Every relationship has patterns.  Great ones, and the ones that are less than desirable.

And if most of us would be willing to be honest, we’d see that our kids carry forward some of these patterns.

It’s super hard to see them.  Most people deny it.  And it’s not good for the kids, and it’s not good for you. It hurts.  It costs time and can suck energy.

My clients tell me it makes them feel like bad parents, and that’s just the ones that admit it… imagine, or maybe you’re one of them, the ones that suffer in silence with it, squashing it down, or not seeing it until your kids act it out either with you or in school, (which happened to one of my friends recently), which is extremely painful.

Fortunately, there ARE some super practical and tangible things you can do.

And on our podcast this week, I’ve got you covered where I’ll share on;

HOW to tell if your kids are playing out some of your patterns you’re not so proud of.

WHAT you can do right now to start to get things back on track.

My #1 SECRET to decode exactly what the kids are showing you and turn it into connection and ease.

Look, I know this isn’t easy. It’s painful.  Denial and pride might be tempting as it always is in our journey of being a human.

But just on the other side of that is the most amazing healing, connection and love, and you get to have that in spades, because it’s time.

I’m super excited to share this with you and I hope you love it as much as I do.

There’s nothing more powerful than a relationship that is a living, breathing embodiment of LOVE.

Not just as some gooey, lovey dovey thing…

That’s super nice and all, but I’m talking about where it matters most…

The places that are hurting.The places that are tender.The places that are growing.The places that are stretching.The places that got even a little injured some time ago and haven’t quite yet healed all the way.

THESE are the places.. where it needs to be brought in.  ALL the way, because the LACK of that is what is causing all the struggle for you.

Which is exactly what I’m going into on the podcast today.

I’ll be talking about HOW to bring it in, WHAT to do and WHEN to begin the process.

What has taken me years to arrive at, I’m now sharing with you and I SO want you to have it.

This is going to be SOOO good, because so many couples and individuals need it.

It’s not easy to do it alone, and I’m here to expertly and simply break it all down for you and your beloved so this can finally get resolved.

It’s what helped me and I KNOW it can help you too.

I’m so super excited to share this with you because I KNOW that it’s going to shift the needle for you and help you receive more love, more delight and have a happier relationship filled with more love, sex and closeness.

Share with me ONE way that you’d love to have more love in your relationship.

You can be confronted with your own issues, and your partners, and over the course of a relationship it can work and grind you.

And over the course of 30 years and 30,000 client hours, I’ve watched partners reckon with the deep reasons they are with their beloveds’- the good, the bad and the ugly.

No matter how it is, it’s always evolving us and if you know how to work it really well then you’ll be able to receive the gold that’s waiting for you in the rub of the issues, personalities and challenges.

This is what we’re jumping into in our podcast this week.

I’m going to share with you my own journey (very personal!) on what I went through with this.. And how it led me to the hot sex, love and closeness I am experiencing today.

And I’ll show you what to do to…

– KNOW how to identify the soul lessons that are coming up for you.

– GET stronger so you can face what’s in front of you and turn it into gold.

– WHAT to do when you need grounding and support. 

And it’s going to be so worth it.. And I know I’m the perfect person to help you access it this week because I have and am still literally walking the path, and yes, walking my talk in relationship as well.

You can trust me…and lean into the layers of support here.. Because you know you want the hot sex, love and closeness you desire, and deserve, and you’re done trying to figure it out alone.  Good.

Can’t wait to hear what you think.. And for you to start getting more of the hot sex, love and closeness you’ve been craving, because you know how to turn soul lessons into relationship gold.

Who’s ready to be a master relationship alchemist and know how to mine for gold in the difficulties – (psst.. This is only going to turn up the volume on the sex, love and closeness you desire and deserve…)

Share with me below.

For me, I’m going to keep surrendering to listening.. So I can hear what’s real and what I need to do to shift my relationship.

I can’t tell you how many times couples and those who seek relationship came into my office and felt shame with self-recrimination that they didn’t know how to bring common sense to their relationship issues.

I’ve watched people tear themselves apart.. criticize themselves.. think they were idiots and dumb shits because they have this idea that relationship should be easy, common sense and that we should all be born with the skills to do it really well.

I can’t tell you how much of a disservice this point of view is.

To bring balance and service.. I’m going to go knee deep into this all the way on this week’s podcast, because you deserve to be let off the hook and know how to make it easier without pretending it’s a super simple problem, or that common sense should just fixed everything.

Tune in and find out..

