Find out what we are talking about with 'Holes in your Shield.'  I Samuel 16:21: And David came to Saul, and stood before him: and he loved him greatly; and he became his armourbearer. 

What has love got to do with it?  Everything!  Without love all that we do is for nothing.  It is all as tinkling brass! We must walk in Agape love that we may be that shield that God has placed as a spiritual armor bearer.  Are you willing to lay down your life for your leader/for the cause of Christ?

It is a great relief to the pastor to know that he does not have to carry his asistant physically, mentally and spiritually.