Constantly nagging or feeling 'never good enough' in love? ADHD's hidden role in relationships explained—bridge the neurotypical clash now."

ADHD suspicions (diagnosed or not) disrupt partnerships silently. Hosts Ali and Ros reveal therapy insights: why ADHD brains spark friction beyond "lazy" labels, and proven bridges to deeper connection.

00:00 Understanding ADHD in Relationships

01:20 The Impact of ADHD on Non-ADHD Partners

03:55 Managing Chores and Responsibilities

06:16 The Dynamics of Attention and Interest

08:58 Building Awareness and Compassion

12:06 Takeaway Tips for Couples

15:05 Resources and Future Episodes

📍 Resources mentioned:

https://www.adhdmarriage.com/

Books: The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps - https://amzn.eu/d/0eqHRESO

Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD - https://amzn.eu/d/0e48TJKi

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Hosts: Alison Bickers and Ros Peckham at www.mytempo.co.uk