Returning to Us

How On Earth Do We Deal with Misbehavior?


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Over the last few episodes, Lauren has discussed how other cultures teach cooperation, helpfulness, motivation, and emotional control. This is the first episode in a three part series on how other cultures handle children's misbehavior. 

She discusses six different ways to correct misbehavior

  1. A strong “No” or “The Look.” 
  2. Consequence puzzles
  3. Questions
  4. Responsibility
  5. Actions and not words
  6. Ignoring

The goal is to teach children to use their executive functioning and learn why the misbehavior is not beneficial to them or your family, not to punish.

Lauren answers this week’s listener question during the episode: How do I get my kid to listen? 

Try-at-home tip:  Physical Touch

Mentioned in this episode:

  • Bringing up Bebe - Pamela Druckerman
  • Hunt, Gather, Parent - Michaeleen Doucleff
  • There's No Such Thing as Bad Weather - Linda Akeson McGurk
  • Achtung Baby - Sara Zaske
  • The Danish Way of Parenting - Jessica Joelle Alexander, Dissing Sandahl

Other related resources from The Behavior Hub: 

Blog Post: 

  • Children’s Emotions: How They Work and Behavior Strategies to Try

Podcast:

  • Improve Communication by Giving Kids Choices
  • How to Make Kids Cooperate
  • Helpfulness: How to Make Kids Helpful
  • How to Make Kids Cooperate
  • Instilling Intrinsic Motivation in Your Kids

Our Online Courses

  • From Conflict to Calm: How to Communicate with Challenging Children

Do you have a question? I can answer it in a future episode!

  • Email questions to [email protected] or send via text to 717-693-7744.
  • Subscribe to our mailing list and find out more about the Emotional Brain.
  • Check out our Facebook Group – Raising and Teaching Respectful Children 
  • The Behavior Hub website
  • The Behavior Hub blog

Are you struggling with behaviors and not sure where to begin? Let me help!
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Returning to UsBy Lauren Spigelmyer & Jessica Doering

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