Our 'faith journey' and relationship with Jesus is full of steps. Essential steps, in which the grace of God abounds to us every day. The favor of God teaching us and empowering us in every step in being conformed to the image of Jesus.
At times we can overthink these next steps, cutting off the growth that the Holy Spirit desires to manifest in our lives.
There is also the peer pressure effect. Galatians 2:11-21 is a good example of 'forces' that are for us and against us. From the moment of salvation and onward there will always be 'counter forces' to the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God. Lines and allegiances will be called.
In Christ, believers are a new creation. New identity. Groups may have known you one way, but when they see the new you - they may insist on seeing you return to the form they remember or prefer.
Peter experienced this peer pressure firsthand from Jews from James (leader in the early church) neck of the woods who were strict adherents of the law and thought Peter should continue to live the same and insist such living on gentiles believers. Peter was stuck. He felt the pressure, to the point he gave in to appease the group. His hypocrisy even led other Jews to follow suit.
This has far-reaching implications because his actions of not dining with Gentiles, due to ceremonial dietary laws, he and others were declaring the Gentiles were not part of the family of God, let alone not included in the gospel.
Paul knew this was not true. He also had gotten to know Peter. This wasn't like Peter to act in this way. But he had bent to peer pressure for the sake of keeping the peace.
In this message, Pastor Andrew identified one of the greatest 'dams' to one's spiritual growth and walking in freedom of Christ is Peer Pressure.
That is why we need to speak the truth in love out of mutual respect for our brothers and sisters in the Lord.
Andrew insisted good leaders, those who are spiritual will exhort and encourage one another to keep on in the truth of the gospel and spiritual growth, no matter the pressure.
Paul's account of publically calling out Peter for being 'two-faced with the gospel message depending on who was in his presence, highlights that various forces will always look to impede or 'dam' up your spiritual growth. The key is to not worry about appearances, but rather follow the voice of Christ over any peer pressure.
In this message, Pastor Andrew emphasizes that cultural peer pressure is one of those forces that is a constant vice especially when discernment is not exercised and one is not open to being told the truth in love.
Sometimes face-time with a fellow believer and friend can mean and make all the difference. Both to the sharer and the recipient.
Don’t shoot the messenger. Instead lean into the grace of God to grow
As with the journey, we have not yet arrived at the place of becoming like Christ. This will not occur until the Day of the Lord. Until that day, the future state may seem daunting or too far off. Instead of putting off the spirit, look to your next step, as the Spirit leads you. Don't focus on the future goals and milestones, focus on your next step. You'll get there in due time :)