How Do You Dad?

In this special Father’s Day message, Joe Barlow asks one of the most important questions a dad can ask: “How am I supposed to do this?”

Is there a rule book, a roadmap, or a blueprint for becoming a great father? In this episode of How Do You Dad?, Joe talks about the difference between simply doing the right things and becoming the kind of man your family needs you to be.

The answer starts with the heart. Joe shares how real transformation begins through Jesus Christ, and then he walks through the fruit of the Spirit — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control — as the practical roadmap for being a better husband, father, and man of God.

If you want a more peaceful home, stronger relationships with your children, and a family culture built on love instead of conflict, this episode will give you a simple but powerful place to start.

Be a fountain, not a drain.

What does it take to build a family that stays strong for generations?In this powerful conversation, Joe sits down with entrepreneur, father, grandfather, and family legacy builder Bern to discuss the lessons he's learned from raising five children, investing in eighteen grandchildren, and creating a family culture centered on faith, love, and unity.

What if one of the biggest mistakes Christian dads make is trying too hard to be nice?

In this powerful episode of How Do You Dad?, Joe Barlow sits down with his brother Vince Barlow—executive coach, father, grandfather, and the man who led Joe to Christ when he was 11 years old.

Drawing from decades of parenting, ministry, and personal failures, Vince shares a counter-cultural message: God didn't call fathers to be "nice guys." He called them to be loving fathers who shape the character of their children.

Check out Vince's books below!

Becoming Unshakeable

https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Unshakeable-Power-Emotional-Intelligence/dp/B0D12GCRCV

Building a Career That Lasts

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GLGT8423?ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_HRKNCT630QHYMCCS7EV9&bestFormat=true

In this deeply honest conversation, Trevor shares his journey through depression, spiritual awakening, and discovering what it means to hear God’s voice and experience His love in a new way. Together, we explore identity, parenting, emotional presence, fear vs. love, and the life-changing revelation that we may already be more loved and accepted than we realize.This conversation is for anyone wrestling with shame, striving for approval, or wondering if God truly sees them with delight.

Today on How Do You Dad?, I sit down with one of my closest friends, Nathan Blouse — a man who has deeply impacted my life, my family, and my walk with God.

Nathan leads a ministry called The Safe Place, where he helps people encounter healing, freedom, and the voice of God in some of the deepest areas of pain and trauma. But today’s conversation goes far beyond ministry. We talk fatherhood. Real fatherhood.

Nathan shares openly about walking through divorce, fighting to stay connected to his children, and learning what it means to intentionally pursue the hearts of your kids. This isn’t theory. This is lived experience.

We discuss emotional connection, the power of a father’s voice, how to stay relational with your children, and why simply providing financially is not enough. Nathan also shares practical ways fathers can become emotionally safe, spiritually present, and deeply intentional with their families.

Whether you’re a dad with little kids, grown kids, strained relationships, or you never had a good father yourself — this episode will encourage you, challenge you, and give you hope.

Guys… this one is important.

Visit the website to learn more, support the show, find other products, books and music. https://www.josephbarlow.com/

A Conversation Every Dad Needs to Hear In this powerful episode of the How Do You Dad? Podcast, I sit down with my younger brother Andrew for a deep, honest conversation about fatherhood, marriage, and what it really means to grow as a man.We talk about:Why becoming a father forces you out of self-centered living

The importance of loving your wife as the foundation of great parenting

Mistakes we’ve made as dads—and the power of apologizing to your kids

Raising children with both truth and grace

Letting go of control and trusting God’s design in your children

The cultural challenges facing fathers today

Andrew shares wisdom from raising three children, navigating marriage for over 35 years, and learning how God uses family relationships to shape us into who we’re meant to be.

This is not theory—this is real life, real growth, and real fatherhood.

Learn more about Joseph Barlow Ministries:

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Hey friends, Joe Barlow here — welcome back to the Joseph Barlow Podcast, also known as Dads & Fathers.

Today is Episode 11, 

Hey friends, Joe Barlow here. Welcome to the Joseph Barlow Podcast and to another episode in the Dads & Fathers series.

