How do YOU do love?

The play concludes with a final reflection back on the same night as Chapter 1 was set in. We talk about a few things from what it means to find the strength to take chances. We delve into communicating post-break up in a way that encourages growth. We even share some of our cringe-y break up behaviours. What do you think? How do YOU do love? Pick any topic that you've been inspired to reflect upon while listening. Share it in a voice note or text or email! We will try and share everybody's comments, assuming they are authentic and relevant. . . 

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OK so you know the inner dialogue that can rule our lives at times? Here we go. . . our main character is an expert in beating herself up and yet she finds a simple solution. Can you treat your own inner dialogue like a demanding or upset child? What do you think? Is it possible to control those 'cruel voices' in our head??

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This episode is the 'mic drop' in our heroine's life where she finally realizes that SHE is the problem and that she has work to do. Our tendency to fixate on the external is common and many of us do have a critical moment or experience that leads us to take more 'responsibility' for the state of our lives and contentment. Has this happened to you? Do tell!

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Things are getting interesting! Now our heroine has started online dating for the first time in her life. Especially challenging since her last relationship began prior to the modern technologies! Ang & Mag continue to unpack struggling to know when to run screaming and when to stick it out. Plus, they do a deep dive around online dating which is a pretty crazy place to swim. So here are a few questions for our listeners - How do you know when to draw the line with a new guy versus when to stick it out? Have you ever online-dated and was it successful? 

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So as the show itself gets sillier, we get a little more serious because we delve into the concept around self-love and acceptance. It's a lot easier to think about changing who we are dating than accepting ourselves for who we are! What have you done to find a level of self-acceptance or compassion for your authentic self? Does self-love bring a deeper level of 'happiness' in life or relationships? What do you think? How do YOU do love? Send us a message or a voice memo - I can keep it anonymous if you like and I can disguise your voice! 

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After listening to Chapter 2 of the play, you hear of our heroine trying to make it work by changing herself to fit the guys she meets. Ang & I explore these things: Why is it we ignore red flags in the early stages of dating? Or, we settle for a guy who is clearly not a fit OR we morph ourselves to someone different than our authentic selves OR we pull out all the stops and strut our stuff on a level we can't maintain? What do you think? How do YOU do love? Send us a message or a voice memo and we'll talk about it on the show - I can disguise your voice and leave it anonymous if you like. 

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We cover all kinds of relationship-talk after listening to Christine reject the picture-perfect proposal. Here are some questions: Why don't we want the more available people? Why are we often more attracted to the 'hard to get' people? What about asking for what we need? Has online dating stopped being effective? Is it okay NOT to reply to texts? How does attachment style impact our relationships? Are people newly separated really ready to settle down again? Now it's YOUR turn. How do YOU do love? Have an opinion? Send us a voice memo that we can include on the show. You can keep it confidential - I can even change the sound of your voice to disguise you.

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