This conversation centers on holding a right spirit before God, especially when dealing with people who challenge, irritate, or disagree with us. The speakers emphasize that spiritual maturity is not about reacting from human nature but about remaining open, humble, broken, and led by the Spirit. Rather than relying on personal discernment or strong opinions, believers are called to listen, take matters to the Lord, and respond from love. God’s corrective work—though often uncomfortable—is an expression of His love, shaping His sons and daughters into His nature. True oneness, family, and spiritual growth flow from maintaining a right spirit before Him.

• God often speaks through people who rub us the wrong way

• Keeping a right spirit is a continual surrender to the Lord

• Not everything spoken needs to be received—hold it before God

• Break bonds with human reactions; stay connected in the Spirit

• Strong opinions do not equal spiritual truth

• Ask the Holy Spirit what to take and what to leave

• Authority comes from recognizing the spirit behind words

• Humility, brokenness, and sensitivity are essential

• Trust the voice of the Lord over personal discernment

• Love without buying into disagreement

• God’s love includes chiseling and shaping His workmanship

• Trials refine the spirit and form Christ’s nature in us

• We are the reward of Christ’s suffering

• True fellowship produces oneness, inclusion, and spiritual flow

“The end result is I’m wrong, and He’s right.”

“You have to be able to speak through anyone to me.”

“If it’s from the Lord, the Lord’s gonna minister to you something from it.”

“Break your bonds on a human level.”

“Keep your spirit open and right before the Lord—that’s the key.”

“I don’t want to rely on discernment; I want to rely on the voice of the Lord.”

“God’s love is not human.”

“He’s gonna get the chisel out again.”

“We are the reward of His sufferings.”

“Love them and be one with the Lord on earth.”

Psalm 51:17 — A broken and contrite heart God will not despise

Matthew 7:1–5 — Removing the beam from our own eye

Ephesians 4:14–15 — Not tossed by every wind of doctrine

John 10:27 — “My sheep hear My voice”

Romans 8:29 — Being conformed to the image of His Son

Hebrews 12:6–11 — The Lord disciplines those He loves

Job 1:21–22 — Maintaining a right spirit under trial

John 17:21–23 — Oneness in Christ

Ephesians 5:26 — Washed by the Word

A right spirit before God is not automatic—it is chosen daily. When opinions clash, emotions rise, or correction comes through unexpected people, the call is the same: stay humble, stay broken, stay in His presence. God’s love is active, shaping us through every interaction and every trial. As we learn to listen without reacting, love without agreeing, and trust His voice above all else, we grow into true sonship and deeper oneness within the body of Christ.