– The problem with common sense and why it’s not working to help bring you closer to your partner.– The three things you can do right now to let yourself off the self-blame cross. – The five things you can do to begin cultivating the emotional intelligence you need to create a relationship with the closeness and connection.

No one reads this far unless they have a resonance with DESIRING more closeness, and wanting it to be easier, and not really being sure how to do it.

It’s easy to beat yourself up and to settle for the same old uncomfortable but comfortable discomfort.

You can even convince yourself that maybe you’ll just hang out another year and it will probably get better.

But if you’re not taking the steps to get the layers of support you need lined up, how will it really be that way a year from now?

This is exactly what we will be jumping deep into the heart up today in our podcast and I want you to be there because it doesn’t have to be hard or impossible.

It can be as easy as being in relationship and the energy of someone who has walked the path as deep, wide and detailed as I have.

And I can’t wait to share all this with you.

Look, I want you to know something that is going to take the pressure off.

For all the noise out there on simply ‘deciding’ that you are going to do something different…

There’s another voice that needs to be heard…

Especially when it comes to deciding, creating and manifesting a Hot Sex Life, or even a better one than you have now.

And maybe it’s a voice you’ve snuffed down because you don’t know what else to do…

And society does nada to prepare you for this… and then you think you’re terrible at ‘deciding,’ when really you need toknow how to do THIS instead.

If you only knew the steps to take, and what to do, and how to do it, THEN you could actually decide from a place of foundation,a place of stability, a place of being primed so that when you do decide, you can actually do it successfully! This is exactly whatI do with my clients, and then they end up being able to decide to create all kinds of things in their lives, not just hot sex.

But the real truth is, many don’t know, and then hold themselves and their relationships up to impossible standards, feeling hopeless.

Which is EXACTLY why I’m going ALL in to this topic this week on the podcast…

Like how to…* decide from a place of foundation to create what you desire* release and let go of the things that are in the way so you can decide from a grounded place* process the things that are blocking you from creating the Hot Sex you desire

Look, you can continue to struggle with insight-only oriented advice that has been proved to be the weakest link to change,

OR… you can end your relationship thinking he or she isn’t the one for you… (because many do that too…)

or how about instead… you listen in on this weeks podcast where I’m going to break it down for you, simple steps, nothing holdback on exactly WHAT you can do instead, that’s been tested, easy to follow and produce results.

I love this work so much.. and the changes I’ve gotten to very much enjoy in my own relationship as well as the relationships of my clients as well.

Hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Tell me

What do you do when you want more intimacy and closeness with your beloved, even if you haven’t been having it for a while,or even if you think you’ll never have it?

Find out on one of my most intimate, raw and authentic podcast episodes yet.

What you do is this;

You lean into the layers of support from people that are resourced to help you create it.  And into those layers inside yourself.

You find ways to go even deeper with your needs, the inquiry into their true root motivation and you don’t stop until you get there.

You make the space and the time, and you prioritize that journey so that you end up attending to yourself so that these places inside of you get the actual air time they’ve been calling out for a while.

You’ve decoded that underneath the drama or trauma, there’s something really tender and precious and it’s worth attending to.

This is EXACTLY what we’re going to be focusing on our podcast this week and I’m super lit up to share this with you because I KNOW it works to help connection deepen and expand, starting with yourself.

We’re going to dive into all the things you want to know how to do;– going even deeper with your own needs…– how to locate the origin point so you can give them exactly what they need– what to do so that you can relate them more authentically to your partner.

This is going to be So good, what you’ve been needing, and the answer to well, at least some of the nagging questions you’ve had about how to make the connection more powerful, close and sustaining.

I’m not into foo foo fluff, so you can be sure this is going to be grounded…clear and you’re going to feel deeply gotten, perhaps for the very first time.

Can’t wait to hear what you think.

When I hear couples dissatisfied about their sexual connection, it makes me sad because I KNOW there is something that you can do about it.

It’s not a magic pill, or overnight fix, (and anyone who tells you that should send you running for the hills, rightfully so.)

But what is possible, because I have done this myself, is to KNOW exactly how to get into the space where creativity can lead to release, relief and connection.

It’s going to require you be willing to release blame, the well work patterns of the mind, and to trust me (and your body) to go deeper into the natural pulses and rhythms that contain all the answers and healing flow you need to liberate sexual disconnection struggles of ANY kind.

Join me on this episode of the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness podcast, where I’ll share from the inside of my own journey and the rich conversations with couples I serve, exactly how to cultivate the sexual connection you’ve been most desiring.

