Because when we tap in, we CAN argue like a goddess, an attractive goddess! We can solve this issue like an intelligent woman.

During conflict, what are we transmitting? What are we open to receiving/learning? All of that turns off when we lose ourselves and go unconscious during that argument/disagreement. Why would we do that to ourselves? Be conscious all day, and then when we need to think strategically and logically, go unconscious? Nahhhhhhhh. We not doin that!!! FOH. 

Listening to our men, okay sure….but lets also make sure we're listening to ourselves! Listening to ourselves FIRST! We have to stop ignoring our intuition at that start of these conflicts, we must learn to slow down and trust ourselves before the misfire happens and before going into an unnatural "mean version" of ourselves. The argument doesn't resolve this way! Get in here!

Stop trying to win an argument with who can be the loudest, or who can be the meanest. Do these things instead! And keep your essence, tap into it more and keep your sex appeal even during conflict. And for the subs, (like me) get that make up sex faster than you used to! Win.......win! ;)

P.S: I just wrote all this long winded stuff like it was a life hack but I think I really actually just taught us how to use “logic”. Men, don't laugh at us. You’re welcome. Get in here! Xo 

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