How Are You Arriving? Conversations with Cristina Young,

How Are You Arriving? Conversations with Cristina Young,

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How Are You Arriving? Conversations with Cristina Young, episodes

  • Parenting Teens with ADHD: Compassion, Connection, and Practical Strategies with Joni Corn

    In this episode of How Are You Arriving, parenting coach Joni Korn joins Cristina for a compassionate and practical conversation about navigating ADHD with teens. Drawing from her lived experience as a parent of ADHDers and her work supporting families, Joni reframes challenging behaviors as communication. She helps parents better understand what their children are really trying to express.

    Joni shares her journey from practicing law to homeschooling her sons and eventually becoming a parenting coach specializing in ADHD. Together, they explore why parenting teens with ADHD can feel so overwhelming, especially during middle and high school, and why many kids with ADHD are developmentally several years behind their peers. Joni emphasizes the importance of empathy, emotional regulation, and focusing on connection rather than control.

    This conversation offers hope, clarity, and actionable strategies for parents who feel exhausted, isolated, or stuck in cycles of nagging and conflict. If you’re navigating ADHD, executive function challenges, or want to parent with more compassion and confidence, this episode will resonate.

    52 min
  • Legacy, Curiosity, and Purpose: Bruce Taylor on Asking the Right Questions

    In this episode of How Are You Arriving, Cristina sits down with Bruce Taylor for a thoughtful conversation about parenting, legacy, curiosity, and purpose-driven work. Bruce reflects on the pride he feels in his relationship with his sons and the importance of staying connected as children grow into adulthood.

    Bruce also shares the inspiration behind The Wurman Prelude, a conference dedicated to exploring the mentors, influences, and experiences that shape meaningful success. Rather than focusing on accomplishments alone, he emphasizes the power of asking better questions and uncovering the stories behind the people we admire.

    Throughout the episode, Bruce reflects on stamina, personal connection, and giving yourself permission to pursue what genuinely excites you. This is a reflective conversation about living with intention, curiosity, and purpose.

    37 min
  • What Happens When Hate Goes Unchecked: A Holocaust Descendant’s Story with Stephanie Rosen

    In this episode, Cristina sits down with Stephanie Rosen, a descendant of Holocaust survivors and cofounder of 3G Miami. Stephanie shares her family’s story, the founding of 3G Miami, and her passion for bringing Holocaust education into classrooms through personal testimony — not just history books.

    She opens up about her journey from Montreal to Miami, leaving corporate finance for purpose-driven work, and the remarkable growth of 3G Miami, which has reached nearly 20,000 students. Stephanie also reflects on resilience, Jewish identity, her own health challenges, and the meaning we can find in our work when it’s tied to legacy, remembrance, and hope.

    This is a deeply human conversation about memory, empathy, and the importance of speaking up when hatred goes unchecked. If you’re interested in Holocaust history, Jewish identity, intergenerational resilience, or purpose-driven living, this episode will move you.

    47 min
  • Strength, Confidence & Self-Discovery with Mandy DiMarzo. Ep. 8

    Welcome BACK to How Are You Arriving! I am thrilled to welcome Mandy DiMarzo to today's Zoom call. Mandy is a relentless athlete, wellness speaker, and kickass fitness instructor. She is tough, a TEDx speaker, a wellness expert, and a former Division I soccer player. Mandy has overcome an eating disorder as well as countless injuries. As a result of managing all these obstacles, Mandy made the pivotal decision to stop striving for the unattainable and instead embrace the power within her. Tune in to find out how she does it all! 




    In this episode… 

    • Mandy’s resilience 

    • Comeback story 

    • Managing the uncertainty

    • Leaning on habits  

    • Impostor syndrome 

    • Finding your way 




    Quotes


    “I really have to keep reminding myself that what you go through is what you grow through.” - Mandy DiMarzo 


    “Labels do not serve anyone. All they do is box you in.” - Mandy DiMarzo 


    “In a way, denial serves our brain so well, and it's such a smart adaptation because it lets our brain settle for a second into this new world of truth.” - Cristina Young 




    Timestamps: 

    0:00 - 4:05 | Intro  

    4:05 - 8:40 | Definition of resilience 

    8:40 - 10:10 | Managing the uncertainty 

    10:10 - 13:05 | Impostor syndrome 

    13:05 - 17:30 | Unfamiliar territory 

    17:30 - 18:40 | Doing the research 

    18:40 - 20:45 | Denial with grief 

    20:45 - 24:00 | Daily habits, hacks, & coping mechanisms 

    24:00 - 26:45 | Mindset shift 

    26:45 - 30:25 | The pedestal 

    30:25 - 33:55 | Serving others 

    33:55 - 36:15 | Character strengths 

    36:15 - 43:05 | Accepting help  

    43:05 - 45:25 | The future 

    45:25 - 48:35 | A bigger force 

    48:35 - 50:25 | Silver-linings 

    50:25 - 53:00 | A message for someone in the midst of the storm 

    53:00 - 54:25 | Outro 


    55 min
  • Turning Personal Struggle into Purposeful Work with Sandra Lippard. Ep. 7

    Welcome back to How Are You Arriving! I am so excited to announce our next theme on this podcast. The next few episodes fall under the theme of Passion-Driven Work. I admire the people whose work is not only about the paycheck, but also about purpose. Passion-driven work is what happens when a cause, a belief, or a commitment calls us and we answer. Some jobs we chose because they’re practical, while others chose us because of what we believe in, who we want to help, or the difference we have to make. The stories we will be diving into show us what happens when work is fueled not only by skill but also by conviction, when what we do is tethered to what matters most to us.  