Find out what to do to;– Safely get to the root of the sexual disconnection challenges.– Stop the complaint and move into healthy self-assertion.– and creatively start bringing about what you’ve been most craving.

This podcast is reaching people in Africa, Asia, America, Australia and throughout Europe. We are a powerful community of support and the layers of that support can help you have the kind of connection you’ve been craving….IF you let it in.

Here’s your chance.Go Slow.Go Deep.Let’s get some genuine connection happening in the places in the bedroom that need it the most.

Can’t wait to hear what you think.

There’s nothing more powerful than a relationship that is a living, breathing embodiment of LOVE.

Not just as some gooey, lovey dovey thing…

That’s super nice and all, but I’m talking about where it matters most…

The places that are hurting.The places that are tender.The places that are growing.The places that are stretching.The places that got even a little injured some time ago and haven’t quite yet healed all the way.

THESE are the places.. where it needs to be brought in.  ALL the way, because the LACK of that is what is causing all the struggle for you.

Which is exactly what I’m going into on the podcast today.

I’ll be talking about HOW to bring it in, WHAT to do and WHEN to begin the process.

What has taken me years to arrive at, I’m now sharing with you and I SO want you to have it.

This is going to be SOOO good, because so many couples and individuals need it.

It’s not easy to do it alone, and I’m here to expertly and simply break it all down for you and your beloved so this can finally get resolved.

It’s what helped me and I KNOW it can help you too.

I’m so super excited to share this with you because I KNOW that it’s going to shift the needle for you and help you receive more love, more delight and have a happier relationship filled with more love, sex and closeness.

Share with me ONE way that you’d love to have more love in your relationship.

Sometimes relationships can be so damn evocative that we really don’t know where to begin.

You can be confronted with your own issues, and your partners, and over the course of a relationship it can work and grind you. And over the course of 30 years and 30,000 client hours, I’ve watched partners reckon with the deep reasons they are with their beloveds’- the good, the bad and the ugly. 

No matter how it is, it’s always evolving us and if you know how to work it really well then you’ll be able to receive the gold that’s waiting for you in the rub of the issues, personalities and challenges.

This is what we’re jumping into in our podcast this week.

I’m going to share with you my own journey (very personal!) on what I went through with this.. And how it led me to the hot sex, love and closeness I am experiencing today.

And I’ll show you what to do to…

– KNOW how to identify the soul lessons that are coming up for you.

– GET stronger so you can face what’s in front of you and turn it into gold.

– WHAT to do when you need grounding and support. 

And it’s going to be so worth it.. And I know I’m the perfect person to help you access it this week because I have and am still literally walking the path, and yes, walking my talk in relationship as well.

You can trust me…and lean into the layers of support here.. Because you know you want the hot sex, love and closeness you desire, and deserve, and you’re done trying to figure it out alone.  Good.

Can’t wait to hear what you think.. And for you to start getting more of the hot sex, love and closeness you’ve been craving, because you know how to turn soul lessons into relationship gold.

Who’s ready to be a master relationship alchemist and know how to mine for gold in the difficulties – (psst.. This is only going to turn up the volume on the sex, love and closeness you desire and deserve…)

Share with me below.

For me, I’m going to keep surrendering to listening.. So I can hear what’s real and what I need to do to shift my relationship.

I gotta tell you, when I see parents get frustrated with their kids, I understand.

Somehow the great, mysterious forces of the universe concocted the experience for us to absolutely fall in love with our little humans when they are babies..

…and then hope that’s enough juice in the bank to deal with the immense energy, overwhelm and stress that can come up,

and society does next to nothing to empower and teach us how to handle what to do when we are confronted with disowned patterns or stresses we haven’t dealt with, or even realized.. and now they show up in our kids..

…it’s why we’re going to talk about it in this week’s podcast..

because you need to know what to do when stress hits

and you’re not loving or are irritated in what you’re seeing in the kids

and..it’s getting in the way between you and your partner having the hot sex, love and closeness you desire and deserve

I’m super excited to share this with you.

One of my clients after hearing this said to me…,

“Joanna.. thanks for breaking this down for us..no one ever taught us how to decode the patterns I was seeing in my kids, that were driving us both nuts! Now we have practical strategies that are EASY to apply, and we’re doing it, and getting more freed up to create much more hot sex and it’s been delicious…” – anonymous…

I hope you love it and I know it’s going to serve you well.

You can check it out…