His&Hers

There's so much we can learn about marriage from divorced women. 🎉🎊🎉🎊 We are in Season 2!! Yay!! Alhamdulillah!! Season 2 is all about speaking to divorced women about their marriage stories and marriage lessons. These women are absolutely phenomenal in their introspection and generosity as they share their wisdoms so freely yet vulnerably. 💛💛💛 In this episode, my guest, Safeera Sabdia, talks about her biggest marriage lesson, that being the importance of nurturing ourselves, and how nurturing ourselves in turn allows us to nurture our relationship with Allah and our marriage. We talk about HOW to pour into these respective relationships, how we can give and reap the benefits of giving and how to save ourselves. Safeera is an empowerment and relationship coach. You may connect with her on Facebook and also at www.safeerasabdia.com💚💚💚 We love hearing from you. You're welcome to pop me a message on Facebook: Galeema Davids, Instagram: davidsgaleema or email: [email protected]. Feel free to join the all-women FB group Connecting Through Sharing. I hope you enjoy the show. Thank you for listening.

Many women can relate to the need to have their husbands be more involved in parenting. Right? In this last episode of Season 1, I talk to Cordelia Gaffar about how to get our husbands on board with parenting along side us. Cordelia, a wife and homeschooling mom of 6, shares with us how she balances it all when her husband may not be as involved in parenting as much as she would wish. And then, at the same time, inspires him to want to be more involved. Cordelia is also an emotions opener transformation strategist and can be reached on www.cordeliagaffar.com. You will also find her on the various social media platforms. She also has a group on Facebook called Replenish Me where you can join to get replenished!******************************* We love hearing from you. You're welcome to pop me a message on Facebook: Galeema Davids, Instagram: davidsgaleema or email: [email protected]. Feel free to join the all-women FB group Connecting Through Sharing. I hope you enjoy the show. Thank you for listening.

Do you have unrealistic expectations in your marriage? Expectations of your husband to fit into a mould of who he should be and what he should be doing? Have you ever felt like he should just do as you ask otherwise it simply means he doesn't love you? It can be difficult to let go of these expectations sometimes when we're seeing things from our limited perspective. In this episode of His&Hers, I talk to Aamirah Kadoo about Letting Go of Expectations. Aamirah is a wife, a mom to a little girl as well as an aalimah and a business woman. ******************************* We love hearing from you. You're welcome to pop me a message on Facebook: Galeema Davids, Instagram: davidsgaleema or email: [email protected]. Feel free to join the all-women FB group Connecting Through Sharing. I hope you enjoy the show. Thank you for listening.

Have you ever tried to help the situation in your marriage but ended up doing more harm?🤦‍♀️🙋‍♀️ Have you ever wished your husband could do more so that you could do less? My guest today, Kofo Akib, felt just like that. And she turned it all around. Today, she is happily married for 11 years and her husband loves providing for her and seeing to her needs. She shares her marriage story with us and tells us how she did it. Kofo can be contacted on Instagram, Facebook or you can email her at [email protected]. You can also join her FB group: http://www.facebook.com/groups/awife *************** We love hearing from you. You're welcome to pop me a message on Facebook: Galeema Davids or [email protected] and feel free to join the all-women FB group Connecting Through Sharing. I hope you enjoy the show. Thank you for listening.

It breaks my heart to talk about abuse. To experience abuse is painful and hurtful. What if the abuse is from someone you have chosen as your life partner, your husband? What if the abuse is from someone whom deep down you still love? Today on His&Hers we're exploring to what degree abuse can be turned around in a marriage and what the factors are that would enable such change to happen. My guest today, Rafeeqah, has been on the show before. You can listen to her story in episode 8, but I invited Rafeeqah back on the show to talk more about her marriage story and the lessons learned. Previously, Rafeeqah described her marriage as a place of hurt and pain. Today though her marriage is a place of nourishment and ongoing growth. I hope you enjoy the show. You're always welcome to send me your feedback at [email protected] or connect with me on Facebook: Galeema Davids. If you're a woman, feel free to join our Facebook group Connecting Through Sharing, a platform for women support and inspiration.

Have you ever felt so disconnected from the man in your life, your husband, that you felt there was no other solution but to separate? My guest today, Rafeeqah Solomon-Sterris, felt just like that. Rafeeqah had been married for 16 years but, after many battles with her husband, she just couldn't take it any longer and she and her husband ended up divorcing. That's not where the story ends though. Today, Rafeeqah is endlessly grateful for having her husband in her life. She's going to share with us what's changed. Thank you for listening. We love hearing from you. Be sure to let us know what your biggest takeaway from today's show was. You're always welcome to email me your feedback at [email protected]. You can also reach me on Facebook: Galeema Davids. If you're a woman, please feel free to join the Facebook group Connecting Through Sharing, a platform for women connection and upliftment.

Today's guest is Amiena Peck. Amiena is a Linguistics lecturer at the University of the Western Cape as well as a certified emotional intelligence coach. She offers free emotional intelligence training to students at the university and to others on various platforms that she talks about in the podcast. I'm delighted to have Amiena with us today to give us some insights and practical tools to use to work towards an emotionally intelligent attitude in our marriage and in all spheres of life. We hope you enjoy the show. We love hearing from you, so let us know what your biggest takeaway from this episode was, whether you liked it or whether you have suggestions for future episodes. You are always welcome to send me comments/questions/feedback @ [email protected] or on Facebook. If you're a woman, feel free to join and connect with other women on our Facebook group Connecting Through Sharing. Thanks for listening! *******Amiena can be reached on +2772 9933 722. Also Facebook: Amiena Peck and YouTube/Instagram: Amiena Inspired.

On today's episode of His&Hers, we're talking about respect and what it means to men. Have you ever said something without meaning to sound disrespectful but then your husband feels disrespected? Men and women have many different ways of looking at situations. It can become quite hazy sometimes for a woman to make sense of a man's world. Luckily, my guest on the show today is my husband, Hashmet Khan. Hashmet is also a life coach and today he's back to help us demystify respect from a male perspective. Let us know what your biggest takeaway from today's episode was. For coaching services, Hashmet can be reached at [email protected].

In this episode, we talk about growth and maturity in marriage as two essential ingredients for a healthy marriage. I'm joined by Yusra Galvaan as she shares her marriage story with us, the challenges and the lessons.

In this episode, Shenaaz Moos, a licenced counsellor, shares her insight on the very important topic of boundaries in marriage. We talk about why it's so difficult for women to set boundaries and how a wife can maintain boundaries respectfully. We also delve into expectations, disappointments and self care.