Today I’m talking with my longtime friend Larry Bettag. We’ve known each other since 1980, and when I think of strong fathers—men who love deeply, lead courageously, and fight for their families—Larry is one of the men I think of.

In this conversation, we talk about the question, How do you dad? Larry opens up about fatherhood, marriage, prayer, regret, redemption, raising strong kids, and staying connected to Christ through all of it.

This is a real and powerful conversation, and I think it’s going to help a lot of dads.

So thanks for joining me. Let’s get right into it.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For the Healing of the Nations/Healing Leaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an e-book that will make receiving divine healing so easy.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Is Yours⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an instrumental album with my voice speaking scriptures, prayer and prophetic word. Excellent for those battling physical illness.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Come Up For Air/The Secret of the Whale, my first⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ children's book. I did the pictures myself using AI. The Lord gave me the message. A simple profound truth and glorious illustrations.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer Is…⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ sayings and prophetic words about prayer. A real favorite.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Texting Through the Clouds: Your Quest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an evangelistic book, that has Jesus leading someone to know Him through a text message conversation.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Words From God: A Year of Conversations⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ similar to God Calling. A 365 day devotional with a prophetic word for each day.

We appreciate all the help and support. This podcast was provided to you through the support of our partners. 

Hey friends, Joe Barlow here — welcome back to the Joseph Barlow Podcast, also known as Dads & Fathers.

Today is Episode 11, and I’m genuinely excited because I’m bringing you an interview that I believe is going to strengthen you. I sat down with my new friend Reagan Givhan — and listen… this brother and his wife have twelve kids. Twelve. And what you’re going to hear isn’t just a “big family story”… it’s a testimony of grace, faith, and the way God supplies when you say yes to Him.

Reagan leads a ministry called Holy Temple Fitness, and it’s not just about working out — it’s about being fit in every area: spiritually, mentally, physically, financially, and relationally. But the heartbeat you’re going to feel in this conversation is his passion for holiness, purity, and building a family on purpose — not by accident, not by pressure, but by hearing God and obeying Him.

And we go deep — we talk about fatherhood identity, the grace to parent, the power of an open-heart relationship with your kids, and why that little question “why?” is so important… because it builds strength on the inside of your children, so they can stand when the world pushes back.

Now quick heads-up: I’m probably moving to one episode a week for a season instead of daily — and that’s okay. We’re going to keep flowing, keep building, and keep bringing you something that helps you become the man God made you to be.

Alright—before we jump in, let’s pray.

Father, I ask You to bless this time with my brother Reagan. We love You with all our heart. Flow by Your Spirit, say what You want to say, do what You want to do. We commit this time to You. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Alright my friend — you’re going to love this interview. Let’s get into it.

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Have You Considered Coaching:

This podcast might inspire you to spend more time one on one with Joe. ⁠Coaching⁠ might be what you need for a time?

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For the Healing of the Nations/Healing Leaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an e-book that will make receiving divine healing so easy.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Is Yours⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an instrumental album with my voice speaking scriptures, prayer and prophetic word. Excellent for those battling physical illness.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Come Up For Air/The Secret of the Whale, my first⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ children's book. I did the pictures myself using AI. The Lord gave me the message. A simple profound truth and glorious illustrations.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer Is…⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ sayings and prophetic words about prayer. A real favorite.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Texting Through the Clouds: Your Quest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an evangelistic book, that has Jesus leading someone to know Him through a text message conversation.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Words From God: A Year of Conversations⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ similar to God Calling. A 365 day devotional with a prophetic word for each day.

We appreciate all the help and support. This podcast was provided to you through the support of our partners. 

📍 Hey friends, Joe Barlow here.

Welcome to Episode Number 10 of the Dads and Fathers Podcast.

This week we’ve been asking a powerful question — Why become a father?

And today, I want to take that question even deeper.

Maybe you’re already a dad. Maybe you became a father unexpectedly. Maybe you planned it. Maybe you’re still deciding. But regardless of how you got here, the most important question isn’t how you became a father…

It’s why.

