Hot & Horrible

Hot & Horrible

By Emily Sherwood & Andrei GarthoffSociety & CultureRelationships
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Hot & Horrible episodes

  • Daily Dose of Hot & Horrible Ft. Ilana Grines

    Hot & Horrible virtually hosts the wonderful and genuine Ilana Grines, a licensed marriage and family therapist in the State of California.

    Ilana shares incredibly useful knowledge, beneficial tips, and personal stories to help all relationships thrive. 

    Some topics discussed are hookup culture, effective communication, healthy relationships, and the importance of reflection and naming.

    Ilana emphasizes that clear communication is key in every relationship (friendship, family, romantic, work, etc.) and that it requires effort.  

    Clear communication includes aspects of validation, being transparent in how you want to be supported/loved/appreciated, and boundary setting.


    "When people show you who they are, believe them."


    Follow Ilana Grines on social media: @dailytherapydose @dailydoseofsexuality

    www.ilanegrines.com

    Daily Therapy Dose Podcast coming soon!


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    Thank you again Ilana & and we look forward to hosting you again!


    42 min
  • Hot & Queer Ft. Mal & JJ
    "Everybody, just talk to people...like they're people."
    This week we introduce wonderful Mal & JJ! They give us insight into the LGTBQ community and a refreshing take on communication.
    They discuss their Tinder success story, codependent relationships, blocking, and breaking stereotypes. 
    "There's a lovely little space between useless small talk and like...here's something I told my therapist this week. Let's have a real conversation about our real lives."
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    Follow JJ on Instagram @jeffhalpinjr
    21 min
  • Victorian Breakup Texts Ft. Anna Luttrell

    Hot & Horrible hosts our first incredible guest, Anna!

    Anna shares her sustainable perspective on not taking dating "all that seriously" and her extraordinary Shakespearean English breakup text.

    Anna, Emily, and Andrei share their stories about this week's topic-romantic rejection. 

    Many of us have been "hot and horrible" to people in our past. We support our listeners to reflect on one's own behavior and proactively take action to improve.

    We would like to emphasize the importance of being respectful, honest, and direct in all interaction with people.


    “Do the best you can until you know better. Then, when you know better, do better.”- Maya Angelou


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    Follow Anna on Instagram @anna_luttrell

    29 min
  • Couch Sessions Ft. Andrei

    Andrei is in the hot seat on this week's episode. Andrei openly shares his deepest thoughts & feelings with Emily about being adopted, his parents divorcing, early dating experiences, and how men know when they have met "the one".

    Make sure to send in your questions for our upcoming family therapist guest!

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    Follow Andrei on Instagram @andreicountrylife and Tiktok @andreicountry

    19 min
  • Couch Sessions Ft. Emily

    Emily courageously opens up about her relational origins story. Emily & Andrei discuss conditioning, boundary setting, effective communication, and the power of honesty and saying "no". 




    26 min
  • Anecdotal Red Flags

    Abs=Audacity!? Emily & Andrei list and share their personal experiences with their top 5 red flags.

    Let us know which red flags you agree/disagree with and why! We look forward to hearing from you!

    DM us your hot & horrible stories @hotandhorriblepod or email us [email protected]


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    25 min
  • It All Started In Kindergarten

    It all started in Kindergarten with bad boy Zach. Each week co-hosts Emily & Andrei will dive into their personal dating experiences and have special guests to unpack hot & horrible stories. Grab your wine and join us every hump day for new episodes! This is Hot & Horrible.

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    11 min

About Hot & Horrible

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Unpack years of hot and horrible dating trauma and work towards finding healthy relationship dynamics with