In this episode, Trey & Q. talk about hypergamy or the tendency to fawn upon, seek and pursue partners of a higher class, income, or status than themselves. aka marrying up. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Hypergamy Youtube video: youtu.be/yiu5h2rPsSA
Key Points From This Episode:
What is hypergamy? (0:03:10)
Is the man or the woman the prize in the relationship? (0:6:14)
The standards a great father will set for his daughter. (0:6:58)
Hot girl summer influencer mentality of some women today. (0:7:54)
The movie 'Holes' reference to a man coming to the table before taking a father's daughter in marriage. (0:9:05)
When women see wealth, sometimes it translating to stability or comfortability. (0:10:05)
Some of the things Q was looking for in a guy. (0:11:32)
Getting married young and growing together. (0:12:32)
Personal story on how you can feel empty when you put your value in your spouse. (0:13:14)
Discussion on who pays the bills/finances. (0:16:23) Having premarital counseling. (0:16:40)
How your parents can influence your thoughts on finances. (0:17:40)
Having joint accounts for everything, no confusion. (0:19:07)
Personal story of a friend who has separate accounts in marriage. (0:19:57)
Men who look to be supported by there women. (0:21:57)
GAME: Would You Rather. (0:24:36)
Book Recommendation. (0:29:27)
Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode:
Book - Relationship Goals by Michael Todd
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