TITLE: Fathers Day
TEXT: Ephesians 6:4
Ephesians 6:10-11 - Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.”
Christian Fathers…
1 – DO NOT PROVOKE YOUR CHILDREN TO ANGER - V.4a
John MacArthur – “By Roman law, the father had virtual life and death power not only over his slaves but over his entire household. He could cast any of them out of the house, sell them as slaves or even kill them -and be accountable to no one. A new born child was placed at its father’s feet to determine its fate. If the father picked it up, the child was allowed to stay in the home; if the father walked away, it was simply disposed of – much as aborted babies are in our own day. Discarded infants who were healthy and vigorous were collected and taken each night to the town forum, where they would be picked up and raised to be slaves or prostitutes.”
I know I’m provoking my children to anger when…
- I’m overprotective
- I play favorites
- I criticize harshly
- My standards are too high
- My discipline is excessive
2 – DISCIPLINE & INSTRUCT YOUR CHILDREN IN THE LORD – V.4b
How exactly does a Father “put the discipline & instruction OF THE LORD” in His children?? A few thoughts:
- My time: They need to have it – Proverbs 22:6
Proverbs 22:6 - Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
- My example: They need to see it – Ephesians 5:1
Ephesians 5:1 - Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.
- My Forgiveness: They need to receive it – Luke 15
- My Compassion: They need to feel it – Psalm 103:13
Psalm 103:13 - As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.
- My Correction: They need to experience it – Hebrews 12
Hebrews 12:7-9 - For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them.”