Hot Mess Moms

Episode Summary:

Summertime is here again and we love it! Gina and Dawn loved summer as kids and still do. But, somehow things have changed. Kids today don't understand the joys of summertime the way we did as children. Playing at the park, in the pool, riding bikes, and getting into the best trouble.

So ladies and gentlemen...here's to us and cheers to the summertime! Go play with your kids, make them swim, pull out that sprinkler and force them to love it. ;)

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

Dawn Stockslager: That organizing thing, and the new T-shirt shop (that's in the works)

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Episode Summary:

Embarrassing your kids can be a wonderful experience for a parent. (totally kidding...kinda!)

How do we transform from the fully engaging and interesting people into these bridge trolls that our children are ashamed to even be seen with? Well Dawn, for one, decided to take her daughters embarrassment and use it to her advantage.

I'm pretty sure all children are embarrassed by their parents at one point or another. And as much as we hated it as kids and teens, somehow we tend to look back on some of those experiences with humor now. Remembering those moments somehow brings our own parents into the realm of humanity. We can look back on those moments and see them for the funny and interesting people they were...before we sucked the energy from them!

So, my friends, go forth and embarrass your kids. Use humor to create moments they may hate today, but will cherish tomorrow.

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

Dawn Stockslager: That organizing thing, and the new T-shirt shop (that's in the works)

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

My oh, my...Gina had a rant this week! Why are we all so busy? Why do we wear busyness like a badge of honor? Apparently, Gina has had enough of it.

Not so much that she doesn't like being "busy", or even that she doesn't understand why people use the term. But, more to the point, Gina really can't stand it when people assume that because her life is full, she is TOO BUSY to be there for the people she loves.

Guess what! She isn't.

Find out why Gina gets so irritated at this "dirty little four-letter B word."

Tell us, what's the word that drives you up the walls??

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

Dawn Stockslager: That organizing thing, and the new T-shirt shop (that's in the works)

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

Guess what! We all waste money, one way or another. It doesn't matter if you're buying new clothes for your kid (every six months), throwing away half your groceries (because you didn't cook any of it), or getting that sweet, sweet "coffee" on your way into work.

It happens. It can be frustrating as hell, but it's nearly impossible to stop completely. Dawn and Gina have figured out they waste a lot of money, some of the time.

So how do you curb it? Lord...if someone knows can you please let us know? ;)

Let's be honest. Sometimes you can't help it. Your kids grow so those shoes you bought last month are now useless to them. It rained, so that carwash you paid for is ruined. You decided to go have dinner with friends instead of cook at home, so those veggies have gone bad.

Well, you know what? I say that's ok. If your kids are growing, they are healthy. If it rained, we probably needed it. And, truth be told, you can't put a price on spending time with the ones you love.

We can try to curb the ways we waste money, but you have to know it's never going to completely stop.

So, I say this to you, my sweet friends, buy the new clothes (but maybe the kids can use a smaller wardrobe), wash the car (because it smells better that way), and go have dinner with your friends!

Until next week...we love you HOT MESS MAMA'S!!

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

Our friendships are one of the few things we carry with us through life. New friends come into our lives but we still cherish the friendships that begin in elementary school. Does one mean more than the other? For Dawn and Gina, nope.

Friendships are like relationships in that each one is different. Each one has its own language. Each one has its own history and origin story. No two friendships are the same.

So...who's your best friend? How long have you known them? Oh...and do you also refer to some of your friends as "___, my friend from ___."

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

We're getting old!! Man, it sucks, but it happens to all of us. I honestly don't even know what to say about it. I so am not ready for this!!! Have a listen and laugh with us as we ramble on about it.

Tell us when you found your first grey hair. Oh, and before I forget....have a great weekend!!

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

It's that time of year again...school's out for the summer! At least here in Alabama, it is. What does that mean for all us parents? If you're anything like Dawn, it means a combination of stress and excitement.

Why both? Because it's the time of year when you get to "be a kid again" and make amazing memories with your littles. It's also the time of year when "what your kids are doing every day" instantly effects your daily routine. The same goes for everyone. I don't care if you work for yourself, work for someone else, or work in the home. It's something we all have to deal with as parents for the next two months.

Also, does anyone else remember summer being longer when we were kids? I totally remember not going back to school until early September, but this year mine will go back August 8th! (Sorry...side tangent)

So what are we moms to do? Well, first we need to remember that on average, we only get to have 18 of these summers with our kids. So we need to keep that in mind when they are driving us crazy...lol. But also, remember that this time moves quickly. It's important to make the most of the time we have.

I know, I know...most of us work either for ourselves or outside the home. Which means, more than likely, at least some amount of our income is required to keep the household from sinking. That's a huge deal! It just means we have to get creative with how we make those awesome summer memories!

So tell us...what are your plans for the summer? Any trips, or camping, or nights at the drive-in (yes, they still exist)? We'd love to know all about it!

*yep...that's my kiddo enjoying some pool time at Gina's house!

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

Dawn's other job: Organizing Florence Alabama

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

Do you have a mantra to live by? A short string of words that reminds you of who you are, who you want to be, and what's important to you. Gina has been on a "mantra kick" for a few weeks now, and my what a great one she's found.

"Presence not perfection"

Dawn has two...

"Less stuff, more story" and "Don't chase broken men"

Yes, we know...they are all perfect for us. Especially for single Dawn...lol.

Have you put much thought into a mantra? In case you are new to the idea, here are some tips to help you find the best one for you.

* It shouldn't be too long

* It needs to instantly focus you

* If you can't remember it instantly, it's just a quote

* It should be personal to you

* The best mantras cross into all aspects of your life

Ok friends, let us know what your mantra is. Have you had it for years, or is it new?

We love you....and remember, DON'T CHASE BROKEN PEOPLE 

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

Dawn's other job: Less Stuff, More Story

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

 

A friend reunion is by definition, (Dawn's definition) seeing an old childhood friend after years of little to no contact. Someone that could tell stories to embarrass you in front of your children.

Gina experienced exactly that a couple of weeks ago. A friend that has so many shared stories (from about 20 years ago). So many stories!!

You expect these reunions to be met with the same line, "oh the stories I could tell about your mama!" But, Gina heard the words that immediately let her know that this was indeed a true friendship.

Have a listen and have a great week my friends!! #HappyMothersDay

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

Dawn's other job: That thing Dawn does in Florence, Al

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms

 

Episode Summary:

This week Dawn and Gina get really honest about how much it sucks to be sick and tired. Dawn ended up in the hospital emergency room and diagnosed with Bronchitis last week. Sadly it doesn't mean that Dawn can get any rest. But, really what mom does when she's sick?!?! NO MOM EVER! That's who.

I could say more, but honestly...I'm still sick a little bit. And coughing all over my MacBook seem's like the last thing I want to be doing right now! So, enjoy this week's podcast and we will see you again next week...and hopefully, this bronchitis will be gone.

Have an amazing weekend everyone. #bluecrayon #SomeoneBringDawnSoup

Links to Know:

Gina Luker: The Shabby Creek Cottage + GinaLuker.com

iTunes: Hot Mess Moms Podcast

Facebook: Hot Mess Moms