Many of us are quick to offer help to others but struggle when it comes to asking for help ourselves. Why is that? As Christians, we are known for our generosity and willingness to assist those in need. However, when it’s our turn to seek help, we often hesitate. Let’s explore why that is—and why asking for help is not only okay but also glorifies God.

The Reluctance to Ask for Help

Churches frequently establish benevolence funds to support members going through financial hardships. Most of us gladly contribute to these funds, eager to help those in need. But when the tables turn, and we are the ones facing difficulties, we often resist seeking assistance.

One common reason is that we don't want to burden others. Many of us would rather go without—sometimes even at the expense of our families—than impose on someone else. However, the Bible challenges this mindset. Galatians 6:2 reminds us to “Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” God's design for us is not self-sufficiency but a supportive Christian community where burdens are shared.

Another reason we shy away from asking for help is the fear of appearing weak or vulnerable. We convince ourselves that no one can or wants to help us. Yet, this reluctance can sometimes stem from pride. Proverbs 11:2 warns, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.”

Asking for help—especially financial help—requires humility. It can be difficult to admit mistakes or acknowledge needs, but it’s an opportunity for growth. Whether our difficulties arise from poor decisions or unforeseen circumstances, God can use them to shape our character and deepen our dependence on Him.

Biblical Examples of Receiving Help

Even the Apostle Paul, a pillar of faith, received financial support for his ministry. In Philippians 4:19, he expresses gratitude, saying, “And this same God who takes care of me will supply all of your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.”

Furthermore, Jesus Himself accepted help from others. Luke 8:1-3 tells us that Mary Magdalene, Joanna, and Susanna provided financial support for His ministry. If the Son of God was willing to receive help, shouldn't we be willing to do the same?

If you find yourself in need, start by sharing your situation with your church community. Even if no one within the church can help directly, they might know someone who can. The Body of Christ is a vast network of believers who are ready and willing to offer support in various ways.

Seeking help not only benefits you but also provides others with an opportunity to fulfill their calling to generosity. When we withhold our needs, we deny them the blessing of giving.

Asking for Help Glorifies God

The ultimate reason to ask for help? It glorifies God. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, Paul writes, “For when I am weak, then I am strong.” Acknowledging our weakness allows God’s strength to shine through and reminds us of our dependence on Him.

When you pray and ask God for help, He often answers through people and opportunities, not supernatural interventions. 1 John 5:14 assures us that “if we ask anything according to his will, He hears us.”

By seeking help, we acknowledge our reliance on God, invite others to be part of His provision, and foster a deeper sense of community and mutual support.

If you're facing financial difficulties, don't hesitate to ask for help. Whether it's from your church, a trusted friend, or even a financial advisor, remember that seeking help is not a sign of weakness—it's an act of faith and humility. If you’d like to meet with a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or a Certified Christian Financial Counselor, you can visit FaithFi.com and click “Find A Professional”. 

Take that step today. In doing so, you allow others to serve, grow in generosity, and bring glory to God through their kindness and your humility.

On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:

• I'm a bi-vocational pastor with a substantial six-figure income, but I've gotten myself into a situation where I can't give as much as I want to. I see some financial relief coming soon, but I feel stuck and almost hypocritical about it. How can I get my finances in order so I can be the generous giver I want to be?
• I inherited an IRA from my dad in 2017. Can I keep this inherited IRA, or do I have to do something with it? I've been taking the required minimum distributions (RMDs) each year, but my tax preparer has never said anything about needing to handle this differently. Can I just continue taking the RMDs as I have been?
• I'm 73 years old and in good health now, but I'm concerned about the future if I need to go to a nursing home. I know they can take everything I have. How can I protect any assets I have, like my home and the $100,000 I have in cash and securities, from the nursing home taking it all?
• I'm 59 years old and I have everything paid off, a fully funded emergency fund, and I'm contributing to my 401(k). I have about $200,000 that I'd like to invest. I want to be somewhat conservative, but I also don't want to miss out on potential market gains that could be used for the kingdom. What would you recommend I do with this $200,000? Should I look into fixed annuities, crypto, or something else?

Resources Mentioned:

• Faithful Steward: FaithFi’s New Quarterly Publication
• Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and Anxiety
• Rich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich Fool
• Find a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)
• FaithFi App

Remember, you can call in to ask your questions every workday at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. You can also visit FaithFi.com to connect with our online community and partner with us as we help more people live as faithful stewards of God’s resources.

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