    This week, I am delighted to have a dear old friend, Sandra Lippard, joining me on the podcast. She lives in Maryland with her husband and 15-year-old twin girls. Sandra’s first career was in product marketing for high-tech companies, and after her children were born, she took some time off to reevaluate her priorities. She then switched gears to work in a field that made a difference in her own life. Tune in to find out more!



    In this episode…

    • Surrogacy 

    • Empathy 

    • Rocky paths 

    • Gratitude 

    • Passion & job 

    • Resilience 

    • Values, beliefs, & emotions



    Quotes


    “The first step is making sure that you are comfortable having a relationship with this person for a year.” - Sandra Lippard 


    “It’s so inspiring to know that the work you do everyday comes from lived experience.” - Cristina Young 


    “No journey is ever identical.” - Sandra Lippard 



    Timestamps: 

    0:00 - 2:30 | Introduction 

    2:30 - 7:55 | Surrogacy  

    7:55 - 11:30 | Surrogate clients 

    11:30 - 15:10 | Gratitude 

    15:10 - 17:45 | Patterns 

    17:45 - 20:25 | A passion or job 

    20:25 - 23:45 | Sandra’s resilience 

    23:45 - 27:05 | Values, beliefs, & emotions  

    27:05 - 30:30 | Intentions of the surrogates 

    30:30 - 32:05 | Misunderstandings 

    32:05 - 37:00 | Turning struggle into purpose 

    37:00 - 37:43 | Outro 

      


    38 min
  • Resilience and Growth: Beyond Bouncing Back with Kristen Mullen. Ep. 6

    Welcome BACK to How Are You Arriving. This episode marks the third episode of the four-part series on the resiliency factor. Joining me this week is Kristen Mullen, who is here to talk about resilience. She is a school psychologist who specializes in serving students struggling with trauma and emotional regulation. Kristen has been in this field for more than 20 years and possesses a remarkable calm, as well as expertise that I believe lends a great deal of peace to all the families she works with. Tune in to find out more! 



    In this episode… 

    • Facing challenges personally vs. professionally 

    • Deep breaths 

    • Making a plan

    • Talking to people 

    • The power of information 

    • Make lemonade out of lemons 

    • Being proud of yourself 



    Quotes


    “When you are faced with a challenge it is important to first try and take a deep breath, then try to figure out your plans, who you are gonna see, talk to as many people as you can, and really try and make a plan.” - Kristen Mullen 


    “When your child is in pain you want to take their place in a heartbeat.” - Kristen Mullen 


    “Strength is in reflecting and repairing.” - Cristina Young 


    “We don’t really grow and change in a comfortable setting. We need to be uncomfortable.” - Kristen Mullen



    Timestamps: 

    0:00 - 2:30 | Intro 

    2:30 - 7:35 | Challenges professionally vs. personally 

    7:35 - 10:35 | The power of information  

    10:35 - 13:10 | Gathering your people 

    13:10 - 16:00 | BIG feelings 

    16:00 - 17:25 | Being proud of yourself 

    17:25 - 20:05 | Changing from challenges 

    20:05 - 21:55 | Parenting choices 

    21:55 - 24:50 | The children Kristen works with 

    24:50 - 29:00 | Is resilience learned? 

    29:00 - 33:00 | Teaching resilience to kids 

    33:00 - 37:05 | Resilience within yourself 

    37:05 - 38:15 | Imagining the worst-case scenario 

    38:15 - 40:00 | Building time in for reflection 

    40:00 - 43:25 | Empty nest 

    43:25 - 47:00 | Stop and reflect  

    47:00 - 50:05 | A truth or lesson about resilience 


    51 min
  • Everyday Resilience: The Small Stuff Builds The Big Stuff with Dr. Marisa Messore. Ep. 5

    Welcome BACK to How Are You Arriving. This week is the 2nd part of the 4-part series called The Resilience Factor. I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Marisa Messore to my show today. This episode is titled “Everyday Resilience: The Small Stuff Builds The Big Stuff.” 


    Marisa attended Boston University for medical school after completing her undergraduate studies at Tufts. She completed her residency here at the University of Miami, studying OBGYN, and has been in private practice since 1997. In 2003, Marisa joined the menopause society and became a certified menopause practitioner. She is THE doctor to see regarding all things menopause and hormones. Tune in to hear about how she tackles resilience! 




