Sex at Every Size

How Bad Must It Be?


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This week we’re talking about Amanda Lee, the TikTok creator who posted about her experience with a fatphobic gastrointestinal medical specialist. We break down the incident that happened to her as well as the problematic way that her interview for The Today Show was framed. 

We answer a listener question about a couple who takes a break, then chooses to get back together and has some resentment leftover.  

Stay until the end where Hailey talks about how she discovered the modern medical marvel of cough drops. 


Episode highlights:

“How bad must it be for the people who are more marginalized than her.”

“I’m ready to be at a point where people are going to take this shit seriously.”

“Absolutely gender bias is a real thing, but…”

“Not only is it dismissive to all fat people, but it’s dismissive to what happened to Amanda.”

“We’re clearly not in a society yet that is willing to have empathy for fat people.”

“You shouldn’t have to have cancer for this to matter.”

“Why do we need a mental health diagnosis for fat people?”

“No, stress causes fatness, you dumbass.”

“She shouldn’t have to have a cancer diagnosis to get invited to do this interview.”

“It doesn’t matter what label we put on it, this is a thing that broke trust in the relationship.”

“I understand how you could get 2 years into a crappy situation and still be there because of extenuating circumstances.”

“I’m not going to be permissive to the guy who told you that you were ‘cuntsplaining’.”

“I thought cough drops were a scam … my whole world has changed.”


Links for Resources:

Amanda Lee TikTok Video:

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMd5QG5YY/


Woman, 27, Body Shamed by Doctor who Dismissed Her Pain, Later Diagnosed with Stage 3 Cancer:

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/woman-27-body-shamed-doctor-194139681.html


Willing to be Wrong with Dr. Joshua Wolrich:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-amanda-lee-medical-weight-stigma-history-bmi-why/id1555417267?i=1000512892912


IG: @sexateverysize

Email: [email protected]


Cassie:

IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLPC


About the hosts:


Cassie Willnauer, MA, LPC

Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clin

IG: @sexateverysize

Email: [email protected]

Cassie:
IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

About the hosts:

Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

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