The word why has the power to expose motives, clarify purpose, and realign your heart. Scripture tells us in Hebrews 4:12 that the Word of God is living and active — discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. In many ways, the question why does the same thing.

Why did God say, “Be fruitful and multiply”?
Why did He command mankind to fill the earth and subdue it?
Why would He look at Abraham and say, “I want more of you”?

Friend, fatherhood was never just about biology.
It was never just about passing on your last name.
It was never just about fulfilling instinct.

It is about propagating the knowledge and love of God into the earth.

Fatherhood is one of the most powerful kingdom strategies God ever designed.

And even if you’ve never had biological children, this conversation still belongs to you — because multiplying the love of God isn’t limited to DNA. It’s about influence. It’s about legacy. It’s about transmitting what you know about God into the next generation.

So today, we’re going to talk about legacy.
We’re going to talk about multiplication.
We’re going to talk about how you can change the world — maybe not the whole world — but someone’s whole world.

Sit back for a few minutes.
Let’s go after the deeper why behind fatherhood.

Because when you understand the why, everything else starts to fall into place.

Let’s dive in.

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Coaching:

This podcast might inspire you to spend more time one on one with Joe. ⁠Coaching⁠ might be what you need for a time?

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For the Healing of the Nations/Healing Leaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an e-book that will make receiving divine healing so easy.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Is Yours⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an instrumental album with my voice speaking scriptures, prayer and prophetic word. Excellent for those battling physical illness.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Come Up For Air/The Secret of the Whale, my first⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ children's book. I did the pictures myself using AI. The Lord gave me the message. A simple profound truth and glorious illustrations.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Change Is For The Brave: Potential Is A Promise, a revision⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and re-write of my first book. Deep, thought-provoking sayings along with many stories about how change happens in one's life.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer Is…⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ sayings and prophetic words about prayer. A real favorite.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Texting Through the Clouds: Your Quest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an evangelistic book, that has Jesus leading someone to know Him through a text message conversation.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Words From God: A Year of Conversations⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ similar to God Calling. A 365 day devotional with a prophetic word for each day.

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Hey friends, Joe Barlow here. Welcome back to the Dads & Fathers Podcast — this is day number nine.

If you’ve been tracking with me, you already know this isn’t just a casual conversation about parenting tips. This is about identity. It’s about calling. It’s about becoming the man God created you to be.

Today we’re asking a bold question:

Why should you become a dad?

Not just biologically. Not just culturally. But spiritually. Purposefully. Intentionally.

There is something inside of you that has not yet been tested. There is greatness in you that has not yet been revealed. And fatherhood has a way of drawing that greatness out.

God said about Abraham, “I know him.”
He chose Abraham not just because he would have children — but because he would lead them. Because he would command his household. Because he would multiply righteousness in the earth.

That’s not just Abraham’s story.

That’s an invitation.

What kind of man are you becoming?
What is in you that deserves to be multiplied?
If God were looking across a line of men, would He say, “I want more like him”?

Today we’re talking about leadership with love. Strength with softness. Authority without harshness. And the holy responsibility of multiplying what God has placed inside you.

This one may challenge you.
But if you’re willing, it could change you.

Let’s get into it.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For the Healing of the Nations/Healing Leaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an e-book that will make receiving divine healing so easy.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Is Yours⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an instrumental album with my voice speaking scriptures, prayer and prophetic word. Excellent for those battling physical illness.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Come Up For Air/The Secret of the Whale, my first⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ children's book. I did the pictures myself using AI. The Lord gave me the message. A simple profound truth and glorious illustrations.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Change Is For The Brave: Potential Is A Promise, a revision⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and re-write of my first book. Deep, thought-provoking sayings along with many stories about how change happens in one's life.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Prayer Is…⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ sayings and prophetic words about prayer. A real favorite.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Texting Through the Clouds: Your Quest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ an evangelistic book, that has Jesus leading someone to know Him through a text message conversation.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Words From God: A Year of Conversations⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ similar to God Calling. A 365 day devotional with a prophetic word for each day.

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