Do your part and let your "NO" be consistent. Let your boundaries be FIRM and stability will follow. Some people won't leave you alone until you leave them alone. Be the one to set the tone for what is appropriate and what's not!

When the anger and hurt is coming from a disappointment you have. Sometimes the completion to your healing is getting free from the disappointment. Maybe your expectations aren't unrealistic, maybe your expectations just need to be redirected.

Let God teach you how to trust YOU. Don't let the word "NEVER" create trust issues in YOU with YOU!. We are afraid to say what we would NEVER do because we are afraid to say "NEVER". It's not a matter of can people trust you but can you trust you? Do you trust your character?

Forgive, but most importantly FORGET! Isaiah 43:25 But I, yes I, am the one

who takes care of your sins, that’s what I do. I don’t keep a list of your sins MSG

You can't worry about what your obedience to God looks like to other people. Don't let people make plans for your life and for your time that go against God's will for your life Proverbs 19:21 Many are the plans in a person’s heart,but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails

Don't CONDONE the behavior that needs to be CORRECTED

Relationships take commitment but commitment doesn't mean you imprison people, enslave them to you, rob them of their voice and opinion just to feed your dysfunctional perspective of relationships

Be mindful of these attacks. Have you been blindsided?

The help you need is in letting the facades go. Don't hide behind anything that will keep you from being free. Don't hide behind "being saved". It's time to get free from the facade we live in.

Why we ask is just as important as what we are asking for.