1 Cor 13 teaches that love is not controlling, it is not suffocating, it is often not convenient, love does not keep score and it let's go. Love is not manipulative or selfish. Love doesn't make life about us but about God and other people. In this teaching we examine what modern day psychology calls codependency and we examine the motives that operate in our hearts. And by the end, we look straight into the face of God Himself and we consider His awesome love poured out for us at the cross.