If you have anything you like share let us know

 In this episode, me and my fiancée sit down to talk about something real—grief. I recently lost my grandfather, and it’s been one of the hardest things I’ve had to face. We wanted to share what this season has looked like for us as a couple—how we’ve been holding each other up, what’s challenged us, and how love looks different when you’re hurting. This conversation is raw, honest, and straight from the heart. If you’re going through loss or supporting someone who is, we hope our story brings some comfort and connection. 

If you have anything you like share let us know

In this episode of How I Did It, I offer a heartfelt message and a word of guidance to Black men everywhere. Dear Black Men is part love letter, part call to rise — a reflection on the power of spiritual leadership, emotional resilience, and the strength it takes to walk in purpose.

I share honest advice rooted in gratitude, encouraging Black men to lead not just with their strength, but with spirit, and emotional intelligence . This episode is about choosing healing over hardness, clarity over chaos, and walking boldly in who you were created to be.

Tune in for encouragement, real talk, and a reminder that your presence matters — more than you may know.

If you have anything you like share let us know

Let’s be real—young love hits different. Whether you're dating seriously, engaged, or already married, navigating relationships in your late teens and early 20s comes with big feelings and even bigger questions.

In this episode, we’re getting into it:

• Why some couples are choosing marriage earlier than ever
• The pressure of “perfect relationships” on social media
• How to build something real when you're still figuring yourself out
• Not operating in your EGO

You’ll hear real talk, real experiences, and some truths people don’t always share about growing up and growing together. Whether you're deep in a relationship or watching your friends say “I do,” this episode gives you perspective—with no judgment, just conversation.

Young love is powerful—but is it built to last? Let’s talk.

If you have anything you like share let us know

I’m back. After taking a month away, How I Did It returns with the first episode of Season 2. There’s no script, no specific topic—just me, the mic, and a conversation from the heart. I talk about where I’ve been, what’s been on my mind, and what’s next for the podcast and for me. If you’ve been riding with me since the beginning, thank you. If you’re new here, welcome. Let’s start this season off real.

If you have anything you like share let us know

In this episode of How I Did It, I open up about my personal journey through grief and the ways adversity has shaped me. This isn’t a highlight reel — it’s an honest look at what it means to keep going when life feels impossible.

I talk about what grief really feels like, how it can show up in unexpected ways, and why there's no "right" way to navigate pain. If you’re struggling, or just need to hear that you’re not alone, this episode is for you.

This is me, telling the truth — about grief, about healing, and about what it takes to survive the storm.

Couples Page:https://www.instagram.com/djandmari/

Couples TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@djandmar

If you have anything you like share let us know

 In this episode of How I Did It, I’m kicking it with my fiancée Amaria for a real Saturday night vibe. We’re diving into the 5 things every man should know in a relationship—the kind of stuff that builds real love, real trust, and real connection. We're talking from experience, laughing, being honest, and keeping it all the way real. Whether you’re in a relationship or figuring one out, this convo’s got something for you. Tap in, chill with us, and let’s talk love. 

If you have anything you like share let us know

Welcome back to How I Did It with your host, Djay! In this episode, I’m getting real about one of the biggest challenges many of us face—managing finances as a young adult in today’s world. From rising costs of living to student loans and trying to save while still enjoying life, I’ll be sharing personal insights, hard lessons, and tips that have helped me stay (somewhat) afloat.

Plus, stick around for a sneak peek at what’s coming up on future episodes, including new guests, topics you’ve asked for, and more behind-the-scenes of how I’m building this podcast.

Hit play, share with a friend who needs to hear this, and don’t forget to subscribe!

If you have anything you like share let us know

In this special episode of How I Did It, I’m joined by someone very close to my heart—my fiancée, Amaria. We’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like navigating love, commitment, and growth as a Gen Z/Millennial couple in today’s world.

From communication struggles to personal growth, the sacrifices relationships require, and learning how to balance independence with togetherness—we’re having a real, unfiltered conversation about the highs, lows, and everything in between.

If you’re in a relationship, want to be, or just curious about what it takes to make love work in our generation, this one’s for you.

Real talk, real love, real challenges—and how we’re learning to overcome them, together.

If you have anything you like share let us know

Episode 2: Cocky vs. Confident – Conquering Your Biggest Opponent (You)
Welcome back to How I Did It! In this Easter Sunday episode, we’re getting real about the thin line between cockiness and confidence. What does it actually mean to believe in yourself without letting ego take the wheel? I’m breaking it down, sharing my own experiences, and helping you recognize the difference—so you can step into your power without stepping on your purpose.

But that’s not all. Today, we’re also digging into the toughest battle most of us face: the one within. Your biggest opponent isn’t out there... it’s you. Let’s talk mindset, growth, and how to start showing up for yourself like you mean it.

Whether you're chilling with family or just taking a quiet moment this Easter, this one’s for you.

If you have anything you like share let us know

Welcome to the debut episode of How I Did It, a podcast about overcoming the challenges that hold us back and the small (and big) wins that push us forward.

In this first episode, I’m getting real about something that affects all of us at some point—procrastination. From putting off passion projects to delaying the tiniest of tasks, I’ve been there. Today, I’ll share what finally got me moving, how I tricked my brain into starting, and what it took to hit record on this podcast.

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just too tired to begin—this one's for you. Let’s talk about it, break it down, and maybe even laugh a little at the excuses we tell ourselves.

This is How I Did It—starting with simply starting.