We continue our series in Matthew, with a look at the yeast of the Pharisees and Sadducees in Matthew 16. This week's discussion questions and the spiritual checkup included in this message are below:
Self-Righteous Faith Checkup
1. You feel morally superior to others. You look down on others who sin differently
than you do, assuming you’re better because you don’t struggle in the same
way. You believe you’ve outgrown needing mercy — forgetting that the gospel
is for all sinners.
2. You’re more focused on other’s sins than your own. You spend so much time
criticizing or judging others, and always have an excuse when you behave
badly.
3. You take pride in your spiritual performance. You find your identity in your
church attendance, prayer, giving, Bible knowledge rather than finding it in
Jesus.
4. You believe because of your good behavior or spiritual deeds that God owes
you something and you feel frustrated when other people who do things you
never would get blessed. Like the older brother in the prodigal son story, you
feel resentful when someone who “doesn’t deserve it” is welcomed.
5. You spend more time correcting people rather than encouraging them. You’re
quick to give people “truth” but slow to offer grace, compassion or love.
6. You only want to spend time with people who look, act and believe like you. You
avoid people outside your theological, political or moral tribe.
7. You struggle to admit that you are wrong, and find reasons that even when you
were wrong you were actually kinda right.
8. You study scripture to justify yourself, not to become like Jesus. You use the
Bible as a weapon against others, not a mirror for yourself.
9. You talk about Jesus more than you live and love like Him. You have the right
theology, but you haven’t become a person who acts like Jesus, and that’s the
telos of the Christian faith.
10. You get tired of serving others if you aren’t seen, praised for it and given a
pat on the back. Your faith is performative — more about image than intimacy
with God.
11. When people challenge or question you, you become defensive and view it
as an attack, rather than an opportunity to become more like Jesus.
12. You think some people are beyond saving.
July 13 Discussion Questions
1. What stood out to you in Jesus’ warning about the yeast of the Pharisees and Sadducees?
Why do you think Jesus used yeast as His metaphor?
2. In what ways can pride or self-righteousness sneak into our faith without us noticing?
Can you identify a time when this has happened in your own walk with God?
3. Which of the 12 “faith checkup” statements felt most personally convicting or relevant to you? Why do you think that is?
4. How do we balance speaking truth with showing grace and compassion in our relationships with others? What does that look like practically?
5. Jesus doesn’t give up on His disciples even when they misunderstand Him.
How does that encourage you in your journey of following Him — especially when you feel like you’ve “missed it”?
6. What would it look like for you to start being more honest with yourself and with God this week? Are there areas you tend to avoid because they’re painful or messy?
7. Who are the people in your life you trust to help point out blind spots or areas of pride in your faith? How might you open yourself up to their input?