    In this episode…

    • Bouncing BACK

    • Conflict resolution 

    • Navigating 

    • Covid-19

    • Looking at the positive 

    • Mental breaks 




    Quotes


    “Resilience is about bouncing BACK but with a new strength.” - Cristina Young 


    “With anything in life, looking at the positives is so important.” - Marisa Messore


    “When you make the decision to begin to accept you give up real estate in your brain that was preoccupied with fighting it, and all of a sudden that real estate is available for other things” - Cristina Young  




    Timestamps: 

    0:00 - 3:00 | Intro 

    3:00 - 4:30 | Definition of resilience 

    4:30 - 9:00 | What resilience means to Marisa 

    9:00 - 11:05 | Takeaways from COVID 

    11:05 - 12:35 | Belonging to something bigger than yourself 

    12:35 - 15:30 | Resilience within patients 

    15:30 - 17:45 | Exercise 

    17:45 - 21:50 | Mindset 

    21:50 - 25:35 | Menopause affecting resilience  

    25:35 - 26:35 | Social media 

    26:35 - 29:50 | The secret sauce managing menopause 

    29:50 - 32:50 | Not sweating the small stuff 

    32:50 - 34:25 | Compassion for yourself 

    34:25 - 38:15 | Menopause being a public topic 

    38:15 - 38:48 | Outro 


    39 min
  • Relational Resilience: The Power of Connection Among Teens with Michelle Icard. Ep. 4

    Welcome BACK to How Are You Arriving. This week marks the beginning of a 4-part series called The Resilience Factor. What does it REALLY mean to be resilient? In the next four episodes, we will dive into what resilience looks like in everyday life, in our relationships, amidst internal obstacles, and during significant transitions. Then we will examine the growth that comes after the hardship and struggle. 


    You’ll hear real stories and practical tools that you can apply in your own life. Subscribe now and join me as we explore how resilience helps us bounce BACK!



    In this episode…

    • Differences in resilience 

    • Support system 

    • Parents feelings 

    • Choices

    • Giving & being given to

    • Teaching teens resilience   

    • Being seen 



    Quotes


    “Some resilience is not about standing alone, but really about leaning into family, friendship, school, culture, and community. Our connections can actually be the strongest anchor in the storm.” - Cristina Young 


    “The whole process of growing up is all about messing up. You have to let your teens mess up in order to grow.” - Michelle Icard 


    “As a parent, you have to accept that you are raising someone apart from you. Someone whose job it is to separate from you. Someone who will be who they’ll be regardless.” - Michele Icard



    Timestamps: 

    0:00 - 4:15 | Intro 

    4:15 - 5:20 | Definition of resilience 

    5:20 - 8:10 | Support 

    8:10 - 11:55 | Being strong for others 

    11:55 - 14:10 | Teaching teens resilience 

    14:10 - 16:35 | A calm stance as a parent 

    16:35 - 25:00 | Resilience is challenging 

    25:00 - 28:50 | Knowing yourself as a parent 

    28:50 - 32:05 | Being seen & mattering to others 

    32:05 - 38:50 | Helping your kids know they matter to the family 

    38:50 - 41:45 | Help kids with the friendship storms 

    41:45 - 46:20 | Resilience in a time of need 

    46:20 - 49:50 | Scripts 

    49:50 - 50:59 | Outro  


    51 min
  • Max Gelband - Fresh Perspectives and Sharp Insights for a New Year. Ep. 3

    Welcome BACK to How Are You Arriving? This week we have Max Gelband and I think you all are going to love him. Max is a 27 year old real estate broker who is originally from Boulder but has been in Miami for a couple of years. I am lucky enough to know Max because he actually helped me find my office. He is transparent, he is vulnerable, he is smart, and he shares so many interesting insights in this episode. Tune in!



    In this episode…

    • Goal setting 

    • Consistency 

    • Motivation/motivators 

    • Internal dialogue 

    • Support system 

    • Self awareness 

    • Expectations 

    • Attitude & effort 




    Quotes

    “I think it is important to reflect on what was before we dive into what we hope happens in the future.” - Cristina Young

    “If I can be a semi-decent human being, I am probably doing better than most of the humans on the earth right now.” - Max Gelband 




    Timestamps: 

    0:00 - 3:00 | Intro 

    3:00 - 7:35 | Goal setting for seasons 

    7:35 - 10:20 | 5 people you spend the most time with 

    10:20 - 12:20 | Being a semi-decent human being 

    12:20 - 15:00 | Applying the lessons 

    15:00 - 17:10 | Changes for seasons 

    17:10 - 20:35 | Eliminate the ignorance tax 

    20:35 - 22:45 | Internal monologue 

    22:45 - 25:00 | Self discipline 

    25:00 - 27:50 | Humility 

    27:50 - 32:25 | Upbringing 

    32:25 - 34:35 | Transparency 

    34:35 - 37:40 | Free spirit 

    37:40 - 46:25 | Changing & growing 

    46:25 - 47:45 | Understanding yourself 

    47:45 - 50:05 | Let them 

    50:05 - 53:30 | Future self 

    53:30 - 54:16 | Outro 


    55 min

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