband to rise
• How intimacy is a spiritual purification process—not just a physical act
• The enemy’s distortion of sex vs. God’s design for soul-level oneness
• What it looks like to stop living lukewarm and start building God’s kingdom through your marriage
• How to shift from low-level problem-solving to high-level living

If you’ve been stuck focusing on what’s not working, this episode will show you how to shift your perspective and posture into alignment with God’s original design.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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What do losing your voice, being convicted by a thought, and cheese muffins have in common?

This spontaneous episode is a heart-level invitation into what it looks like to walk through everyday life with the Holy Spirit as your guide—even when you’re sick, tired, or making snacks for your kids.

Chelsey shares:

• What conviction looks like in real-time as we mature in faith
• The subtle but constant ways pride and self-reliance creep in
• How the Holy Spirit gently reveals thoughts and behaviors out of alignment
• A powerful reminder that life is about people, not perfection
• A personal invitation to “come and see” what life with Jesus really feels like

This is for the woman who wants more than religion—she wants relationship.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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Have you ever closed Instagram or TikTok and felt more anxious, less satisfied, or suddenly unsure of your life? That’s not random.

In this episode, I unpack the spiritual and emotional effects of social media—and how the discontent we feel online is often a divine nudge to examine our hearts.

You’ll learn:

• Why scrolling leaves us feeling disconnected and anxious
• How to respond to conviction without shame
• The difference between condemnation and correction
• Why our flesh is drawn to counterfeit connection
• A biblical path to freedom, focus, and true contentment

If you’ve been feeling off lately, this might be the root. Let’s talk about it—and bring it to the cross.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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Ever had a moment from childhood that seemed small… but you’ve never forgotten it?

In this episode, I share a vivid Christmas memory—what seemed like a simple gift exchange at the time—that marked the beginning of an identity shift for me.

This isn’t just a story. It’s a powerful example of how little t trauma and childhood moments can shape who we think we have to be in order to belong.

We explore:

• What to do when you notice specific memories resurfacing
• How identity gets distorted through comparison and performance
• Why insignificant moments often hold deep spiritual meaning
• The invitation to return to who God originally designed you to be

If you’ve ever questioned your worth, changed yourself to be accepted, or just want to understand the roots of your patterns—this episode will meet you in it.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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Let’s talk about trauma—because everyone has it, but not everyone knows how it’s shaping their marriage, leadership, and life.

In this episode, I unpack what trauma really is, the difference between big T and little t trauma, and how the patterns you developed to protect yourself are often the same ones keeping you from experiencing intimacy, trust, and freedom today.

We dive into:

• What trauma really means (and how culture is missing it)
• The power of protection patterns: where they came from and what they cost
• How to identify trauma responses masquerading as personality
• Why disconnection, over-functioning, and control might be rooted in pain
• How to invite the Holy Spirit into your healing

Whether you’ve done trauma work before or this is your first time thinking about it this way, this conversation is a gentle but powerful invitation to stop coping and start healing.

Here’s that link for Jim’s Trauma-informed ministry: https://www.foxfireministries.com/

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.

First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS
 

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
 Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

As a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 

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